Galmeygaag wrote:too many girls think it is ilbax to delay getting into a relationship and fok, because of education and what not, some even go further and say stability needs to be there before anything. THIS IS NONESENSE. postponing this important event will decrease quality of experience, the end of a virginity is an important milestone for a good relationship, the other stuff you can handle as long as this milestone has been established.
i think this will be one of our big issues in the coming years, and unfortunately it will be my generation who has to face it. i am being quite frank, this shit, it worries me a great deal, to see a new fresh generation working their way into unhealthy future relationships just like most White and Black relationships.
i actually think all these Xalimos studying phsycology will come in handy if nothing is done about this. if your 30 and not married you got issues LMAO
inshallah qeyr.
How the hell do you know these fine ladies are virgin?
. I'd say that most of them are Fraking around, but so are men in their age. I'm personally trying to put of marriage for as long as possible, but then again am a man, with the privilege of not worrying of having kids.
. Women used to get married, because they couldn't support themselves financially. There were not many career opportunities for us and we had to settle down and breed babies. Now, we can become anything and everything we want to become. In some cases we have the opportunity to be much more successful than somali men 
. Now the tables are turning in a marriage. you guys are becoming househusbands while we are bringing home the hard cash. Soon, that number will grow and we will become the stronger, more successful, prominent and dominant gender. In return, we'll have the opportunity to be more selective and men will be the one begging us to marry them. I don't think women need to worry so much about getting married, rather than getting an education. It's important to live our lives, doing what we want, rather than staying home, popping out babies and depending on a man to take care of us financially. No man will love you as much as you can love yourself... The way to love yourself is to become the best you can career wise, education wise and financially. I love my freedom, my independence and my life in general. I don't see myself cooking, cleaning and babysitting a grown man with lugo yar yar iyo weji balaadhan oo weliba af xun oo nayaa dee cunto soo kari igu yidhaahda. A man's company is never and will never be a necessity for my happiness 
