Getting a husband from *back home*

[XaliimoFarax]

BV I aint that soft honestly or over sensitive but I can be extremely sweet and say the sweetest things when I'm in a good mood lol, but I try to see myself above these silly notions, I know grown men who watch their kids, I know grown men who clean the dishes, I know grown men who cook with their wives, I know grown men who due their share of household chores, and before I use to laugh at them for being flower whipped but now I respect them, these are the same men who are trying to make a living for them and their families, because the wife puts in just as much effort in the work environment.

MARRY ME!!! lool

Damn some guys can take lesson from this dude

[FAH1223]

BV I aint that soft honestly or over sensitive but I can be extremely sweet and say the sweetest things when I'm in a good mood lol, but I try to see myself above these silly notions, I know grown men who watch their kids, I know grown men who clean the dishes, I know grown men who cook with their wives, I know grown men who due their share of household chores, and before I use to laugh at them for being flower whipped but now I respect them, these are the same men who are trying to make a living for them and their families, because the wife puts in just as much effort in the work environment.

Saaxib its not about being macho or anything, but marriage there is like a equilibrium man. In My opinion, a Man has to be able to pay for all the bills in the house, ofcourse be part of their kids life. Mother, raise the family. If this equilibrium gets disturbed there are problems. I would never tell My Wife to get a job to pay some of the bills, at the same time I ain't going in no damn kitchen or broom. Don't let these crazed feminists get to You Man.

You lazy if you can't clean some dishes or cook for yourself. Its disgusting how I see in a lot of households women who have to do everything and no one helps out, its not fair to not lend a helping hand. No wonder so many Somali houses are dirty

BTW, who the hell goes to Somalia to find a husband? I guess if you're a FOB, you'll get yourself a FOB.

[Murax]

BV I aint that soft honestly or over sensitive but I can be extremely sweet and say the sweetest things when I'm in a good mood lol, but I try to see myself above these silly notions, I know grown men who watch their kids, I know grown men who clean the dishes, I know grown men who cook with their wives, I know grown men who due their share of household chores, and before I use to laugh at them for being flower whipped but now I respect them, these are the same men who are trying to make a living for them and their families, because the wife puts in just as much effort in the work environment.

Saaxib its not about being macho or anything, but marriage there is like a equilibrium man. In My opinion, a Man has to be able to pay for all the bills in the house, ofcourse be part of their kids life. Mother, raise the family. If this equilibrium gets disturbed there are problems. I would never tell My Wife to get a job to pay some of the bills, at the same time I ain't going in no damn kitchen or broom. Don't let these crazed feminists get to You Man.

You lazy if you can't clean some dishes or cook for yourself. Its disgusting how I see in a lot of households women who have to do everything and no one helps out, its not fair to not lend a helping hand. No wonder so many Somali houses are dirty

BTW, who the hell goes to Somalia to find a husband? I guess if you're a FOB, you'll get yourself a FOB.

I'm dissapointed in You

[FAH1223]

warya, if the Prophet (S) could help out with household chores, then any nicca can

it takes 10-20 minutes of your time

[SultanOrder]

BV I aint that soft honestly or over sensitive but I can be extremely sweet and say the sweetest things when I'm in a good mood lol, but I try to see myself above these silly notions, I know grown men who watch their kids, I know grown men who clean the dishes, I know grown men who cook with their wives, I know grown men who due their share of household chores, and before I use to laugh at them for being flower whipped but now I respect them, these are the same men who are trying to make a living for them and their families, because the wife puts in just as much effort in the work environment.

Saaxib its not about being macho or anything, but marriage there is like a equilibrium man. In My opinion, a Man has to be able to pay for all the bills in the house, ofcourse be part of their kids life. Mother, raise the family. If this equilibrium gets disturbed there are problems. I would never tell My Wife to get a job to pay some of the bills, at the same time I ain't going in no damn kitchen or broom. Don't let these crazed feminists get to You Man.

You serious bro, I aint worried about no one "getting to me" cuz I can think for myself. If you don't read what I wrote in the prism of a perverted social context, it will be clear that I didn't say anything that meant all the time. All I was saying is that it aint no shame to do these things like I previously thought. My self personally I'm more inclined to take care such duties as the bills, the income, fixing things around the house, the garden, discipline, and fadhi ku dirir politics in the modern context.

I'm not completely at where fah is but maybe for the right girl you never know

[SultanOrder]

warya, if the Prophet (S) could help out with household chores, then any nicca can

it takes 10-20 minutes of your time

Waraa don't spread your propaganda at us, that is the biggest lie used against us, I've done chores and maybe I'm not the most efficient as a girl who has been doing them most of her life, but I know damn well it takes more than that. At least tell the truth nicca

[FAH1223]

Vacumming takes like 10 minutes

washing dishes after casho takes 10 minutes, a few more drying and putting them shids away

cleaning your restroom is a good half hour of smelling like bleach

the only chore that takes a long time is washing the carpet gotta be thorough with that

[SultanOrder]

Fah you take the cake, I'm just a poser walle...

[grandpakhalif]

I hate these new age faraxs f-king man up, your only obliged to bring food to the table and spend time with your kids, maybe once in a BLUE MOON you help out and maybe that's on your anniversary or something. Whats with the feminization

[FAH1223]

I hate these new age faraxs f-king man up, your only obliged to bring food to the table and spend time with your kids, maybe once in a BLUE MOON you help out and maybe that's on your anniversary or something. Whats with the feminization

How is cleaning up after your shid feminine?

Since when was the concept of cleaning exclusive to women? Are you saying dudes have to be a mess and have a servant (whether it be their mom or wife) 24/7?

Stfu niccas and pick up your trash, clean your cars atleast

[grandpakhalif]

I hate these new age faraxs f-king man up, your only obliged to bring food to the table and spend time with your kids, maybe once in a BLUE MOON you help out and maybe that's on your anniversary or something. Whats with the feminization

How is cleaning up after your shid feminine?

Since when was the concept of cleaning exclusive to women? Are you saying dudes have to be a mess and have a servant (whether it be their mom or wife) 24/7?

Stfu niccas and pick up your trash, clean your cars atleast

So after a long day of work I am all tired and shit you expect me to put on an apron and start cooking and cleaning? This is unrealistic, I expect dinner on the table and then go to bed.

[Murax]

FAH,

Nicca shut yo soft LAUREL ass up, and stop giving the neo feminists of the world valuble ammo.


PO,

Thats what I meant man. Taking out the trash, fixing stuff, mowing the lawn (If I ever have one), carrying the groceries, any sort of menial, grunt/labor work I'm cool with as well as the bills stuff. Theres just certian ish I ain't doing. I remember when I visited My Grandma in Jeddah, I would go in the kitchen sometimes to make stuff for myself, and My Uncle was like if You keep going in the kitchen, gabdhaha in the house (My cousins) are gonna think You're Gay, literily. Just ask what You want, and waala kuu keena. Every since I've become a Old School Nicca. Besides, You talk about doing that for the "right girl" but Bro, I'm not asking the girl to do Man things because I'm the "Right Guy" therefore, I ain't doing anything out of character for the "right girl".


GrandpaKhalif,

Caabudwaaq folks are rolling in their graves hearing this talk SMH

[FAH1223]

FAH,

Nicca shut yo soft LAUREL ass up, and stop giving the neo feminists of the world valuble ammo.


PO,

Thats what I meant man. Taking out the trash, fixing stuff, mowing the lawn (If I ever have one), carrying the groceries, any sort of menial, grunt/labor work I'm cool with as well as the bills stuff. Theres just certian ish I ain't doing. I remember when I visited My Grandma in Jeddah, I would go in the kitchen sometimes to make stuff for myself, and My Uncle was like if You keep going in the kitchen, gabdhaha in the house (My cousins) are gonna think You're Gay, literily. Just ask what You want, and waala kuu keena. Every since I've become a Old School Nicca. Besides, You talk about doing that for the "right girl" but Bro, I'm not asking the girl to do Man things because I'm the "Right Guy" therefore, I ain't doing anything out of character for the "right girl".


GrandpaKhalif,

Caabudwaaq folks are rolling in their graves hearing this talk SMH

I'm being real!!!

Yo, I was with some distant relatives in Masr I visted and they thought I was GHAREEEEEEEEEEB AWI AWI AWI because I'd wash my own dish

man eff that, Imma do me and I ain't no soft punk... get outta here you Falls Church nicca

[SultanOrder]

Waraa Murax I had the same experience walle

I remember when I first arrived in ethiopia, I had some white t's I wanted to wash, I seen how the girls washed with the bin so I was like ok I can do this, and I was way to shy to ask them to clean it. I grab my shirts out the room and I'm bout to go out when two of my older cousins jump up, shocked like wtf, and ask me what do you think your doing, I was like trying to wash this, he goes NOOOO and is like don't ever do that, he goes straight up that is womens work. He's like just put it in the corner of the house outside and the girls will get to it loool. Next thing I know it's on my bed folded and pressed.

And the girls used to be like hes one of those guys that will get abused by his wife lool. I came back straight up with their mentality and used to get on my sisters case for doing the same shit I was used too. lol

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

Cooking and cleaning is a woman's job, point blank. I'm not talking putting peanut butter & jelly on bread or throwing out a wrapper, lakiin anything you gotta turn the stove on for and heavy duty cleaning is for a woman. The same way women look at their man when something needs fixing or bills need paying. Play your position and no one gets hurt (bruised ego when family/friends come over and wonder what the fuck is going on in that household and why the man is wearing an apron instead of the pants in the relationship )