divorcing my wife SERIOUS TOPIC

[HELWAA]

Xamud

Ilaaha ka baq, adigaba maalin bey taas oo kale ku qabsan.Never advice anyone to divorce because yoma al aakhira wa lagu waydiin.We dont know the whole story so just pray for them

Helwaa waa ruunta, balse labo qof haday is qaban ma fiicno in mid la liido, beside dadkan oo dhan(with the exception of some females) waxay ula taliyen ha fuurin wayo ilmo ayaa idin joogo, balse labada qof haadi ilmo haystan maha micnahedo in mid la liido. Hore lo yirii "Raarti raarti wado iyo nin naag wado midna kama leexdo"

Liido ma aqaan waxay macnaheedo tahay laakin waxaan oo maleenaya inaad oo jeedid la bahdilo.Anigu kolay mushkiladan mesha taala ma arko, Aqal kasta anigu arkay naagta ayaa lacagta biilka gacanta ku haysa because iyada so adeegeysa, ciyaalka dhar oo so iibinaysa o guriga dhan maamuleysa.Maaha ninka ina 24 hours la waydiiyo KEEN KEEN OO LACAG ISII.waxaasi wa dawarsi caadi ah.Xita back home ba naagaha biilka lo dhibii jiray iskaba daa west.Qof aad guursatey waa qof aad noloshaada dhan ku aamintey, ina wax lakala qarqarsado wa laga qurux badan yahy.Marba haday caruur ku dhashayna dee khalaas she owns you.

[Naboleon]

tell her u will divorce her if she continues this, she will get scared of being a garoob. n den si fiican habeenka u was, den she will know her place.

my wife know if she acts i will divorce n beat her, laakin alxamduliallah xaaskayga waa raaliyad.

[Tuba]

tell her u will divorce her if she continues this, she will get scared of being a garoob. n den si fiican habeenka u was, den she will know her place.

my wife know if she acts i will divorce n beat her, laakin alxamduliallah xaaskayga waa raaliyad.

Black mail her into obedience? Hmm I wonder how long that will last.

Cleaning a bathroom once a week takes less than a half hour. Are you really that lazy?

Childish reasons for divorce

[AhmedBoqor]

Rer somalinet

things getting serious



xaaskeyga and me have different opinions

she wants to know all my salary shiid and she wants to manage it

i said i dont anyone to manage my salary. its my responsibility but she said how can there be trust if Ur cant manage Ur salary. i pay for everythign and she saves the money for emergency stuff like moving house or something.

she wants me to do more house chores like cleaning the bathroom and shiid and 1 thing i really hate is cleaning the bathroom

hada qaati ayee taagantahay and she wants divorce

what shall i do PLEASE BE SERIOUS. THIS IS SERIOUS COOLPOISON NOT THE COMEDIAN COOLPOISON

First of all. You need to calm down. Be easy on your wife. Cleaning the bathroom takes only 5 minute. It is healthy to clean your bathroom my friend. You treat her like a strange person. Why you treating a strange person to you. As you said you never tell about your salary. You are not man enough to trust your wife.

My advice to you. Divorce her if you are not responsible enough to tell her everything. I hate when a man treats woman strange. How low I can be.
She is not dumb. She find out that she is not getting fair share treatment from you.

You need to change that ego and be man my friend. That is my advice to you.

Couldn't have said it any better

Either man up or get out, complaining about washing the bathroom is not a sign of a mature dude.

[Naboleon]

tuba

yes, dats how real marriage works.a woman has to know her place

NO MAN SHUD WASH BATHROOM IF UR MARRIED. wallahi waa ceeb rag weyn oo musqul nadiifiniyo

[HELWAA]

^^Not a big deal.You should clean ur shit after you've been in the bathroom

[Mondey]

tuba

yes, dats how real marriage works.a woman has to know her place

NO MAN SHUD WASH BATHROOM IF UR MARRIED. wallahi waa ceeb rag weyn oo musqul nadiifiniyo

exactly,, i used to live in a flat with bunch of guys as bachelors in college days,, i remember we used to clean our own rooms and bathrooms back then as we were students and do no job. but when u are married u get to go to work everyday hence no one should bother u with chores.

[Naboleon]

why marry if u gonna clean ur own bathroom. what else is naag for but cleaning, cookin n givin u pleasure. too many people here r gaalo raac.

[Tuba]

tuba

yes, dats how real marriage works.a woman has to know her place

NO MAN SHUD WASH BATHROOM IF UR MARRIED. wallahi waa ceeb rag weyn oo musqul nadiifiniyo

Nothing wrong with helping out with house work. My father use to cook for us when we were kids.

P.s da prophet scw use to help out with housework. Are you above that?

[ciyaal_warta]

dude stop complaining and reer kaaga dhaqo..if u know her sallary she has every right to know urs...telling ur sallary aint a big deal i know some of my friend's sallary ...do both of u use the toilet?? wtf is wrong with u if she cleans u gota clean it too...qofka wa bini adam not a focking animal or a maid u gota pay her to do ur chores..unless she is a housewife and u are a breadwinner then u can complain do ur part sxb

[yungnfresh]

Nothing wrong with helping out with housework, lakiin the kitchen and bathroom are for the women just as much as mechanical work and handyman jobs are for the men. You can still do things like vacuuming, painting, taking out the garbage, etc. without having to put an apron on in the kitchen or walk around the bathroom with cleaning gloves

As for the money situation, let her hold it. In Islam, her money's hers while your money belongs to both of u. Waa inaad ka war qabtid meeshay lacagta ku baxeeso, but there's nothing wrong with letting her be the bank while you're the accountant.

[Lillaahiya]

You're going to known around town as 'ki xaaskiisa ka tagay markay tidhi suuliga dhaq'.

[yungnfresh]

^ better that than being known around town as "kii xaaskiisa ku qasabtay inuu musqusha dhaqo"

[Lillaahiya]

^ Ma naar ba lagu gala haddi aad musqul maydhid The institution of marriage sidda kubad camal ayaa lagu ciyaaraaya.

[yungnfresh]

Naar laguma galo, lakiin waa cadaab nin weyn oo musqul nadiifinaayo isagoo xaaskiisa caafimad qabto...howsha waala kala leeyahay