Allah guys, I think my cousin is is is is is INTERESTED in

[mcali]

eventhoght it's halal I wouldn't recommend it..they'll break the family apart if they ever divorce or have serious problems.

thats a common excuse people.
bad marriages ruin strangers relations not family.

It's not an excuse I've seen it happen several times.

btw wlc back

I do see where you are coming from but in my opinion cousin marriages are stronger and last longer.
If there is a problem between the two of you you can easily talk to your habaryar or edo rather some distant lunatic mother in law.

----thanks mandeeq hope everything in life is going good.

[*Nobleman*]

I dont get it whats the problem in marrying your cousin

[ManD333q]

well mcali imagine this two cousins who are married and have children together ..one day wife decides he is no good-> bacda madow bananka dhig->everyone begs her to take him back- she says over my dead body- now everyone from his part of the family hates her and children caught in middle. Simple.

and I'v been good thanks.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Adali wtf is "Xooba"..i dont know back in the days..malaah somalidan baad is gursan jiratay...and people moved alot...to different places so they were more likely to marry their neighbors than cousins. ...duhh ( ).
counsin marriage waa iska norm. Dude, most of the mrs in ohio are from cabutwaaq..siiba the subclan u claim...waad yaabaysa wallahi hadad argtid inta rer dalal oo second cousins oo qabta ama is aroosaysa War hadhe even olive's uncle (rer dalal) is married to his first cousin..xita olive's parents are third cousins

[mcali]

well mcali imagine this two cousins who are married and have children together ..one day wife decides he is no good-> bacda madow bananka dhig->everyone begs her to take him back- she says over my dead body- now everyone from his part of the family hates her and children caught in middle. Simple.

and I'v been good thanks.

I have a hard time visualizing this outcome since I've never witnessed it.

If the families hate each other after a divorce then to me they weren't strong to begin with

also allah ha ku siyaadiyo wanaaga ad ku dhex jirtid

[greenday]

Mandeeq my parents and alot of people are married/have married in my family and have divorced they seem to still mingle just like before depended on the people involved i guess.

[mcali]

Mandeeq my parents and alot of people are married/have married in my family and have divorced they seem to still mingle just like before depended on the people involved i guess.

true depends on the people involved and the situation.
Some people divorce on pretty respectable terms and the children barely suffer

[Adali]

Adali wtf is "Xooba"..i dont know back in the days..malaah somalidan baad is gursan jiratay...and people moved alot...to different places so they were more likely to marry their neighbors than cousins. ...duhh ( ).
counsin marriage waa iska norm. Dude, most of the mrs in ohio are from cabutwaaq..siiba the subclan u claim...waad yaabaysa wallahi hadad argtid inta rer dalal oo second cousins oo qabta ama is aroosaysa War hadhe even olive's uncle (rer dalal) is married to his first cousin..xita olive's parents are third cousins

Duh, I know this, didn't I say it is more acceptable these days ? this is something new, Rer Dalal would never marry each other back home in my grandfathers generation, the youth tried to marry their 2nd, 3rd cousins back then and what would happen is they would get a beating from the elders, the whole idea of intra-Rer Dalal marriages used to be shunned, but today is totally different as I said.

Smile get back in your place ina adeer, not only are you trying to school my about Caabudwaaq hadana waxaa rabtaa inaa Rer Dalal i bartid ??? madaxa adagaa.

[OliveOil]

You guys r crazy ma istiraahdeen?? How can you have sex with your cousin and still be okay with it???


P.s. I didn't grow up with him but he lived with us for two years at one point...and he was always grumby/mad...saas oolama hadli jirin

[jalaaludin5]

And they keep getting blonder.

[OliveOil]

And they keep getting blonder.

I think something is wrong with you fellas on this board...a girl creates a topic about something un-interesting to you guys (most at least), then she is a blond all of a sudden....I think you need to check the definition of that bro...and seriously, r u saying that marrying your first cousin is okay in your book??? Well not mine...I'm disgusted

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Sorry I only read the "part inantan ma xooba ba walatahay. Adali i bet ur inbreed
Naya cousin marriage waa iska caadi..as long as ur cousin is not xuux.

[mcali]

You guys r crazy ma istiraahdeen?? How can you have sex with your cousin and still be okay with it???


P.s. I didn't grow up with him but he lived with us for two years at one point...and he was always grumby/mad...saas oolama hadli jirin

I was disgusted by this at one point in my life. Thats cause I grew up in North America. But this world is bigger than North America and has a lot of other customs and not to mention religious points of view. Not until I went to the other side of the world did my opinions change.

And Miss Olive Oil, if you dont like this guys character does it matter whether or not he is your cousin.
Dont marry him.

[jalaaludin5]

I think something is wrong with you fellas on this board...a girl creates a topic about something un-interesting to you guys (most at least), then she is a blond all of a sudden....I think you need to check the definition of that bro...and seriously, r u saying that marrying your first cousin is okay in your book??? Well not mine...I'm disgusted

You fit perfectly into the dumb blond category for bringing family issues and turning it into a discussion.

Keep your disgust to yourself you dippy blond.

[mcali]

And they keep getting blonder.

I think something is wrong with you fellas on this board...a girl creates a topic about something un-interesting to you guys (most at least), then she is a blond all of a sudden....I think you need to check the definition of that bro...and seriously, r u saying that marrying your first cousin is okay in your book??? Well not mine...I'm disgusted

btw olive thanks for making me a foe
I wanted to add you as a friend but I was in for a rude awakening