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Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:11 pm
by Arabmann
I think qoraxeey is at a critical juncture, whereby if she passes it, it's the point of no return. I think she isn't gonna take the necessary steps, therefore, she will remain unmarried for at least one decade, possibly for the rest of her life. I hope the best for her.

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:13 pm
by qoraxeey
Arabman wrote:I think qoraxeey is at a critical juncture, whereby if she passes it, it's the point of no return. I think she isn't gonna take the necessary steps, therefore, she will remain unmarried for at least one decade, possibly for the rest of her life. I hope the best for her.


why do U say that :|

thats very evil .. so U are saying i will die alone because of my personality

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:18 pm
by Alshabaibe
Te Amo and substance are really sweet mashallah.
I like how people are trying to dissect the cause of your problem :lol:
Feel better Qora.

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:19 pm
by AhlulbaytSoldier
Arabman wrote:I think qoraxeey is at a critical juncture, whereby if she passes it, it's the point of no return. I think she isn't gonna take the necessary steps, therefore, she will remain unmarried for at least one decade, possibly for the rest of her life. I hope the best for her.
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
What would you recommend her?

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:21 pm
by qoraxeey
can the MODS

please delete this thread :(

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:28 pm
by miskeen86
there is a wedding in Rinkeby tonight, it is some marehan couple getting married. why don't just go there, u might find a marehan boy. dont forget ur :som: flag :lol:

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:33 pm
by Arabmann
qoraxeey wrote:so U are saying i will die alone because of my personality
Not because of your personality, but because of your high expectations and standards. Plus, you value too much what other people say or will say about you.
HutuKing01 wrote: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
What would you recommend her?
There are tens thousands of girls/women in similar situation. Thousands of 40/50 year olds who never got married. It's a problem facing past and current generations, especially those living in qurbada. My recommendation is to conduct a study consulting Muslim scholars, sociologists and other experts to find the best solution.

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:34 pm
by caburiye1
miskeen86 wrote:there is a wedding in Rinkeby tonight, it is some marehan couple getting married. why don't just go there, u might find a marehan boy. dont forget ur :som: flag :lol:
You guys are all racists and qabilists. Why are all of you limiting her choices to mareexaan. The girl needs a good man. He could be Habargidir, Madhibaan, Ogaden, xawaadle who gives a fock. a good Somali Muslim man. Maybe you guys think the girl is not good for any other tribe now has to go for qaraabo kill.

Qoraxey,

what about My cousin in Stockholm. 36yrs, Sacad reer Jalaf, Handsome. I will give you his facebook ( In PM) if you wish so you can look at his picture. I won't mind you being my dumaashi. I am sure you have a lot to offer to my cousin. What about some bariis, baasto and Some long night S*ex.

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:45 pm
by miskeen86
caburiye1 wrote:
miskeen86 wrote:there is a wedding in Rinkeby tonight, it is some marehan couple getting married. why don't just go there, u might find a marehan boy. dont forget ur :som: flag :lol:
You guys are all racists and qabilists. Why are all of you limiting her choices to mareexaan. The girl needs a good man. He could be Habargidir, Madhibaan, Ogaden, xawaadle who gives a fock. a good Somali Muslim man. Maybe you guys think the girl is not good for any other tribe now has to go for qaraabo kill.

Qoraxey,

what about My cousin in Stockholm. 36yrs, Sacad reer Jalaf, Handsome. I will give you his facebook ( In PM) if you wish so you can look at his picture. I won't mind you being my dumaashi. I am sure you have a lot to offer to my cousin. What about some bariis, baasto and Some long night S*ex.
she said she only wants a marehan man who is a virgin. i told her it's not possible to find one such man in the west. she said all marehan mans are good and should be virgin till they get married. well ....

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:48 pm
by grandpakhalif
Qoraxeey I have my uncle who lives in Sweden, hes 42 yrs old. Would you be interested in entering marriage with him?

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 4:50 pm
by Basra-
[quote="grandpakhalif"]Qoraxeey I have my uncle who lives in Sweden, hes 42 yrs old. Would you be interested in entering marriage with him?[/quote]


cough....akhaas. :cry:

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 5:05 pm
by TeAmo
qoraxeey wrote:TeAmo ... thank you so much for advice .. u are lovely sister


I do spend time with my family alot .. and they are the reason why Iam depressed now to start with .. with their nagging

also i tried to get married

but what do I have to offer to a man ????? ..... Nothing ... I will even make his life miserable

I need to be happy with my life situation first before I get married.

I have seen so many somali girls i used to go with high school who are now all divorced ..Its not worth it..just to go into a marriage like that

Inshallah I will buy a new gym card soon .... It makes me feel free :)



Bbz just because other females marriages ended in divorce doesn't mean yours will. I'm sure you are a beautiful smart girl and your sure as hell entertaining :lol: which any man would be happy to have so don't think like that.

If your family are nagging you and adding more to your depression try finding a hobby like going to some sort of classes, so your not stuck at home all the time when your not workin. Are there no painting, cooking, exercise etc.. classes in center in where you live? Try spending more time with your female cousins go around to theres, go out etc.

Wallahi life is what you make it, try do something positive and fun with it. You've got opportunities take them. Your still young, your not stuck with kids so make the most of your free time coz once you have a family your going to miss being free.

There's loads to do, just make sure to keep busy with things you enjoy. And yeah get a gym membership, gym is fun and you meet loads of crazy people there :lol: also keep in contact with people maybe that's why you lost some friends coz of keeping in contact and when you do speak to them after a while it feels awkward I know how that is.

Aww boo if you lived in London I'd keep you company and cheer you up but I'm sure there are loads of down to earth people in sweden to befriend :heart:

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 5:10 pm
by Tuushi
Go take the longest walk possible.The kind that u end up forgetting why u went out for a walk to begin with.

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 5:12 pm
by Alphanumeric
Tuushi wrote:Go take the longest walk possible.The kind that u end up forgetting why u went out for a walk to begin with.
Make sure you take your bus pass.


I had a walk once that was in total about 8 hours.

Re: Im so depressed :(

Posted: Sun Sep 02, 2012 5:13 pm
by Tuushi
Alphanumeric wrote:
Tuushi wrote:Go take the longest walk possible.The kind that u end up forgetting why u went out for a walk to begin with.
Make sure you take your bus pass.


I had a walk once that was in total about 8 hours.
Great idea.

Was it a trail walk?