Forum rules
This General Forum is for general discussions from daily chitchat to more serious discussions among Somalinet Forums members. Please do not use it as your Personal Message center (PM). If you want to contact a particular person or a group of people, please use the PM feature. If you want to contact the moderators, pls PM them. If you insist leaving a public message for the mods or other members, it will be deleted.
Salool there is nothing you can do about women like that; they are mind f* to believe they are not worth anything. Women who choose to stay in that kind of relationship are generally weak and lack self-esteem, that's why in the first place unconsciously they choose a dominant partner.
Imika ma waxaad ii leedihiin naagaha qaar ba ka hela inu ninku dilo
Iga wala habeen umaan hoyden nin gacan ii qaadey, waxaas wax loo dul qaato maaha, naagti oo samirtaana waa mid bahdi laga qaadey.
walahi way jiran. wa dhab nago in la dilo jecel aya jira lkn kolay si xun in lo dilo maaha.
waxa jiray sheko ka dhacday meel an degana beri hore, naag ka timid degaano aan nagaha la dilin(koonfur) oo la furo haday wax yar isku fahmi wayan aya waxay gursatay nin ah kuwa dumarka dila ah. naagti marki uu qalad ku arkay wuu dilay, reerkodi aya u yimid oo yidhi gabadha no fur naag la dilo maanu arage. waxa dhacay ma rumaysan in ay nagti ninki iyadu ka doratay reerkedi. waxan maqlay nagti si quman ayay ula nooshahay ninkedi.
Sheekadan wa mid aniga igu cusub, inay naagaha qaar dilista ka helaan ma ogayn...You learn somthing new everyday.
No human being deserves physical and emotional abuse. It is UnIslamic and Immoral. Also, Salool
when someone is emotionally defeated, they convince themselves that they are not worth much. She is afraid if she leavea him, no one else will want her.
I'd say if she family you should interfer. Waa naflay.Ilaahay uma abuurin in sidaa qof Naflay ah loogalo.
As for the guy, that motherfucker needs to pick on someone of his Physique.
Somalistan, in badan baanu la talinay naagtan nama maqlayso, we cant force her to leave him, it's up to her.I just hope for her children sake she leavs him soon.
oo gabada rag lama dhalaan miyaa why dont any male relative of hers intervene and directly tell this lunatic to stop the physical abuse directed to his wife or else face prosecution in other words notify the cops and send his ass to jail.. I honestly will not care if that isn't what she wants to be done but hey if i was her brother i cant just watch this lunatic potentially murdering her one day..
couple affairs lama dhex gaalo lakiin this has to be the rare exceptions where intervention is a must!
As a irir samaale man, i am absolutely disgusted on the responses being left by both men and women concerning this topic.
Some of you are making jokes, etc some of you are saying it's natural for a man to literally beat the shit of the girl he loves, and maybe his kids too etc.
that/this
is western/gaalo/haraam thinking,
to make you think men are complete animals and such sick acts are somehow justifiable and normal, so it's 'all good' in a sense
, and to make women think it's okay to choose these men,
thinking there are no good men out there,and to marry the scum of men, thinking you got a good man. This only benefits the evil and the haraam, not the good and halaal, wallahi use your brains somalis! Loser thugs marrying queens, look familiar? Who does that benefit? Not the queens!
And!!!
also to convince men acting this way is completely normal, ( men are naturally moral people, only men who have been brainwashed or lose their morality are evil beware of these, 'i dont give a f' men ladies)
this is how problems start with teen boys, they think this shit is fine,me i've always saw through the bullshit, so when my boys were drinking smoking etc, i f-king let them have it and left their ass and focused on my education, when somali girls would have problems of somali dudes harassing them etc. thinking they were jamcain sluts or hoes
i'd stick up for them, and get those duqons of their backs
i've seen some of my friends almost turn into complete monsters, my own friends yo, which ive known since i was 6 or 7, turn into f-king madows
i completely dropped
them till they went back on the right path, (you know they were 'thug life' and 'bitches are hoes' etc now good nomral people Alhamduallah)
i assure you it is NOT the right way, and it is SICK LIFESTYLE, and DESTROYS COMMUNITIES, and helps nobody.
this type of thinking and lifestyle
will only lead you into more sin,a broken family, a broken community and eventually into hell.
To anyone who thinks wife beating etc. is great, i spit on you,just remember it is a haraam act, no amount of 'culture' will make it halaal
people who want to beat their own wife for no reason, is obviously some sort of mental patient, i cannot understand how someone would do this
and if someone even THOUGHT about doing this to my sisters, or my future daughters, I will not hesitate to kill or hurt them, as you all would do.
so stop the bullshit please
to the OP obviously the girl has self esteem issues and will not leave him willingly,do to her being afraid of him
you need to get ur male relatives and get her out of that sick home before she is killed like the woman in london was. Man up bro.
Somalistan wrote:Lool faarax would you beat up your bro in law?
i probably wouldn't since it wont make any difference considering the fact that she is content in her current situation and all the advice given fall on deaf ear.
Somalistan wrote:Lool faarax would you beat up your bro in law?
i probably wouldn't since it wont make any difference considering the fact that she is content in her current situation and all the advice given fall on deaf ear.
Somalistan wrote:Lool faarax would you beat up your bro in law?
i probably wouldn't since it wont make any difference considering the fact that she is content in her current situation and all the advice given fall on deaf ear.
you have failed as her family man.
ok you beat him up and he takes you to court and lets say you end up in prison. Meanwhile, she and him are still together, getting the usuall beatings every now and then; so tell me what did i set to acheive in this case?
]ok you beat him up and he takes you to court and lets say you end up in prison. Meanwhile, she and him are still together, getting the usuall beatings every now and then; so tell me what did i set to acheive in this case?