Guys - Not interested vs. Playing hard to get

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Re: Guys - Not interested vs. Playing hard to get

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Lol@mommy meetings, I been to one actually. Coolest thing ever but I never went back, ever again.
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BV,

"Solitary confinement"? No, I like a good hike. Don't see why solitary confinement is the only option other than dating/marriage. I'm pretty confident there's more to living.
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Yes there is definitely more to living. If you never meet someone worth settling down with then you can live your life but if you do...then it's dating and marriage :lol:
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"worth settling down with" - way too much to dissect in those four words. But the short response would be "no".
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We'll see how long that lasts. :mrgreen:
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Ain't really something that can be solved by others. So meh. :D
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Not interested is just the first step on the way to getting her. Now if you get "I'm calling the police" I suggest you step back and move to the next fish 8-)
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I keeps it at a hunnid
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Post by AhlulbaytSoldier »

Trying to understand female signs is like opening Pandora's box.
At the end of the day they just like attention and flirt with males.
They like to be told "mashallah sister u look hot" by ten thousand army of males.


Niggers should back off when a bitch says iam not interested. Xiligii tahdiidaadka waa laga baxay. Qasab ma jiro.
Just back the fuck off. There are more fish in the ocean.
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eliteSomali wrote:BV: Some men have unlocked the secrets to summon women at will. :whew: The normal routine goes something like this: She is used to being chased, so she'll expect you to chase her, you chase her, she'll keep playing all sorts of games. Now reverse this process which goes something like this: Stop chasing her, she'll think WTF :mindblown: n the roles will be switched. :lol:

elite, this habit of not chasing them at all pays off - slow pace but it works... U play along, be cool and never make the 1st move. They say women are like a shadow: you chase them and they run away; u run away and they''ll chase u... tried and confirmed formula (again, slow pace but consistent). This rule does not apply on single interaction one-shot deals where u won't prolly see her again - u need to do the normal gambling.
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Post by Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE »

If i am not interested well i am simply not. Playing mind games is so elementary
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People just need to be more straightforward. Saves time
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BlackVelvet wrote:People just need to be more straightforward. Saves time
straightforwardness is very awkward at times...

A good example is that you go to a new country and some1 from the opposite sex helps you with all of your needs. This person is your savior in a way and you don't want to hutrtheir feeling... what would u do? Hit him/her in the gut with straightforward answer or you hit the bushes in hopes of getting him/her off your back?

truth is sometimes the enemy.
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Surely it's more disrespectful to start avoiding the person after you've accepted their help. If you say adiga personally ma ku rabi in a harsh way then yeah it's awkward but there are more polite ways of saying no. But a guy will always say "it's just friendship" "waa is barasho" "walaaltinimo" :arrow: :lol:
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