Being a Second Wife

[Fall]

Hydrogen, you get four chicks why are you complaining? Makes no sense

^ lol. If I wanted 4 chicks I wouldn't use religion to justify it. I would just say I'm horny and I want 4 chicks.

[saacJabshee]

This girl who wants to be a second wife has her head screwed on properly.

No she doesn't. You are only saying this because you want more of them to be like her so they unanimously reduce the standards they give themselves up at.

Fall we only doing what have been allowed to do. Plus there are more women than men,

1.01 male(s)/female (2013 est.)

http://www.indexmundi.com/world/demogra ... ofile.html

No there are not.

might become lesbians and spread curruption amongst us. Its for the best in the long run. You should join us, stop feeling sorry for them.

I think you're confused. The heterosexual man loves lesbians but hates gays. It's not corruption if it's two women who are pleasing men.

Look one of the judgement day signs is that there will be more women than men.

being gay or lesbian is haram. Dont gimme this crap about straight men liking lesbians. Its wrong.

We only playing by the book

[skywalker25]

Hydrogen, you get four chicks why are you complaining? Makes no sense

^ lol. If I wanted 4 chicks I wouldn't use religion to justify it. I would just say I'm horny and I want 4 chicks.

Horniness is simplifying things and making it seem trivial. You are dealing with adults and horniness is a small if not non existent factor. The main factor is a man might want to multiply his seeds and have as many children as possible in his prime. Getting four wifes and claiming the reason behind it is horniness a fool would say when you consider the input four wife's would require and the output what you get in return removing horniness.

Ps, your line of thinking is in line with a females. are you sure...hmmm. No leave it..

[Fall]

Look one of the judgement day signs is that there will be more women than men.

Dajjal step over, the women have it covered

You don't know whether you're coming or going, one moment you're saying more women than men means men should have 4 wives, then the next women moment you're saying more women than men equates to the end of the world

[saacJabshee]

I just gave you one of the signs of judgement

[Fall]

Hydrogen, you get four chicks why are you complaining? Makes no sense

^ lol. If I wanted 4 chicks I wouldn't use religion to justify it. I would just say I'm horny and I want 4 chicks.

Horniness is simplifying things and making it seem trivial. You are dealing with adults and horniness is a small if not non existent factor. The main factor is a man might want to multiply his seeds and have as many children as possible in his prime. Getting four wifes and claiming the reason behind it is something a fool would say when you consider the input four wife's would require and the output what you get in return removing horniness.

Ps, your line of thinking is in line with a females. are you sure...hmmm. No leave it..

My line of thinking is in line with someone who sees the world from an objective perspective. Women contribute to this as much as men do by subscribing to demeaning constructs. You think the average male wants to 'multiply his seeds'? Someone with the mental capacity of saacJabshee who lives like an animal and wants to send his body into a primitive oblivion of arousal? I'm talking about the sinister reasons behind wanting 4 wives. If you want to have more than 1 wife for understandable reasons then it's up to the women who want to take part in this. The only logical time a women would become 1 of those 4 wives is if the man has something to offer with his children, it could be a religious man, a wealthy man, something that benefits the women in some way. When the man in question is a primate like saacJabshee who wants to warp religion and mock it by using it as a tool to facilitate and legitimatize his PornHub.com fantasies, then that's another matter and it's a matter which is highly offensive and degrading to any self-respecting person of religion.

[SANDIEGUY]

Fall, are you saying Islam doesn't allow the men multiple wives? If its only for "horniness" as you say and no other purpose, why would allah in all his wisdom allow it? I hope your not one of these weak minded fools running around this forum in the name of secularism/atheism etc nonsense

[PrettyPrincess]

I dont think there is anything wrong with a man marrying four wives IF he can take care of them. Today you'll see guys on wellfare who are getting married to a new wife every year back home while he deceives the one with 5+ kids that lives with him in Europe! You're not even registered on your family's adress, in the system shes just your girlfriend and your kids were conceived outside marriage according to the system subhannalah!! While you're marrying new wives and bragging about how many children you have' you're neglecting your first wife and your childrens haqh on you! You let your wife cash cheques from the government instead of providing for her and your children grow up with a part-time dad! Brothers if you want to follow the sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) then do it right and STOP using deenta as a exskuse for your foolishness yakhaay!!!

[FarhanYare]

dhaaf qofta waa xaayi ha guursato hadoo yahay qof bilaan karo

kuwa afarta naag gursado lacag badnaa mise nagaha ayaga they contribute some income in sustaining that life style?

[HusseinHassan]

Hydrogen, you get four chicks why are you complaining? Makes no sense

^ lol. If I wanted 4 chicks I wouldn't use religion to justify it. I would just say I'm horny and I want 4 chicks.

Ps, your line of thinking is in line with a females. are you sure...hmmm. No leave it..

skywalker, you do know hydrogen is a female, right?

[SANDIEGUY]

I dont think there is anything wrong with a man marrying four wives IF he can take care of them. Today you'll see guys on wellfare who are getting married to a new wife every year back home while he deceives the one with 5+ kids that lives with him in Europe! You're not even registered on your family's adress, in the system shes just your girlfriend and your kids were conceived outside marriage according to the system subhannalah!! While you're marrying new wives and bragging about how many children you have' you're neglecting your first wife and your childrens haqh on you! You let your wife cash cheques from the government instead of providing for her and your children grow up with a part-time dad! Brothers if you want to follow the sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) then do it right and STOP using deenta as a exskuse for your foolishness yakhaay!!!

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But if allah gave a brother means to care for multiple families and he fulfills his xaqq on the first family then the first wife shouldn't prevent him from marrying another if he so chooses... Is all am saying

[PrettyPrincess]

I dont think there is anything wrong with a man marrying four wives IF he can take care of them. Today you'll see guys on wellfare who are getting married to a new wife every year back home while he deceives the one with 5+ kids that lives with him in Europe! You're not even registered on your family's adress, in the system shes just your girlfriend and your kids were conceived outside marriage according to the system subhannalah!! While you're marrying new wives and bragging about how many children you have' you're neglecting your first wife and your childrens haqh on you! You let your wife cash cheques from the government instead of providing for her and your children grow up with a part-time dad! Brothers if you want to follow the sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) then do it right and STOP using deenta as a exskuse for your foolishness yakhaay!!!

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But if allah gave a brother means to care for multiple families and he fulfills his xaqq on the first family then the first wife shouldn't prevent him from marrying another if he so chooses... Is all am saying

Saax Laakin' She has the right to choose whether or not she wants to continue to be in the relationship and be a second wife OR if she wants to end the relationship and find herself a one woman man, ma fahamtey

[Fall]

I don't even know how to reply to any of this stupidity. I'll tell you what you can do though: buy a book about Arabia before the first millennium, look at the social dynamics of society, look at what being a man and what being a woman meant, look at what men did for a living and what women did for a living. I can assure you before you do any of this that you will not find anything that includes an 'akhi' from the local mosque marrying different women for the sake of it nor will you find someone who claims it's his "right".

[SANDIEGUY]

I dont think there is anything wrong with a man marrying four wives IF he can take care of them. Today you'll see guys on wellfare who are getting married to a new wife every year back home while he deceives the one with 5+ kids that lives with him in Europe! You're not even registered on your family's adress, in the system shes just your girlfriend and your kids were conceived outside marriage according to the system subhannalah!! While you're marrying new wives and bragging about how many children you have' you're neglecting your first wife and your childrens haqh on you! You let your wife cash cheques from the government instead of providing for her and your children grow up with a part-time dad! Brothers if you want to follow the sunnah of the prophet (pbuh) then do it right and STOP using deenta as a exskuse for your foolishness yakhaay!!!

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But if allah gave a brother means to care for multiple families and he fulfills his xaqq on the first family then the first wife shouldn't prevent him from marrying another if he so chooses... Is all am saying

Saax Laakin' She has the right to choose whether or not she wants to continue to be in the relationship and be a second wife OR if she wants to end the relationship and find herself a one woman man, ma fahamtey

Ok here is where the problem comes in. according to which law does she have this right? Shari'a or the laws made by the country, state, etc.. is this a valid reason to break up a marriage and break the household just because she doesn't like it? this is where is hard for some of the sisters here to keep their emotions out of their comments lol.. and dont say "why does he have to marry another and break up the household" either

[saacJabshee]

Sandieguy your right. Alot of girls think they can just end the relationship because the man got a second wife masakinta