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Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:04 pm
by Xamud.
Stuckon21 wrote:
Xamud. wrote:


Stuckon waxaas iska dhaaf ee nabsiga ii so maray adigu armad iga meereysa oo raaliyo marb walbo oo aan baxayo kabaha ii dabo wado noqoneysay?

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Kuwihi kale waxaad ka wayday maay kula tahay inad aniga iga heli? Teeda kale na markan kabaha ku hor qaadayo ma Ina Hassan Tuwaal ba i moodey?

:lol:@Ina Hassan Tuwaal.

Mindha adigaba ka daran kuwi hore, something tells me waxad tahay dumarka markay yara xanaqan raga kuletiga\collar qabsado oo ku daho "war hada ii fur, right now sadexdeydi isii"...

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:05 pm
by Xamud.
Togdeer wrote:This used to happen to my best friends.
His wife was OK, but as soon has he went out his phone would not stop ringing.

Then he just started switching off his phone,
now she don't bother him any more,
she is so independent now manshallah, she don't care no more.

Manshallah weey so wantoday, ilaahey ha u barakeyo.

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:06 pm
by Togdeer
Xamud. wrote:
Togdeer wrote:This used to happen to my best friends.
His wife was OK, but as soon has he went out his phone would not stop ringing.

Then he just started switching off his phone,
now she don't bother him any more,
she is so independent now manshallah, she don't care no more.

Manshallah weey so wantoday, ilaahey ha u barakeyo.
The way I see it, Dumarka lays ma baro.

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:08 pm
by Jugjugwacwac
Xamud. wrote:

:lol: Kuwa Mudug jooga ayaba ugu daran bro, dumar maha kuwas waa niman rag ah oo ku sabaxadeynayo, laakin waan ku tala jira in aan iska donto tu yar oo postal bride ah.
Ninyahow sabbaaxad ayaa dhaanta 100 missed calls iyo yuus habeen iyo maalin ah lol. Markay lugta ii dhigto ayaan anna lagdi lahaa, waaba musaaraco caadi ah. Tolow, dumarka Mudug iyo kuwa Togdheer iyamaa qalafsan?

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:15 pm
by Stuckon21
Xamud. wrote:
Stuckon21 wrote:
Xamud. wrote:


Stuckon waxaas iska dhaaf ee nabsiga ii so maray adigu armad iga meereysa oo raaliyo marb walbo oo aan baxayo kabaha ii dabo wado noqoneysay?

.
Kuwihi kale waxaad ka wayday maay kula tahay inad aniga iga heli? Teeda kale na markan kabaha ku hor qaadayo ma Ina Hassan Tuwaal ba i moodey?

:lol:@Ina Hassan Tuwaal.

Mindha adigaba ka daran kuwi hore, something tells me waxad tahay dumarka markay yara xanaqan raga kuletiga\collar qabsado oo ku daho "war hada ii fur, right now sadexdeydi isii"...
Haa waaban ahay oo weliba intan collar Ka qabto sida askarta ayaan odhan laha "sedexdaba isi" markaas u intu madaxa iyo mijaha I qaado ayu odhan laha "xabiibti raali ahow, reerka an dhaqane raali ahow, ku noqon maaye raali ahow" Ileen wuxu og yahay intu boqorad haystee.


:lol: :arrow:

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:16 pm
by Xamud.
Jugjugwacwac wrote:
Xamud. wrote:

:lol: Kuwa Mudug jooga ayaba ugu daran bro, dumar maha kuwas waa niman rag ah oo ku sabaxadeynayo, laakin waan ku tala jira in aan iska donto tu yar oo postal bride ah.
Ninyahow sabbaaxad ayaa dhaanta 100 missed calls iyo yuus habeen iyo maalin ah lol. Markay lugta ii dhigto ayaan anna lagdi lahaa, waaba musaaraco caadi ah. Tolow, dumarka Mudug iyo kuwa Togdheer iyamaa qalafsan?
Waa isma dhaanto iyo dhashed, ldumarka reer Muduga ma hadal adko ee weey ficil adagyihiin, kuwa Togdheer weey hadal adagyihiin ee ma ficil adko, all in all waa dumar aan la quri karin haadi is fahantin, raga weey ku dhafsinayaan, haadi aad is fahmi weydan laakin...walle afkad gosan aniga ii weydii :lol:

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:18 pm
by Xamud.
:lol: Stuckon ilaahey waxan kaga baryey mid cirka laga so turay oo faro jirjir kugu dharbaxo markad is washid, adiga saxiga keeni doono.

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:42 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
Xamud. wrote:Walaalyaal anigu waxan ahay nin gacan furan oo aad iyo aad u wanaagsan, balse nasiib daro waxa igu so beegmay kuwo wariidkod so habaaren, ila iyo hada jabki kama so kaban oo maanta oo ugu danbeysay aya text msg dagaal ah lay so diray...xitaa suuqa layga xiray oo mid walbo oo aan shuukansado, anaga oo uul iyo dirked ah intan kala tagno ayaa subaxdi markan is daho tii yared bal ka waran doono laygu dahaa "war hana so wiciin, warkago waan hayaa" ....balaaya u waranto..garan mayo halkey salaadu iska qaban weyday.
lool@ warkaga waan hayaa :russ: :dead: naqaskiiba igu dhagay sidan u qoslaayay, xaamuud ilayn wax ba ku gaadhay sxb waxan kugo la talin lahaa magaalda ka guur, magaaalo aan laga garanayn u guur.

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:49 pm
by Stuckon21
Xamud. wrote::lol: Stuckon ilaahey waxan kaga baryey mid cirka laga so turay oo faro jirjir kugu dharbaxo markad is washid, adiga saxiga keeni doono.
Haya! Kaa oo kale gas iyo kabrid ban isku noqonayna.

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:52 pm
by FarhanYare
I think this is minor if she hasn't yet elevated to monitoring his emails, bank account etc. Nagaha qarkood need tarbiyo like kids---- a clear boundary should be set for them

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:53 pm
by Bandit
:wow: so many beta males on this site some guy even holds his wife hand while she's giving birth :wow: I bet they also wipe the baby's butt or even take of kids while the female is hanging out with a friends :russ:

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 2:16 pm
by SelfD
Men and their stupid one-sided perspective.

This is why the divorce rate is high... Idiots that can barely take care of themselves rushing into marriage and then divorce.

Marriage is not an easy thing. It takes patience, compassion and effort from both sides.

Men in general after they get married tend to not realize that they are not a bachelor and should not be out and about all the time. Your family and your work is your first two priorities. Then one weekends, have a guys night and your wife can have a ladies night.

Neither person should feel like a prisoner. If your enjoying ur bachelor ways.. Then by all means, stay single and keep mingling. Just be respectful and understand life will change when you get married.

There's a lot of benefits in a marriage. Studies have even shown this and our deen even highly recommends marriage (half your deen).

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 2:21 pm
by MoAwr
What if he passed the phone over to you???
"saaxiibkay xaamud raba inu ku salaamo">>>>>
>>>"war say hello to her and tell her we are discussing geel and shit"

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 2:30 pm
by Present
Jugjugwacwac wrote:
Cherine wrote:^Naa yuu ku furin adiguna intaad my favourite leedahay :whoa:
Waliba ninku waa reer Mudug oo labo week gudaheed intuu ku xiiso burburo ayuu tu kale ka dabo keenayaa lol.
So its true?? I heard the same :snoop:

Re: Clingy wives

Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 2:31 pm
by zulaika
Xamud. wrote:What is it with women that think tracking their husbands every move is gonna make their marriage more suistainble.

Not long ago I ran into a good friend of mine, we had a chat and he suggested that we should catch up, I agreed so we set a date and parted ways. Fast forward a week and me and the same friend are having a meal together, we have barely begun eating when his phone starts ringing none-stop, at first it seems like a normal husband and wife conversation, but then she begins texting him, his demeanor changes and he keeps lowering his voice for every call that he recieves, it seems as if his wife wants him to come home, so I tell him in a none-invasive way, if he got matters to tend to at home and he needs to go, I would understand, but he tells me that its alright and that his wife is just freaking out over the baby who's crying, mind you, the child is barely a year old and hes just going growing some teeth, besides he tells, his sister and her mother is with her, so she's not by herself.

But his wife won't stop calling, poor guy keeps answering every call, and at this point, I can sense that the atmosphere between them is getting a bit hostile, I can hear her shouting "is your stupid friend date more important than your family" :lol:

At this point, waan iska fahmay ariinta, and even though me and him had planned to stop by his house so I can meet his wife and child(I even bought some gifts for the child) I make up an excuse about how my brother wants me to help him with moving, and I tell him that we should reschedule and catch up another time ...there's no way in hell I'm gonna go see her after all that, I can only imagine how shes gonna be in person....besides I spoke to a mutual friend of ours who was meant to come see us that day, and he told me that she did the same thing to the poor guy last time the two of them met up to attend a meheer.

He's called me a couple of times since, wanting to meet up so we can discuss a business venture he wants to start back home....I keep coming up with lame execuses about not being available, and I think hes starting to sense that I'm avoiding him, but I'm actually not avoiding him, I'm just avoiding his control freak of a wife and her frantic calls.

Now, I'm old school, and I would never put up with a wife that bombards me with calls and texts every time I'm out socializing, waan cayriin laha iyada iyo cunguba. I feel bad for the guy, he's a hard working, god fearing brother with no balwad, she ought to count herself lucky instead of pestering the poor guy with calls.
Throw the baby out with the bath water, literally..