How long will you stay married to the same person?

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

[PrinceDaadi]

No but new culture has to form, we r not yet there.

What about you? Have you resigned yourself to a short marriage?

I thought you said the other day when she/he does a simple mistake give him red card?

In Somali we say " afeef hore lahaw ama adkeysimo danbo". Me m realistic, if it works well and good if doesn't then back to square one.

[Givejeffofree]

Till she dead.

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

One year. Then onto the next one

[zumaale]

I hope to remain married to 2 maryoleys for the duration of my life.

Dreams can come true.

[salool]

Life is full of surprises so Allaho aclam.

[Amira143]

The plan is till we are old and grey lakin Allahu Alam!

[zumaale]

The plan is till we are old and grey lakin Allahu Alam!

He'll cheat on you with a lactating she-camel!

[zulaika]

Forever and ever and ever and ever of this life...and when I die, inshaallaah be reunited in Jannah.

[Amira143]

The plan is till we are old and grey lakin Allahu Alam!

He'll cheat on you with a lactating she-camel!

That's my biggiest worry.

[BlackVelvet]

No but new culture has to form, we r not yet there.

What about you? Have you resigned yourself to a short marriage?

I thought you said the other day when she/he does a simple mistake give him red card?

In Somali we say " afeef hore lahaw ama adkeysimo danbo". Me m realistic, if it works well and good if doesn't then back to square one.

Yes probation is necessary, I mean after probation, that's when you are really married and that's when the timeline starts


You and most of the people who've commented have a point, inshaAllah kheyr

[BlackVelvet]

All the pessimism.

BV, let him off at 50? Was your main goal just to have babies and do it?

Once the kids leave the nest, the real sweetness begins! InshaAllah, I want to grow old with my odey. Arguing and giggling over shaah, bashaaling and travelling. *sigh*

Me, let who off? Ma anigaa? Hell no! I will haunt him beyond the grave


The 50 thing was something girls used to say on SNet. Wanted to see if sentiments changed and it seems they have. Wanting to grow old together, arguing and giggling (amongst other things...) is the new normal

[Hyperactive]

are you married?

man, all the drama i hear from divorce court, i am not gonna consider it as an option.

Imagine if you never met black americans and all of a suddenly they settle u in south side Chicago, o"block with chief keef. Basically the worst ghetto area u can find. You would think that all madows were gang banging savages.


My point is, in divorce court, all u will meet and see are miserable people day in and day out. This will change ur outlook in life.

Give up ur profession man, instead work at places that will uplift ur spirit.

wa runta horta, this career made me see things i shouldnt see or know in first place. but its reality and they exist more than we like to admit.

[Cunaaye25]

key to successful long-term relationship or marriage in my opinion is

-Respect,Respect Respect
-Tolerant to each other
and finally Trust

[Firefly]

For me marriage is for life and after-life too. Two people who genuinely love each other will be reunited in Jannah, inshaAllah. For us Muslims even death does not do us part. That's beautiful.