Marrying Ajnabi, Yasmin and Salah

[barakaboy10]

my best friend is married to an CADAAN girl. she is a few years older than him and she is the one who proposed to him. they are happily married and have three kids together. i go to their house and i see the difference between our culture and their culture. the things that she says about the Somali culture and the phrase that she keeps saying--- "i would never allow my kids to go to a place like Somalia"--- made me wanna have nothing to do with ajnabi.

everyone has the right to marry whoever they want but at the end of the day no one is better than your own.

You see it's things like that really piss me off, does your friend have no balls?

I just don't understand why you would go for a cadaan woman when in my opinion our women are head and shoulders above better for us. People are getting brainwashed by media!

My kids will In Shaa Allaah live in Somalia one day, because Somalia is on the road to recovery and it takes on the whole around the same amount of years a country has been in turmoil for it to reach stability and a growing infrastructure, that is roughly 20 years then. In the meantime I will be growing my empire slowly and steadily so when things are booming I have a large piece of the pie In Shaa Allaah.

my friend is a miskiin guy. she doesn't even want the kids to learn Somali. she is the boss at the house and she tells him what to do or not to do. he can't do anything without her prior permission but he seems to be ok with that. his family is not ok with it but nonetheless it is his choice and they respect that.

as for me, i can never survive a day with such people.

[SteadyState]

Steady, i dont think this is true. new generation do not even know qabil or somali language. i am taking abut people 25 and younger who born in the qurbaha and their parents not FOB.

Shaykh hyper, don't most of us in the qurbaha have parents that are fobs? Why don't you go to your local Somali masjid and ask the young kids about their abtirsi? You'll be surprised how many names they can count. People just hide their qabilism (nothing wrong with being a qabilist in my opinion) these days behind closed doors.

[Hyperactive]

Steady, people i know, do not even know their qabiil. imagine people i am the one who knows qabyalad? somalinimadi bey ba ka araran kuwan arkay.

[Hodan94]

Steady, i dont think this is true. new generation do not even know qabil or somali language. i am taking abut people 25 and younger who born in the qurbaha and their parents not FOB.

I see u havent been on twitter. U will be suprised.

[STARKAST]

Ladies marrying out should only be the business of her fathers/brothers. Thats all that matters. But girls at least upgrade and marry a pious doctor from a reputable family or something, losers just don't cut it, your cut from that prestige Somali cloth you remember..

Note i don't condone marrying out though Lol..

[InaSamaale]

Shaykh hyper, don't most of us in the qurbaha have parents that are fobs? Why don't you go to your local Somali masjid and ask the young kids about their abtirsi? You'll be surprised how many names they can count. People just hide their qabilism (nothing wrong with being a qabilist in my opinion) these days behind closed doors.

How does learning your abtirsi, alone, make you qabilist? People confuse being cultured with qabyaalad. I know many folks, that don't know their abtirsi & are very xenophobic to other Somalis.

I learnt my abtirsi through my grandparents & chances are if you sit with the elders you are more likely to become cultured. This does not have to be shunned or looked down upon. However, thinking you are somehow superior because of that abtirsi is blameworthy.

[SteadyState]

How does learning your abtirsi, alone, make you qabilist? People confuse being cultured with qabyaalad. I know many folks, that don't know their abtirsi & are very xenophobic to other Somalis.

I learnt my abtirsi through my grandparents & chances are if you sit with the elders you are more likely to become cultured. This does not have to be shunned or looked down upon. However, thinking you are somehow superior because of that abtirsi is blameworthy.

I never said learning your abtirsi makes you a qabilist. What I was trying to show hyper was that kids these days know their abtirsi, which must mean they at least know what qabil they are. Whether they are taught qabil politics or not is beside the point, but I'd guess that if they are taught all of this they are also taught which qabils are the "good" ones and which are the "bad" ones.

Also, nothing wrong with being a qabilist. It's human nature to love your own kind and hate the shisheeye. All Somalis are qabilist to an extent whether they want to deny it or not, and we will always be this way. This is why a sustainable central government in Somalia is fundamentally impossible.

[incognito1]

i personally feel sorry for the few women that marry out, i mean they are so short sighted. They dont even think of their kids future, like the somali women who marry the jareers of the u.a.e for money, and who end up hiding their children when family comes over, just because they resemble their father her husband what a discrase.

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Good one garaad good one

[eliteSomali]

All that matters at the end of the day is whether or not you are breaking the Almighty's rules and clearly she doesn't by marrying a cadaan. Y'all need to live people alone to their choices and decisions.