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We need to learn how to be patient with those who stir our emotions to an unstable mode.

generally speaking, girls under the age of 20 like 18 or 17 make sometimes a bad decision with their lives. They have choices and freedom, but I don't like when the freedom to ruin the reputation of your family to the extent of leaving behind altogether that which bonded the family together is the worst path ever taken.

I have exprienced a girl who rejected to come with her father after she was caught inside a house where she has been hiding for two nights. No one ever believed that a girl like her whom everyone know her to be a decent would resort to such a despicable life.


Another girl whom I knew also run away with her boyfriend. He eloped her following a house arrest and severe beating from her elder brothers. She loved him but her parents said no because you know how we give certain clans among us ascribed status.

[quote="Mubeenah"] This country has been mixing for the last 400 years, why should it stop because a few Somali men are insecure? [/quote]

Mubeenah, lets just say you have the Hawiye to blame for this abomination you speak of, because if it was for their ill advised and ill planned upraise we wouldnÂ’t even be discussing about this...

...I ain't even mad at you gurl.

I'll say this though, Damn Hawiye! Damn Hutu's! Damn Mooryaan! And Damn your Parents!

[quote="Mubeenah"]I know this sounds crazy, but it's all real,i am dealing with 2 different guys. One guy is Somali and my parents love him to pieces, he's extremely nice, has a great job and loves me more than anything in the World. The other guy who is an African American is very different, every time I'm with him I feel like a real woman, he's funny, strong minded, and knows what he wants from women and usually gets it which scares me at times.

To make a long story short my parents told the Somali guy to ask for my hand in marriage which he did and now I feel terrible because I am pregnant with the Afro American guys child. What should I do? Should I leave the African American and just be with the Somali guy even though I really don't love him as much? I'm scared now because I'm two months pregnant and I think my parents might disown me. I'm not a fan of killing innocent children, so I will have my child even though it will cause a tremendous amount of stress upon my life.

I have been stressed out for the passed 3 weeks. I just don't know what to do. Plz help me with out insulting me, any advise would be greatly appreciated.[/quote]

Your African American now, what are you doing at a Somali site?

Sweetheart, you shouldnt be at this point....there is no comparing a Somali and a dhagax...Seriously, just sit there and fast forward in your mind to different events that could very well happen in your life together, and think who you'd rather have at your side....I will give you a few examples......




1) Your ayeeyo Ruun calls from back home and needs $500 ASAP for some bullshit project....
2) Eid
3) Your children's life.......
Las but not least....Your parent's heart? is it worth breaking it?



Come on.....a majority of Somali-Ajnabi marriages dont last anyway....save yourself the trouble.




Good Luck and Be Smart!!...I guarantee you will regret this one day....You only have one life...live it the way you want, but just know that there are no do-overs.

Hannah,


Waxaan kaa idhi INAN yar oo FARIIDAD ah baad tahay.


'Tii soo barbaarta oo dalkeeda iyo dadkeeda anfacda'

....... I am the MASTER of my chest; i am the CAPTAIN of my fist....



Ur Brother With Intellectual Glasses In S'net !!!!!!!!!!!

YYY Col\Prof Daanyeer YYY

HannaH,

Garaca yaree half dhagaxa ahna markaa yaa aabo u noqonaaya?

Dhaga, Lol....mid isaguna naag cad soo qabay ayaa uu noqonaya..if you catch my drift....


Danyeer, waxaan ka idhi huuno....adiguu baa imika ogadee...anigu always sidaan iyo si ka fiican ayaan ahaa...

Damn, it feels good to toot your own horn. Shid!

What's wrong if the guy is black? Aren't all africans black? I'm half black myself.

That baby of yours is gonna look good, don't let these focking haters get to you ma. He's getting best of both worlds, now your baby is gonna be packing heat

Yeah sure. And by the time she is 18, she is dancing half naked to a Ludacris video.

[quote="Beenaale_No1"]Yeah sure. And by the time she is 18, she is dancing half naked to a Ludacris video.[/quote]



That's better than dancing half naked on youtube videos wouldn't you say so yourself?

[quote="Rude_Dude"][quote="Beenaale_No1"]Yeah sure. And by the time she is 18, she is dancing half naked to a Ludacris video.[/quote]



That's better than dancing half naked on youtube videos wouldn't you say so yourself?[/quote]

So, you're not Somali, you're just a dhagax who just ran into Somalinet one day. BULLSHIT!

I'm half somali and black ( stop licking your lips) - And no i just didn't stumble on this site, I had a friend who used to come on this site at my school. She's koo but i don't think she comes on here no more.

You say you half somali. So are you muslim?

[quote="Rude_Dude"]I'm half somali and black ( stop licking your lips) - And no i just didn't stumble on this site, I had a friend who used to come on this site at my school. She's koo but i don't think she comes on here no more.[/quote]

So, you're a product of a one night stand... Too many goddamn bastards these days!

Beenaale_No1 - don't worry about that - that don't make me better or worse, i'm still me.



kitten - yes I am a product of a one night stand - It was fun, i got pics too. be gone kitten, go find your clit or somethin.