Somali guys and "proposing"

[Shankaroon_614]

No my mother named all of the children 'caused she suffered so much for them. And I never heard that the father names the first child.

Anyway I'll consider ur advice thnx very much :)

[American-Suufi]

Shankaroon_614

Dear sister, why will you hook up with a guy if you are interested with another guy and not him? Or, is this a Somali episode of Sex and the City?

[HELWAA]

And what is dating horta?....Bal kilmada ii yara fasira...talow ma waxa filimaanta ku arka..a guy
and girl goes to a romantic restourant and look to eachother with hungry eyes..is that a date?????

[smooth]

[quote="Shankaroon_614"]Fah, he has my number. He calls and messages every now and then, but he never pops the question! I can see he is interested as well. Even his cousin/sister noticed.[/quote]

He probably never would. Why should he want to give up his promiscuous life-style and sign his life away with the likes of you? love is just an emotion, and like all emotions they vanish quickly, people marry for reasons beyond the mythical emotions if you havent yet noticed.

[The-Screw]

ala maxaa maraykanka lagu kibray!

[zulaika]

[quote="Shankaroon_614"]Horta mafahmin sababta nimankeena ee arayga "guurka" oola soo boodaan sida wax fudud?

Is it me or the guys I date are too nice/naive/or have soft hearts? Walahi I don't get it. Ok, I have been dating this guy now for like two months and he is already in "LOVE" with me! I am not kidding runti. When a guy asks me for marriage the wrong way or just too early I lose interest in him. Why can't they just waite longer and propose si oo romantic ah??[/quote]


at least they gave the indication that they are interested in long term commitment with you..most dudes are deathly afraid of taking that step so stop complaining huuno.

[Cawar]

Zulaika..educate the young and the naive..good job

I dont know which guys is she talking about..but its the xalimos that start talking about guur in 2 months in my experience..
And the ones who dont ask or hint about guur are saying something like: maxaa iga damacsan tahay?? or where are we headed with this etc etc.. lol

[Somaliweyn]

2 months dating and already proposing?

lol, even if I loved a girl with all of my heart I would never propose within a year. Just wait and see attidute, if she is desperately waiting I would test her patience a bit longer, and when she reaches the climax I would propose to her just to see her explode in tears and joy.

I think that is what Shankaroon is looking for.

[omar1212]

did u have sex with him.
probably u will cry to marry u when hit that shit.
in my experince first fuck then they will cry to marry u. anyways that is wat a date is!!!!!1 in't have sex view months u expected to marry u !
good luck and have good sex, probably he will forget the marry u.

[Fale]

LOOOOL


Waa ZaaaaZ

[AbdiWahab252]

Shankaroon,

I totally understand. It happens too often.

How can a person make up their mind about anyone in 2 months ? I find it suspicious for someone to be so sure of you in such a short time.

What happened to getting to know each other ? You really need to see the good, the bad and the ugly before marrying someone.

[Qatar_isaaq_chick]

First of all they want you before someone else
takes you ..

I hate it if someone rushes into things ..
just such a big turnoff i mean come on..

it ain no marathon .. lol

[Shankaroon_614]

American-Suufi, when I was hooking up with him I was thinking "first come first serve." I got interested in both and so the one I am with asked me first and I was like sure u know..

Helwaa, walaaley old ages kuma jirno!!! Get with the game macaanto. Seems like u r still in that old tradition "Isoo doon then I'll talk to you" Where in the world do u live again? Dating in my world has nothing to do with Xaraam acts!!

smooth, my kind???? Please explain for me? I don't get you.

The Screw u r telling me u have never liked/loved someone b4 and that u never dated even once? Ma adoo Columbus, Ohio dagan miyaa sidatan u hadlaya?

zulaika, macaanto inuu ka fiirsado waxuu isgalinaya ayaa rabaa. Ma ahan sheekadu inuu ku dagdago. Anything could happen.

Cawar, lol who is naive and young? I hope u r not paralleling me to dhoociliin. Maybe gabdhahaa aragtey waa gabdho is nacay.

Somaliweyn, I wouldn't cry but something like that. In laga fiirsado waaye the situation nooh.

omar1212, no sex!!

AbdiWahab, there nust be a reason why he is trying to rush maybe he is running away from someone his family wants for him. Waxaan aamin sanahay labada qof iney is ogaan karin dabeecadahooda dhabta ah until they live under one roof. Their true identities will show!

Qatar_isaaq_chick, lool@ Marathon. Girl that is why I am loosing interest in him now. Its not good to rush into long term relationships.

[HELWAA]

"Helwaa, walaaley old ages kuma jirno!!! Get with the game macaanto. Seems like u r still in that old tradition "Isoo doon then I'll talk to you" Where in the world do u live again? Dating in my world has nothing to do with Xaraam acts!!"



Sorry for my reer baadiniymo....but what do pple do on dates..taa bal iga sheeke....

First You meet the guy in some luuq soo mahaa cus i doubt he will come home to you and ask ur moma...inanti shankaroon meeday...CAAWA SHE IS MINE.

Secundly you are alone with the guy all night whispering in eachothers ears some sweet words. eating from eachthers plate...looking to eachother with desire...imagining him how he looks under all those cloth....huh...i guess no XARAAM ACTS...YAAH!

[Cali_Gaab]

I can imagine you being one of those infamous newly married women.
They get married and the first night in bed with the husband is a night they will never forget.
When he makes a move on you you'd either say "Stop it....i'm muslim"
or you would call your mother on the fone "Allah Hooyooooy, muxu sameenaya wuxu".