Guys which one do you prefer?

[SummerRain]

Labadaan iga kuuraysa walle wa indinka yaabe. Naayada why must you protect his rights and not yours. Anigu I have rights to him as well and if he is going to get another woman when I don't approve of it, then I shall exercise my right to its fullest..ilaahow divorce ba ha noqote.

[HELWAA]

Well Ismahan ur husband have rights to just like you do..thats how beautiful our diin is..everybody are protected even children have rights.No one forced you to stay and share ur husband..the choice is urs...see how simpel it's.

[SummerRain]

All is well helwaa, for every action there is a reaction...hadii uu nin dantiisa yaqaan uu yahay dee this very idea should be foreign to him as far as I'm concerned. Taasi is not up for discussion between us walle. Lakin adigu iyo miskeentan kale oo surrender la yihaad bal aa aragno marki 2 days out of the week aa is aragtan kan ni qaabo

Second wife kulaha...hoogay

[HELWAA]

Ismahan

Let me give u word of advice...tell urself these words " i love him but i can liv without him" and make sure he knows it too.Waliga nin ha isku haleen 100%.The only pple you should trust ur life with should be ur children and ur parents.That will save you alot of headaches my friend.

[SummerRain]

Helwaa,

Sure I can live without him but my husband I trust, so qof dhan aa nolosha la qabsado ma'ahaan? Xaasha, abaay hadi aan ninka trust sinaynin dee guurko oo dhan maad iska dhaaftid? maxaa walwal ku keene?

Nothing is 100%certain for us and we should always hope for the best and be clear about our expectations in a marriage. If things don't turn out the way we can, there is always a way out.

[Shirib]

Ismahan,

Hypothetically, God forbid, if u were unable to bear children would u allow him to take a second wife?

[SummerRain]

Ismahan,

Hypothetically, God forbid, if u were unable to bear children would u allow him to take a second wife?

Wallahi thats one situation I would glady let him take another wife. Subxanallah, I can't be that selfish.

[Shirib]

Ismahan,

Hypothetically, God forbid, if u were unable to bear children would u allow him to take a second wife?

Wallahi thats one situation I would glady let him take another wife. Subxanallah, I can't be that selfish.

dumarkeedi

[HELWAA]

He have to earn ur trust Ismahan.Yes you share a life with him a home a bed but for every year you will discover a new side of him that will either bring you closer to him or build a wall between you. So good luck with ur adventure you have a road full of suprises ahead of you....so put ur belt on and drive save.

[zulaika]

Helwaa,

Sure I can live without him but my husband I trust, so qof dhan aa nolosha la qabsado ma'ahaan? Xaasha, abaay hadi aan ninka trust sinaynin dee guurko oo dhan maad iska dhaaftid? maxaa walwal ku keene?

Nothing is 100%certain for us and we should always hope for the best and be clear about our expectations in a marriage. If things don't turn out the way we can, there is always a way out.

very well said huuno.. who can live like Mr. and Mrs. Smith. waxa hadaan ku qanacsaneyn...the door is always open.