the best cooks are actually menMr. Yungnfresh wrote:Cooking and cleaning is a woman's job, point blank. I'm not talking putting peanut butter & jelly on bread or throwing out a wrapper, lakiin anything you gotta turn the stove on for and heavy duty cleaning is for a woman. The same way women look at their man when something needs fixing or bills need paying. Play your position and no one gets hurt (bruised ego when family/friends come over and wonder what the fuck is going on in that household and why the man is wearing an apron instead of the pants in the relationship)
Getting a husband from *back home*
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
Perfect_Order wrote:Waraa Murax I had the same experience walle
I remember when I first arrived in ethiopia, I had some white t's I wanted to wash, I seen how the girls washed with the bin so I was like ok I can do this, and I was way to shy to ask them to clean it. I grab my shirts out the room and I'm bout to go out when two of my older cousins jump up, shocked like wtf, and ask me what do you think your doing, I was like trying to wash this, he goes NOOOO and is like don't ever do that, he goes straight up that is womens work. He's like just put it in the corner of the house outside and the girls will get to it loool. Next thing I know it's on my bed folded and pressed.
And the girls used to be like hes one of those guys that will get abused by his wife lool. I came back straight up with their mentality and used to get on my sisters case for doing the same shit I was used too. lol
I know what You're talking about. Man maybe this is a OGadeen thing, cuz My cousins who were in the house doing this were OG's. Its like as soon as You walk out the door, they all scramble to Where You sleep, make Your bed, wash Your clothes, etc. Everyday I was wearing a freshly washed pair of draws, Ilahay khayr ha siiyo, waan u duceeyey Walle, lol I felt like I was in heavan Man. Laakin on a serious tip though, if a Wife does do that kinda stuff for Her Hubby, ofcourse the Man will appreciate it, try to do everything He can for Her, and never leave Her..A Raaliyo
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
Those men are also the best hairdressersshaab_ wrote:the best cooks are actually menMr. Yungnfresh wrote:Cooking and cleaning is a woman's job, point blank. I'm not talking putting peanut butter & jelly on bread or throwing out a wrapper, lakiin anything you gotta turn the stove on for and heavy duty cleaning is for a woman. The same way women look at their man when something needs fixing or bills need paying. Play your position and no one gets hurt (bruised ego when family/friends come over and wonder what the fuck is going on in that household and why the man is wearing an apron instead of the pants in the relationship)
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
What about before getting married? A man's gotta look after himself at some point or are you cats planning on being taken care of your mothers, then by your wives? How does that work and what sort of a man does that make you? There's no shame in cleaning after yourself and learning all the necessary skills to take care of yourself. What if your wife gets ill or delivers? Becomes disabled or even dies, leaving you with kids?
I'm appalled by the living conditions of most niggas I know, living in filthy squalors. That's no way to live.
I'm appalled by the living conditions of most niggas I know, living in filthy squalors. That's no way to live.
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
Why on earth QORAXEY goes to shops all the way to Africa and pick an elitarate man who will brush his teeth in the street + in public HAMAANSI and XAAKO TUFIS, when she can get here educated, ambitious and energetic men like emperior?
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
FAH is the man. You should all learn from him, as he has learnt from the beloved prophet
PO you need to be yourself dude, don't let these 'old skool' know it alls make you think that being a 'real man' is expecting a wife to be a shaqaalo with benefits, that's twisted, insecure and misogynistic. Don't be a poser either, just learn to take care of yourself, unless of course you want your wife to be like your mother, that's a different issue which a man should discuss with a therapist.
I don't like to stereotype lakin from my observations, this seems to be accurate
PO you need to be yourself dude, don't let these 'old skool' know it alls make you think that being a 'real man' is expecting a wife to be a shaqaalo with benefits, that's twisted, insecure and misogynistic. Don't be a poser either, just learn to take care of yourself, unless of course you want your wife to be like your mother, that's a different issue which a man should discuss with a therapist.
I was told that OGs are like that. A bit backward and treat women like their inferiors; train them and expect them to be shaqaalo.Murax wrote:Perfect_Order wrote:Waraa Murax I had the same experience walle
I remember when I first arrived in ethiopia, I had some white t's I wanted to wash, I seen how the girls washed with the bin so I was like ok I can do this, and I was way to shy to ask them to clean it. I grab my shirts out the room and I'm bout to go out when two of my older cousins jump up, shocked like wtf, and ask me what do you think your doing, I was like trying to wash this, he goes NOOOO and is like don't ever do that, he goes straight up that is womens work. He's like just put it in the corner of the house outside and the girls will get to it loool. Next thing I know it's on my bed folded and pressed.
And the girls used to be like hes one of those guys that will get abused by his wife lool. I came back straight up with their mentality and used to get on my sisters case for doing the same shit I was used too. lol![]()
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I know what You're talking about. Man maybe this is a OGadeen thing, cuz My cousins who were in the house doing this were OG's. Its like as soon as You walk out the door, they all scramble to Where You sleep, make Your bed, wash Your clothes, etc. Everyday I was wearing a freshly washed pair of draws, Ilahay khayr ha siiyo, waan u duceeyey Walle, lol I felt like I was in heavan Man. Laakin on a serious tip though, if a Wife does do that kinda stuff for Her Hubby, ofcourse the Man will appreciate it, try to do everything He can for Her, and never leave Her..A Raaliyo
I don't like to stereotype lakin from my observations, this seems to be accurate
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
Murax
Raaliyo ninki heelo ayaa ragga nimo ku faana
Raaliyo ninki heelo ayaa ragga nimo ku faana
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
ciyaal_warta wrote:![]()
marmarsiyo miyaa qoraxeey xarfaanki nairobi kusoo jeclaati maa ku qabo rabtaaa cml
what happens in Nairobi , stays in nairobi
maayaa cidna kama so jeclanin nairobi summerkaan
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
Rightwing wrote:Why on earth QORAXEY goes to shops all the way to Africa and pick an elitarate man who will brush his teeth in the street + in public HAMAANSI and XAAKO TUFIS, when she can get here educated, ambitious and energetic men like emperior?
Like Emperior kulahaa
he comes across as a qabiliste ,, reer badiye guy
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
surrender wrote:
thats what i used to think too, but is not tru. Somali women/girls from here are going back to Africa, not just Somalia, but countries like Masar, Kenya, Tanzania and ethiopia and marrying brothers from there. i got two friends who have done that so far. ayagaana soo dhoofsada nimankooda. maasha'Allah.
Masha Allah
now thats what im talking about
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
qoraxeey find me some one gets me american citizen!!
it's win win situation for both of us
it's win win situation for both of us
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
hyperactive wrote:qoraxeey find me some one gets me american citizen!!
it's win win situation for both of us
abowe
i dont live in america
lakin i live in europe . i can get U a wife from here .. then you will have EU citizen
how about that?
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
maya qoraxeey america ka fi'an ban maqlay.lol
Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
hyperactive wrote:maya qoraxeey america ka fi'an ban maqlay.lol
maya maya
been ba lagu sheegay
u have to come and visit here in europe
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Re: Getting a husband from *back home*
i heard meshas ma fi'ana, if you didnt born there or went there when you were really very young.
america better because more diversity and it's equal apportunity if you're really hardworker.
america better because more diversity and it's equal apportunity if you're really hardworker.
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