So how do i protect myself

[Du$ty]

SQ123, What's The Worst Thing You Have Ever Done And You Can Always Marry A Guy From Sweden Or Holland..They Would Love You

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

SubahnAllah, I'm so shocked. Seriously shocked, belly turning shocked, but May Allah swt help you. I don't think this is the best of things to do, by revealing all of this, because at the end it really won't help.

Countless people have asked Scholars about telling people what you have done in the past? And the scholars have all said you DON'T have to reveal your past sins. You don't have to say I was an ex-alcoholic or I'm not a virgin. If they know, they know, but if they don't then Allah swt has concealed your sins and no one has the right to know them.

I'm sorry about the SGN (Somali Gossip Network) but thats how it is, and thats how we Somalis roll. Maybe you should just tell him certain bits, like I went to a club once and it lead me to fornicate? Not the whole shebang. If he is a goody-two-shoes never seen a club or had sex, then he won't like it, but if he himself reformed, he might be sympathetic.

Good luck.

[Complicated19]

Dusty stop taking the piss ... Typical Somalis....You should stay away if u have nothing positive to contribute .

[Nomand]

you should be examined for every STD'S in this world.

i feel sorry for the wadaad ur going to mislead

[BlackVelvet]

It's not?

Oh well, I still think it takes a perverted mongrel to pretend to be a girl and come up with this rubbish. So that means the potential candidates are - you and ...just you for now

You Chicken Shit.. Dont Be Scared Of Cali Gaab

Idiotic pink bubble gum head.

You see Cali Gaab and I have never been on a level, we had 2/3 years of silence so the waters are a bit shaky. I can't throw jokes, the guy is a bit sensitive

Besides he didn't even cross my mind, I almost said Advo but even he's not that bad I think




LMAO at people believing this story

[SomaliQueen123]

Is this your experiment nick then? You should be thankful, you can name all the trannies you've been with and no one will bat an eyelid

It used to be funny but now its just sad, almost 1/4 of the people i slept with i wouldn't remember because i was drunk at the time.

At which point did it start to get sad?

I woke up during the second week of november during my junior year. the guy i was sleeping with said to me do u wanna do this on a regular basis, i said to him no, because tomorrow there will be another guy who will be here in your space. He looked at me and said i don't know weather to call you a complete whore or if i should feel sorry for you. Walahi after that i felt like i knew what he meant. I took me a long time to accept that i lived a cold empty sad life. Also almost a year and a half ago, i wanted to date this guy, i was innocent and i felt like i had a chance to finally turn my life around. He came to me one day and said that he also wanted to go out with me but he heard that i had sex with three of his friends, he asked me if that was true and i said no, he believed me and went to go to use our bathroom, my friend amina came out of no where and said how can u lead him on, you are nothing but a whore and you cant change a whore into a housewife, don't break this guy's heart. I told her to mind her own business and we started to get into it, the guy came out of the bathroom and told us he heard everything. He left and to this day he still doesn't talk to me.

[SomaliQueen123]

you should be examined for every STD'S in this world.

i feel sorry for the wadaad ur going to mislead

Stop being so harash, at least i ADMIT what i did, there are some men and women who don't even say shit and no one know for ever.

[Complicated19]

BV, I give ppl the benefit of the doubt if their story is not impossible

[BlackVelvet]

I woke up during the second week of november during my junior year. the guy i was sleeping with said to me do u wanna do this on a regular basis, i said to him no, because tomorrow there will be another guy who will be here in your space. He looked at me and said i don't know weather to call you a complete whore or if i should feel sorry for you. Walahi after that i felt like i knew what he meant. I took me a long time to accept that i lived a cold empty sad life. Also almost a year and a half ago, i wanted to date this guy, i was innocent and i felt like i had a chance to finally turn my life around. He came to me one day and said that he also wanted to go out with me but he heard that i had sex with three of his friends, he asked me if that was true and i said no, he believed me and went to go to use our bathroom, my friend amina came out of no where and said how can u lead him on, you are nothing but a whore and you cant change a whore into a housewife, don't break this guy's heart. I told her to mind her own business and we started to get into it, the guy came out of the bathroom and told us he heard everything. He left and to this day he still doesn't talk to me.

And when did you decide to change or are you still the same?

[Du$ty]

Dusty stop taking the piss ... Typical Somalis....You should stay away if u have nothing positive to contribute .

You Still Awake
Everyone On Here Is Taking The Piss You Doughnut

You see Cali Gaab and I have never been on a level, we had 2/3 years of silence so the waters are a bit shaky. I can't throw jokes, the guy is a bit sensitive Besides he didn't even cross my mind

The Power Of Cali Gaab

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

The Story is possible I think, though I'm surprised you are alive! This in itself should make every atheist believe in GOD! I mean with the amount of Aids going around these days....btw have you checked yourself? Not trying to be rude.

[SomaliQueen123]

First of all, get rid off bad influences like these friends you are talking about. If you are spending a lot of time with people who do things like drink , it's highly likely you are gonna do the same shit.

Secondly, don't let people chat shit to you saying that you can't change cos walahi EVERYONE was born with the ability to change. Ignore negative comments. Start having a positive mentality if you wanna change.

Thirdly, zina fucks you up trust me. It's normal to feel cheap and used cos you have basically given yourself to someone who doesn't give two shits about you. Sex should be reserved for marriage because marriage is special and so is sex ! Worthless sex will fuck you up. Boyfriend Iyo girlfriend kinda relationships should be avoided too. Also, the main reason for sex is to procreate which is best done in a marriage because it provides a loving and caring home for the child.

Fourtly, avoid alcohol at all costs ... Once you are intoxicated with alcohol , you will do all sorts of shit like have one night stands, get into dangerous situations etc.. Alcohol leads to more sins which makes it a major sin..... Ilahayow naga ilaali... Also , drinking too much fucks up ur liver and you can easily turn into an alcoholic and abuse it..like turning to drink when you are sad or depressed.

Drugs as well have their health effects as I'm sure you know. The higher the class, the more dangerous ... You need to speak to a health professional to help you get off drugs because again , it will fuck u up and u can become addicted . Also, it harms the body so it's haram .

Sixthly, your family don't need to know jack shit. Keep it to yourself .

Seventhly, remember that people come and go and that Allah is the ONLY constant in life! Therefore, I advice you to turn to him . Praying is the key and it is what separates us from the disbelievers. Take things one step at a time . I would start with cutting off people who you think are gonna drag you down.

Your mental health.., if you are having suicidal thoughts whatsoever, it's a sign of depression ..., shaydaanka Iska naar and perhaps go see your doc.


I hope I have helped

And remember , there's hope for everyone, including you!

Thank you walalo, i have talked to another brother tonight and he suggested that i leave my friends and i have to agree. All four of my roommates drink. We get drunk every night and find random men to fuck and if we cant we just pay men to have sex with us. i'm not proud of it but thats the truth. It's very hard to get out of this situation because one of my friends sahro said that she was living and another friend of my said that she was going to tell the world what we did the last seven years, I feel stuck with these girls. we have gone through college, high school. middle school and elementary school together. I felt most happiest when i was at friday prayer, inshallah i will go back this friday and pray again. I will let u guys now if i followed through with it. I haven't prayed for seven years, i don't even remember the al-fatiha. I don;t even know how to pray anymore. I feel like a complete failure. Thank you for your advice. I am trying to take ur advice but its very hard I cannot show up on my parents door steps and say that my friends and i had a big fight because my parents still believe that my friends and i are good girls who still follow allah.

[SomaliQueen123]

First of all, get rid off bad influences like these friends you are talking about. If you are spending a lot of time with people who do things like drink , it's highly likely you are gonna do the same shit.

Secondly, don't let people chat shit to you saying that you can't change cos walahi EVERYONE was born with the ability to change. Ignore negative comments. Start having a positive mentality if you wanna change.

Thirdly, zina fucks you up trust me. It's normal to feel cheap and used cos you have basically given yourself to someone who doesn't give two shits about you. Sex should be reserved for marriage because marriage is special and so is sex ! Worthless sex will fuck you up. Boyfriend Iyo girlfriend kinda relationships should be avoided too. Also, the main reason for sex is to procreate which is best done in a marriage because it provides a loving and caring home for the child.

Fourtly, avoid alcohol at all costs ... Once you are intoxicated with alcohol , you will do all sorts of shit like have one night stands, get into dangerous situations etc.. Alcohol leads to more sins which makes it a major sin..... Ilahayow naga ilaali... Also , drinking too much fucks up ur liver and you can easily turn into an alcoholic and abuse it..like turning to drink when you are sad or depressed.

Drugs as well have their health effects as I'm sure you know. The higher the class, the more dangerous ... You need to speak to a health professional to help you get off drugs because again , it will fuck u up and u can become addicted . Also, it harms the body so it's haram .

Sixthly, your family don't need to know jack shit. Keep it to yourself .

Seventhly, remember that people come and go and that Allah is the ONLY constant in life! Therefore, I advice you to turn to him . Praying is the key and it is what separates us from the disbelievers. Take things one step at a time . I would start with cutting off people who you think are gonna drag you down.

Your mental health.., if you are having suicidal thoughts whatsoever, it's a sign of depression ..., shaydaanka Iska naar and perhaps go see your doc.


I hope I have helped

And remember , there's hope for everyone, including you!

Thank you walalo, i have talked to another brother tonight and he suggested that i leave my friends and i have to agree. All four of my roommates drink. We get drunk every night and find random men to fuck and if we cant we just pay men to have sex with us. i'm not proud of it but thats the truth. It's very hard to get out of this situation because one of my friends sahro said that she was living and another friend of my said that she was going to tell the world what we did the last seven years, I feel stuck with these girls. we have gone through college, high school. middle school and elementary school together. I felt most happiest when i was at friday prayer, inshallah i will go back this friday and pray again. I will let u guys now if i followed through with it. I haven't prayed for seven years, i don't even remember the al-fatiha. I don;t even know how to pray anymore. I feel like a complete failure. Thank you for your advice. I am trying to take ur advice but its very hard I cannot show up on my parents door steps and say that my friends and i had a big fight because my parents still believe that my friends and i are good girls who still follow allah.

[samadoon-waaxid]

somaliqueen,from what u said u were a sad case.i hope u changed now.and the FBI squad are inevitable so I advice u to get on with someone like ur self,or repent and make dua allah sends a good guy,a fool one,your way.

[BlackVelvet]

Dusty stop taking the piss ... Typical Somalis....You should stay away if u have nothing positive to contribute .

You Still Awake
Everyone On Here Is Taking The Piss You Doughnut

You see Cali Gaab and I have never been on a level, we had 2/3 years of silence so the waters are a bit shaky. I can't throw jokes, the guy is a bit sensitive Besides he didn't even cross my mind

The Power Of Cali Gaab

Fail.