Broke dudes and marriage

[Cirwaaq]

I late for an upskill seminar on crisis management perhabs i will pickup a few hints on how to defend my self?

Prepare your wits, warmup your synapses and stretch your fingers...

Kidding sister, have a pleasant day.

[*Nobleman*]

I dunna, All these congratulations made me laugh especially when its not 100% official somaha

[Nabeela]

My dream home.

Nomad for life searching for his Nomadess

Wedding plans:

- a Mosque
- 2 witnesses
- Mehir of a value i have in my wallet agreed in advance and paid on the spot.
- a meal for enough family members to fit into the carvan
- Sufficient gas to get far away but insufficient for a return trip

The rest is a dual with the 7 demons of the week to generate funds on the go

CHEAP.

[Eye]

Preach the truth! If guys can't afford to get married then they shouldn't. Simples.

[FAH1223]

If you don't have money, you ain't got nothing to offer

[1_londoner]

What you've missed: Nobleman is getting married - I made a topic "official Nobleman is getting married thread" and it got deleted. Warsan and I were wondering why, I thought the bride was Firefly (turns out not) or Londoner but apparently it's his cousin, is Londoner his cousin? Other than that, Fah and Xamuud gave themselves another dose of women's oh and Nabeela is the new head admin! Ciyaal and L2S are still shukaansing and Qoraxeey is now officially hot, Fah asked her to pm her photo...another SNet aroos? Oh and speaking of all this gossip, waryaa mentioned something about a gossip section being made

Oh and you should check out OliveOils thread on what kids say to teachers, had me in stitches.

No, Me and Nobleman are not cousins.

[Samatr]

Fah
Sounds like your talking about a leech.
waryaa it's attitude like that makes it acceptable for women to be gold diggers.

[FAH1223]

Fah
Sounds like your talking about a leech.
waryaa it's attitude like that makes it acceptable for women to be gold diggers.

This forum seems to be an anomaly because I see chicks getting married to broke niccaz all the time, but most of those dudes are students in higher education (Master, PHD programs)

[Samatr]

^As long as a person has a goal and its within reach money should not be an issue
if its some nigga working at McDees thats chews everyday, with no goals in sight then I understand.
its called broke for the time being, if she can't be with you when your not balling she shouldn't be with you when you are balling, just my two cents.

[grandpakhalif]

you didnt hear that famous hadith where the a man was so poor but was able to marry a girl by offering his knowledge on quran verses as maher. the prophet accepted this maher. this is beautiful example of how marriage should be made simple and easy. seems like BV here is indirectly supporting ZINA by promoting barriers for easy marriage. So do you want these broke people to commit zina instead of marrying cheaply? subhanallah.

[greenday]

No women should pay for her wedding even if the money is falling out of her pockets. But if the man you want has no money waa fine but he must have potential, then you ether wait till money comes or you have a quite nikkah. The man you marry must have good work ethics eg. does he have a part time job while studying?

Ps. After marriage couples should have joint account because you have become one by then.

[FAH1223]

^As long as a person has a goal and its within reach money should not be an issue
if its some nigga working at McDees thats chews everyday, with no goals in sight then I understand.
its called broke for the time being, if she can't be with you when your not balling she shouldn't be with you when you are balling, just my two cents.

indeed, too many females are waiting for that $500,000 a year nicca to come out of nowhere and then reality sets in after a while

[abdalla11]

this nigga is non stop

[Murax]

Me I'm kinda from the Old School Where I do belive the Man should already have a job, should be able to pay for all/most of the expenses of the family with the other small amount possibly coming from His family. That being said, there are a lot of things BV either doesn't mention or is trying to keep under wraps.


First of all it is 99% of the time the case where it is the Girl who is pressing,pressuring the Guy nonstop on getting married quickly, knowing damn well he is not ready, not even giving him time to sort of try to sort some things out finanacially, etc. Still the Guy should be strong enough to tell her, sit down, relax I'll marry You when I"m ready. It seems a lot of guys are afraid the girl will walk out or something. Secondly the types of weddings a lot of these girls want is sooo unrealistic to expect a Faarax to pay. 70k Weddings in lavish downtown hotels just so they can be the show for one night. Again its up to the Faarax to talk sense into the girl and tell her exactly what his budget is.


One of my buddies got married recently, he was in his last year of school and he met this girl. They really hit it off and the girl wanted to get engaged. They got engaged, he ended up graduating and he got a great job and now they're married. Sure they didn't have a wedding party, but they have a good marriage and the girls who are talking trash about her not having a party are single anyway.

[BlackVelvet]

I dunna, All these congratulations made me laugh especially when its not 100% official somaha

Sorry that we made you blush. Either way I hope it's Londoner

What you've missed: Nobleman is getting married - I made a topic "official Nobleman is getting married thread" and it got deleted. Warsan and I were wondering why, I thought the bride was Firefly (turns out not) or Londoner but apparently it's his cousin, is Londoner his cousin? Other than that, Fah and Xamuud gave themselves another dose of women's oh and Nabeela is the new head admin! Ciyaal and L2S are still shukaansing and Qoraxeey is now officially hot, Fah asked her to pm her photo...another SNet aroos? Oh and speaking of all this gossip, waryaa mentioned something about a gossip section being made

Oh and you should check out OliveOils thread on what kids say to teachers, had me in stitches.

No, Me and Nobleman are not cousins.

OH MY GOD I was just making up random word combinations in my head for Manu and Arsenal and you wont believe what my head came up with