>>>Relationship Topic<<<

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Hey ladies, stop beating down our Somali brothers...they are not really that bad..compare to psycho cadaans or women exploiting madows.

[BlackVelvet]

Yunis but it means nothing without a woman or a girl....

E-SiS jambal ah baad ii dhiibee camal ...i can only point the bad things of the girls i know them in real life abaayo


in my point of view not all ur point are correct...we have a bigger issues and u complain about the least things like kitchen and sexism

Haye what would you say I forgot to mention?

[FAH1223]

Shawty,

If its a male, obviously he is really conservative. Doesn't only pray but prays a lot, prays the qiyam, does the all-nighter qiyams. Doesn't acknowledge the opposite gender at all, does other sunnah related stuff like fasting during the week... if he is a University student he stays in the musallah all day.. that kind of thing. Obviously is a Xaafidh of the Qur'an, knows issues of Fiqh, etc

If its a female, chick is a hijabi or niqabi. Does the same thing the dude does. Doesn't speak at all in front of mixed company (at all). Stays in the musallah all day. And knowledge is simialar to that of the dude.

When I think of wadaad, thats my imagery

BV, If you have problems with Somali dudes... other nationalities have the same sort of issues with regards to your definition of sexism, domestic duties, alcoholism, etc

[Murax]

Dee ofcourse, but no girl will ever just be like lets get married without anything. Even the most super wadaad girl will be like You have to shukaansi Me to some degree. The Type of shukaansi will be diff ofcourse. Still I've never seen or heard of a girl who married a guy without some sort of "relationship" and even the most wadaad will still do it

What sort of 'wadaads' do you know.. Bloody hell..

Ofcourse I don't know any personally, I just know of them..the type of girls that:

Will not allow a guy to talk to them except for marriage
Dress a certain way, cabaayas, good hijaab etc.
Generally looking for specific type guys (Guys with beards, attend halaqas, into learning deen, etc.


Those types

[BlackVelvet]

Fah he didn't ask about other people, we were talking about faraxs. Your new found sense of kinship with Somali men is interesting

[FAH1223]

Fah he didn't ask about other people, we were talking about faraxs. Your new found sense of kinship with Somali men is interesting

And the human race has more in common than you think.

[BlackVelvet]

What I find amusing is that you are in this topic in the first place...

[yunis09]

Yunis but it means nothing without a woman or a girl....

True with out them, there will be one to cook, clean, iron, and no hagbad,
bv you are bang on many points but less with the pessimism! somali life filled with it, be more positive with your out look

[DisplacedDiraac]

Shawty,

If its a male, obviously he is really conservative. Doesn't only pray but prays a lot, prays the qiyam, does the all-nighter qiyams. Doesn't acknowledge the opposite gender at all, does other sunnah related stuff like fasting during the week... if he is a University student he stays in the musallah all day.. that kind of thing. Obviously is a Xaafidh of the Qur'an, knows issues of Fiqh, etc

If its a female, chick is a hijabi or niqabi. Does the same thing the dude does. Doesn't speak at all in front of mixed company (at all). Stays in the musallah all day. And knowledge is simialar to that of the dude.

When I think of wadaad, thats my imagery

Hayee.. That's pretty much how I would define it aswell..


@ Dont know them personally @Murux.. Ooh ok..

[abdisamad3]

bv
all iam saying is try to focus on the positives on each person instead of focusing on the negatives,they cant all be bad, there must be good faraxs where you live, and please let that long list of all the should's faraxs have to achieve before you aprove them die, try instead to make a wish list something you wish for but even if they are below your expectations try to give them a chance or look for something positive, your life will be soo much better and you will become less hatefull to your brothers,

[Enlightened~Sista]

Lol@BV...I think you asked the wrong guy, should've asked Murax instead.

BTW what do you think about the quality of Somali guys here...ofcourse with the exception of loonies like grandpa, abdisamad , Somalian boqor, Coeus etc.?

[abdisamad3]

Hey ladies, stop beating down our Somali brothers...they are not really that bad..compare to psycho cadaans or women exploiting madows.

[HELWAA]

BV

Wax nin somali ah dhaama ma jirto, caawa hadu ku xumeeyana wa la qaban..laakin nin ajaanib ah xagee ba lo raacey hadayna hooyadi soomali ahen ofcourse.Aduunkan qof perfect ahy ma jiro, adiguna perfect ma tihid so love ur brother desbite all their foults.

I share a lineage and history with Somali men and that is where the affection starts and stops. I will not pretend their faults don't exist. I will not marry a Somali man just because he is Somali. Xadoo i xumeeyo wu i xumeeye, him being Somali won't make me feel better about it.

I am not perfect but me being imperfect is not an excuse for all of us to pat each others shoulders and accept the status quo.

Walaalo marry whoever rocks your boat.Aduunkan wax qasab la yedhaah ma jiran, qof kasta waa xor.Laakin ogow qof aad isku dhaqan iyo af tihiin wax ka wanaagsan ma jiran oo caruurtinana khalkhal kuma dhacayo iyo identy crises.Yeah, they have foults just like everybody in the world and pple are diffrent from eachother.Nin kasta oo somali ihi isku mid maaha, wax fiican iyo wax xunba way ka layhiin marka kii qalbigaaga jabiyey iska ilow.

[abdisamad3]

Lol@BV...I think you asked the wrong guy, should've asked Murax instead.

BTW what do you think about the quality of Somali guys here...ofcourse with the exception of loonies like grandpa, abdisamad , Somalian boqor, Coeus etc.?

and why are you insulting me?

[BlackVelvet]

Helwaa I am not talking about myself or marrying ajnabi. Sheekada halkaas maba joogto.

Abdisamad when I meet a farax on the streets I don't throw eggs at him. I don't hate anyone I am just honest about your faults. No one likes to hear it but someone has to say it.

We're not talking about me and any future courtship.