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I will try to answer your question as best as I can. Somali dhaqan to me is based on the lives of somalis before the world was connected by fast transportation and the easy accessibility of the media. That means a big part of out culture is poetry because people would speak somali to each other in a poetic sort of way. When I go back and read the poems of ugaas nuur I am amazed to see the diplomatic level he was thinking on. Truly a man ahead of his time. Also when you listen to the stories of cigaal shidaad you see that somali people made fun of people that were scared of stuff but then again understood that those people who were scared were also more cautious and would live longer lives. Our culture can not be tied down to artifacts and clothing (even though we do have many original artifacts and clothing). Somalia has the largest number of camels anywhere in the world and the second is ethiopia (the somali galbeed region). Somalis who breed these animals are known to be tough and stubborn just like camels. Somalis who grow crop are know to be more patient. I might be going a little of topic but I am trying to basically say our culture is so vast there would be no possible way to describe it in a short period of time.
Growing up in the west myself I understand you completely. If you see a muslim pray 5 times a day here it is mashallah. Deen is the number one priority. I dont want to look too stupid but this

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and whatever other meaning less flag that revovles around polotics is meaningless. However this is very important

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of mine feels complete when I learned about my culture. I have spent a great part of my life playing basketball with african americans. They used to always joke around saying haha go back to your village but when we would talk one on one some would say "man I sure wish I knew where my ancestors where from". When I look at them I see a lost people who have lost their culture in the last 200 plus years.
I felt luckily that I knew where my ancestors (or my parents) were from but felt sad that I knew very little about them. Most of what I know about them is from reading poetry and stories online and also asking family members "how was it back then". Knowing all of this I believe really changed my life for the better. Many people will insult somali culture because of the bad stuff that they witnessed all the while they have no idea of its wonders. All people are not the same and maybe it's not something you would be interested in. All the same learning a language is not a bad thing and especially one that was spoken so eloquently by your ancestors.