Man divorces wife for cheating on him in the 40's.

[Sealion]

Forget about the last part 'cause that doesn't matter. So you're saying if you're not happy in marriage you have to cheat in order to be happy? What happened to common sense? What about leave the relationship & find what makes you happy? And you don't care that the cheating will make the partner, without a doubt, unhappy?

Alpha, do you want any more justification? I want be member of your party, mate.

Listen, in my opinion people who are in happy and fulfilling marriages don't cheat. A happily married man/woman doesn't just drop trouser. This marriage was probably not happy/healthy/perfect/loving. It's an act of self-sabotage/desperation/cowardice. Italian Judo-christian society is rife with double standards/machismo/sexism--he's filing for divorce (despite the FACT I can say with almost absolute certainty he probably strayed sometime during their union for all the aforementioned reasons) because he doesn't want to appear the cuckold. They married 70 yrs ago reportedly in their mid-teens, she probably had little to no say in the course of her life because of societal pressures/expectations. She probably couldn't file for divorce because she was financially dependent on him and/or would suffer communal ostracism for doing. So I feel sorry for her. And I hope because of/keeping in mind all the aforementioned she might finally find some happiness in her twilight years.

[Alphanumeric]

Forget about the last part 'cause that doesn't matter. So you're saying if you're not happy in marriage you have to cheat in order to be happy? What happened to common sense? What about leave the relationship & find what makes you happy? And you don't care that the cheating will make the partner, without a doubt, unhappy?

Alpha, do you want any more justification? I want be member of your party, mate.

It was his fault.

Snetnotes.

[Thuganomics]

^
Western idealism gleaned from romantic novels and Holywood/Bollywood films.A man is by nature a polygamist and only fear of his lord stops him from "dropping his trousers" willy nilly pun not intended

[Sealion]

Forget about the last part 'cause that doesn't matter. So you're saying if you're not happy in marriage you have to cheat in order to be happy? What happened to common sense? What about leave the relationship & find what makes you happy? And you don't care that the cheating will make the partner, without a doubt, unhappy?

Alpha, do you want any more justification? I want be member of your party, mate.

It was his fault.

Snetnotes.

I never wrote that.

[Twist]

Forget about the last part 'cause that doesn't matter. So you're saying if you're not happy in marriage you have to cheat in order to be happy? What happened to common sense? What about leave the relationship & find what makes you happy? And you don't care that the cheating will make the partner, without a doubt, unhappy?

Alpha, do you want any more justification? I want be member of your party, mate.

Listen, in my opinion people who are in happy and fulfilling marriages don't cheat. A happily married man/woman doesn't just drop trouser. This marriage was probably not happy/healthy/perfect/loving. It's an act of self-sabotage/desperation/cowardice. Italian Judo-christian society is rife with double standards/machismo/sexism--he's filing for divorce (despite the FACT I can say with almost absolute certainty he probably strayed sometime during their union for all the aforementioned reasons) because he doesn't want to appear the cuckold. They married 70 yrs ago reportedly in their mid-teens, she probably had little to no say in the course of her life because of societal pressures/expectations. She probably couldn't file for divorce because she was financially dependent on him and/or would suffer communal ostracism for doing. So I feel sorry for her. And I hope because of/keeping in mind all the aforementioned she might finally find some happiness in her twilight years.

Even if we go by that logic & bring hypothetical in to the scenario, he wasn't caught with anything remotely showing he had an affair during their marriage.

Once again, you can go & back and say "it was 40's in Italy; it was something to do with their religion", there were 7 decades after the 40's. If she had any feelings for that "lover" & wasn't happy in her marriage she could have left in the 70's, 80's, 90's 2000? You stay in an unhappy marriage because of "societal pressure and fear" but you can keep love letters from 70 years ago? Not buying that bull-crap.

It is not about a sex battle here. It's that when people want get into long term relationship they have to be in the relationship psychically as well as emotionally or don't get into one in the first place if they have unfinished business.

[Alphanumeric]

You're really going to tackle all those assumptions?

[Twist]

Forget about the last part 'cause that doesn't matter. So you're saying if you're not happy in marriage you have to cheat in order to be happy? What happened to common sense? What about leave the relationship & find what makes you happy? And you don't care that the cheating will make the partner, without a doubt, unhappy?

Alpha, do you want any more justification? I want be member of your party, mate.

It was his fault.

Snetnotes.

LOL! How did I miss this?

Alpha, is her allegation right? Did you make that up?

[Twist]

You're really going to tackle all those assumptions?

Boredom drives me mental, brother-man; boredom.

[Alphanumeric]

Yes. I "fixed" it.

It's the post directly above mine.

[Twist]

LOL!

Snet is kinda boring today/tonight. I think that's because Nanees isn't around here. Where is the witch?

[Nanees]

LOL!

Snet is kinda boring today/tonight. I think that's because Nanees isn't around here. Where is the witch?

busy day at work


call me a witch one more time and I'll expose your real age on snet I wonder how many girls will let u shaxaari them if they knew they could go to jail for it

[Thuganomics]

Speak of the devil and it shall appear

[Nanees]

Speak of the devil and it shall appear

[Thuganomics]

Speak of the devil and it shall appear

Why so so so sad Nans

[Twist]

LOL!

Snet is kinda boring today/tonight. I think that's because Nanees isn't around here. Where is the witch?

busy day at work


call me a witch one more time and I'll expose your real age on snet I wonder how many girls will let u shaxaari them if they knew they could go to jail for it

LOOOOL! I was exactly doing some other shaxaaris in the luuq as well as outside the luuq to forget about this thread.

And what girl doesn't know about my 69 yo of age? Like that number isn't significant enough to remember! Do I have to explain myself any more?

PS: The 14 yo claim was just for you since I heard a rumor you like them young and fresh.