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Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:00 pm
by Alphanumeric
Beans wrote:It is lovely to have strangers converse with u.Mainly because they have something new to share lakiin i was asking coz u said the only time u r quite is when watching a movie.
lets say u r at home and someone else is as well,r u in constant talk with them?
Alpha What keeps u that quite,afraid u r gonna say the wrong thing? coz if it is a choice u have made to keep convos minimum,people will let u go for sure.
Unless there's an actual topic, I just have nothing to say. Usually interrupt the silence by either making a comment about whatever's going on around us, or forcibly laugh at a joke.
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:06 pm
by salool
Alpha
Dont you've anything to talk about, let me give you an exampel: 2 weeks ago i went to the bank and i did't know they changed the time so i had to wait for a whole hour.Guess what onther person showed up and i asked the person since when did they change the time, he had no idea either.Without even asking him the guy started talking about why he was there and about his future plans, about his wife, their budget for a month, how much he save.That he only livid here for 2yrs..he came from pakistan.The hour flew like 5 minuts and let me tell ya he was the one that was talkinng all time.Anigu wan gurayey uun.
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:10 pm
by Alphanumeric
salool wrote:Alpha
Dont you've anything to talk about, let me give you an exampel: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:11 pm
by salool
Beans wrote:It is lovely to have strangers converse with u.Mainly because they have something new to share lakiin i was asking coz u said the only time u r quite is when watching a movie.
lets say u r at home and someone else is as well,r u in constant talk with them?
Alpha What keeps u that quite,afraid u r gonna say the wrong thing? coz if it is a choice u have made to keep convos minimum,people will let u go for sure.
Yes, unless i'm on the phone
Are pple quite in ur household, dont you guys share how ur day been when you havent seen eachother during work or school time
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:13 pm
by salool
Alpha seek help heedhe, waxaas normal maaha
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:15 pm
by Alphanumeric
salool wrote:Alpha seek help heedhe, waxaas normal maaha
My reply to what you said above would be "That's nice.
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I can handle a conversation as long as there's a topic, but to hear someone go on about what happened while they were in line at the bank?
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:18 pm
by Beans
salool wrote:Beans wrote:It is lovely to have strangers converse with u.Mainly because they have something new to share lakiin i was asking coz u said the only time u r quite is when watching a movie.
lets say u r at home and someone else is as well,r u in constant talk with them?
Alpha What keeps u that quite,afraid u r gonna say the wrong thing? coz if it is a choice u have made to keep convos minimum,people will let u go for sure.
Yes, unless i'm on the phone
Are pple quite in ur household, dont you guys share how ur day been when you havent seen eachother during work or school time
Not for the whole time we r together.That sounds very exhausting.
We talk but not all the while for sure and i cant even imagine talking non stop.
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:40 pm
by Hyperactive
lol just when i thought im done with teenage hormones change
. i always hated, tv, music/radio and dadka hadla too, but now i feel im taking it to whole different level!
yes i dont talk salool, i just nod (salam alaykum ta hatta wan iska daayey), i remember people said about me: weelku ma daga la'ayahay.lol
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:13 pm
by salool
Beans
Nobody talks every second, acuudubilaah.Ofcourse you've to eat, sleep, pray, cook and do other things.But once we all gatherd we talk, share and listen. After 9pm i hardly say anything either i'm listning or watching somthing.
Hyper
Naagta aad guursatid waxan ka baqaya inaad ka baxsatid waayo funture ma tihid wa inaad hadashid oo la sheekaystid xaaskaga.Ilayen gidraarka lama shekeysan karte.
Alpha, Listning is good.
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:19 pm
by Alphanumeric
I think I'm a great listener. There just needs to be something to actually listen to
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:29 pm
by Beans
salool wrote:Beans
Nobody talks every second, acuudubilaah.Ofcourse you've to eat, sleep, pray, cook and do other things.But once we all gatherd we talk, share and listen. After 9pm i hardly say anything either i'm listning or watching somthing.
I think i have been alone for far too long.I can be in the same room with a sibling and just listen without saying much at all.
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 2:00 pm
by Hyperactive
lol beans, seems you understand each other with talking.
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:09 pm
by Twist
Selective talking FTW.
There are some people I can talk to some of the time about many things and there are many people that piss me off most of the time for no apparent reason
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:07 pm
by Estarix
If you struggle to hold long convos with guys, then how are you ever going to survive in dates and with girlfriends.
On here you have a lot to say but sound depressed and negative half of time, you need to become more lively. Im reserved and shy, but ive always been like that. I can talk about anything for a long time though. Also stop watching anime man.
Liven up, jump around a room, lift your spirit. You'll change for the better
Re: Relationship Advice
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:16 pm
by abdalla11
Estarix wrote:If you struggle to hold long convos with guys, then how are you ever going to survive in dates and with girlfriends.
On here you have a lot to say but sound depressed and negative half of time, you need to become more lively. Im reserved and shy, but ive always been like that. I can talk about anything for a long time though. Also stop watching anime man.
Liven up, jump around a room, lift your spirit. You'll change for the better
You're a chick?
