Wife searchin' for co-wife. .

[sexy-kitten]

It's cool. Then we should be able to swing!

[Keyblade]

SK,

Yes, I'd assume so. And what in Islam do you think makes permission a prerequisite for marrying a second wife?


I'm just giving you a heads up sis. He doesn't need your permission, and talking about it simply isn't enough. If you want to protect yourself against someone running off and remarrying, then make it a written clause.

Sxb it's common sense. When we get married he gotta know that I'm the one and only. I always make it clear, so you don't have to worry about me calaacaling about "cuuuuuc" and "caaaac, my kasbandh married another biij"

First you say it's Islam, now it's common sense. Which is it ? I think all common sense goes out the window once the thought of marrying another woman is entertained, personally...so if you expect common sense thereafter, I think you're screwed . Go for the insurance like Alpha says, get that shit in black and white.

[Beans]

SK,

Yes, I'd assume so. And what in Islam do you think makes permission a prerequisite for marrying a second wife?


I'm just giving you a heads up sis. He doesn't need your permission, and talking about it simply isn't enough. If you want to protect yourself against someone running off and remarrying, then make it a written clause.

Sxb it's common sense. When we get married he gotta know that I'm the one and only. I always make it clear, so you don't have to worry about me calaacaling about "cuuuuuc" and "caaaac, my kasbandh married another biij"

When the little brain is doing the thinking,the common sense isnt very common.U r lucky if u manage to find out his intention of wanting a second wife before it actually happened.

[salool]

I thought only old women did this kinda arrangement backhome when they get tired of their husbands needs.Naagahan 20+ turtaba may ka dhamaatey mise way nacen nimanmkoodi talow?

[Protagonist]

I dont think this generation of somali girls will allow it , they are all westernised like sk (not that there is anything wrong with that )

[Sealion]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

[salool]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

A divorced woman must wait 3 month before she get married with onther man.

[Alphanumeric]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

A divorced woman must wait 3 month before she get married with onther man.

I wanted to say something, but let it slide.

[salool]

Well Alpha you're too nice but remember what is written here will be viewed by so many.

[Sealion]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

A divorced woman must wait 3 month before she get married with onther man.

In Toronto, you can get an imam to do anything for a little bit of money.

[Alphanumeric]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

A divorced woman must wait 3 month before she get married with onther man.

In Toronto, you can get an imam to do anything for a little bit of money.

Bullshit.

[DisplacedDiraac]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

A divorced woman must wait 3 month before she get married with onther man.

In Toronto, you can get an imam to do anything for a little bit of money.

What?
How can he/you even think he can bend Allah's rules with worthless money?..

[Keyblade]

Never okay! My cousin's hubby asked for a second wife, she divorced his ass and married the next man a week later. boss. dude number one married his fat side piece and they broke up a month later. My cousin who is an incredible wife and mother is still married to the next man.

A divorced woman must wait 3 month before she get married with onther man.

In Toronto, you can get an imam to do anything for a little bit of money.

You do realize you answer to God right, and not an Imam?

[Alphanumeric]

Key, West,

She's saying there are imaam's that will go through with it, not that she is suggesting it be done.

[Keyblade]

ah, i see it. but salool's remark was that it was haraam for a woman to marry before 3 months, not that the availability of imams ready to clear haraam weddings for a bit of cash...so i don't see how mentioning that is relevant at all .