Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Honestly, educated man marrying uneducated wife is one of biggest mistake one can make in his whole of life.
Never having able to have a intellectual conversation with your own wife is like a painful... Especially when it's whole of your life (Or at least till one of you divorces)
Never having able to have a intellectual conversation with your own wife is like a painful... Especially when it's whole of your life (Or at least till one of you divorces)
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
We gotta figure out how to get the educated brothers and sisters hooked up with each other. I don't know why but on both sides for some reason they aren't able to find each other. Quite sad.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
I don't agree, I have seen many Somali chicks who are very educated and/or established business owner, working etc who are unable to find equal partners but instead settle.
I could name 10 chicks on top of my head who have settled, they all go for the religious guy, his education or work background does not matter as long as he prays 5 times a day and observes his basic islamic duties these women are all over that. This is also why most of these women are either first, second or even third wives, because they end up with these guys. This is just something I have noticed in our chicks, the ones who marry outside the race are usually the low lives who have literately done nothing for themselves and in a attempt to turn around their life marry a revert who they meet at an islamic channel event, who has tattoos and a dark past, together they act islamic for a couple of years before it all falls apart since there is no common culture in the marriage.
one thing I agree with the OP is that we do have a surplus of educated women, and not enough men who are up to bar with these women, this is why they take more time looking for the guy before they realize they have to settle, I suggest to those chicks to find not only a practicing muslim guy, but also one who has some potential and ambition, in the end you can always help him reach his potential if he is a decent practicing muslim and somewhat cultured.
I could name 10 chicks on top of my head who have settled, they all go for the religious guy, his education or work background does not matter as long as he prays 5 times a day and observes his basic islamic duties these women are all over that. This is also why most of these women are either first, second or even third wives, because they end up with these guys. This is just something I have noticed in our chicks, the ones who marry outside the race are usually the low lives who have literately done nothing for themselves and in a attempt to turn around their life marry a revert who they meet at an islamic channel event, who has tattoos and a dark past, together they act islamic for a couple of years before it all falls apart since there is no common culture in the marriage.
one thing I agree with the OP is that we do have a surplus of educated women, and not enough men who are up to bar with these women, this is why they take more time looking for the guy before they realize they have to settle, I suggest to those chicks to find not only a practicing muslim guy, but also one who has some potential and ambition, in the end you can always help him reach his potential if he is a decent practicing muslim and somewhat cultured.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Match making $erviceShirib wrote:We gotta figure out how to get the educated brothers and sisters hooked up with each other. I don't know why but on both sides for some reason they aren't able to find each other. Quite sad.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
do u think a lot of Somali's will use it?BlackVelvet wrote:Match making $erviceShirib wrote:We gotta figure out how to get the educated brothers and sisters hooked up with each other. I don't know why but on both sides for some reason they aren't able to find each other. Quite sad.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Yes, get an exclusive client list of the most educated and the most willing to inve$t and help the birds of a feather to flock together.Shirib wrote:do u think a lot of Somali's will use it?BlackVelvet wrote:Match making $erviceShirib wrote:We gotta figure out how to get the educated brothers and sisters hooked up with each other. I don't know why but on both sides for some reason they aren't able to find each other. Quite sad.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Shirib and BV i will pay the seed capital, u can set up that venture.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
I too know drop dead gorgeous girls who all have degrees, are smart, know the deed etc but just can't find a suitable partner. On the other hand we have skanks who have grown up in the worst parts of the city here and have all been road hard and put away wet and they all just got married to miskeen men. I'm just flabbergasted at the thought that any guy let alone a miskeen mama's boy would wife these kind of pathetic chicks up. There's this one girl who I know who is what I just described above. Yes, she's a nice girl. I went to school with her but everybody knows what kind of girl this girl is. Her reputation is laughable here. Word around is she use to give head to the Jamaican boys in high school. Yet she just got married to a nice, mama's boy and the poor guy just impregnated the ho after a month of marriage. I can't. They will for sure get divorced in a few months when he realizes what he got himself into. Just like the saying goes- old habits, die hard.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
hipsterrunoff wrote:I too know drop dead gorgeous girls who all have degrees, are smart, know the deed etc but just can't find a suitable partner. On the other hand we have skanks who have grown up in the worst parts of the city here and have all been road hard and put away wet and they all just got married to miskeen men. I'm just flabbergasted at the thought that any guy let alone a miskeen mama's boy would wife these kind of pathetic chicks up. There's this one girl who I know who is what I just described above. Yes, she's a nice girl. I went to school with her but everybody knows what kind of girl this girl is. Her reputation is laughable here. Word around is she use to give head to the Jamaican boys in high school. Yet she just got married to a nice, mama's boy and the poor guy just impregnated the ho after a month of marriage. I can't. They will for sure get divorced in a few months when he realizes what he got himself into. Just like the saying goes- old habits, die hard.
More likely she got him to knock her up before the nikaah. Bit.ches be evil.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Oh she for sure did. She's 4 months pregnant. You do the math.AbdiWahab252 wrote:More likely she got him to knock her up before the nikaah. Bit.ches be evil.

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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Why do people keep mentioning intellectual conversations? That's the dumbest requirement I've ever seen.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
Not really, nothing is more boring than someone who is intellectually challenged. I mean they are good for the short term BUT not the type you take to meet your friends or attend important functions with.Keyblade wrote:Why do people keep mentioning intellectual conversations? That's the dumbest requirement I've ever seen.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
yous a jealous b***hipsterrunoff wrote:I too know drop dead gorgeous girls who all have degrees, are smart, know the deed etc but just can't find a suitable partner. On the other hand we have skanks who have grown up in the worst parts of the city here and have all been road hard and put away wet and they all just got married to miskeen men. I'm just flabbergasted at the thought that any guy let alone a miskeen mama's boy would wife these kind of pathetic chicks up. There's this one girl who I know who is what I just described above. Yes, she's a nice girl. I went to school with her but everybody knows what kind of girl this girl is. Her reputation is laughable here. Word around is she use to give head to the Jamaican boys in high school. Yet she just got married to a nice, mama's boy and the poor guy just impregnated the ho after a month of marriage. I can't. They will for sure get divorced in a few months when he realizes what he got himself into. Just like the saying goes- old habits, die hard.
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Re: Smart, educated, yet unable to find partners.
The best approach is for a Farax to be upfront about it. Naya if you get preggo, its your business not mine. Capiishhipsterrunoff wrote:Oh she for sure did. She's 4 months pregnant. You do the math.AbdiWahab252 wrote:More likely she got him to knock her up before the nikaah. Bit.ches be evil.

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