Why is Somali culture to nice?

[TeAmo]

Ridiculous entitlements and a bs discussion.

Don't get fooled fellas. There are plenty well-rounded, down to earth girls without these insane selfish delusions. No sense in getting into debt for another's temporary satisfactions.

Make your wife happy and your happy and life is good

If you are not ready to meet the needs of your new home then why get married? I'm sorry but no man is buying me second hand products fxxk outta here with that BS

[Alphanumeric]

Ridiculous entitlements and a bs discussion.

Don't get fooled fellas. There are plenty well-rounded, down to earth girls without these insane selfish delusions. No sense in getting into debt for another's temporary satisfactions.

Make your wife happy and your happy and life is good

If you are not ready to meet the needs of your new home then why get married? I'm sorry but no man is buying me second hand products fxxk outta here with that BS

Firstly, your happiness should never be dependent on the material pleasures of another. That's some foolery you talking.

There's furnishing a home, then there's extravagance. If one can't afford to live comfortably, marriage shouldn't even be on the table. Self-sufficiency should be a priority. In accomplishing that, if incurring a massive debt is still required to marry some chick, she ain't worth it.

[salool]

No way I'm spending 3 stacks on furniture, Maybe $500 for a new sofa, I bet the other stuff like beds stuff you can just buy used matresses for $80 bucks each and a cheap frame for $50 bucks, fridge and stuff will probably be used too.

What the hell is yaradki and gabaati? I don't care what the town says I am only paying the meher for nikaax thats it.

Honeymoon? I will drive to Safari park that will be my honeymoon

[Based]

I don't think I'd ever spend that much on myself, let alone on an institution with a 50% failure rate.

[Alphanumeric]

I'd rather by stocks with Facebook.

[PrinceDaadi]

Prince, labada qof ee is qaba ma waxba kala leeyhiin, ur mony is her mony.Waxaad reerkaaga galeysid maalin uun bad ka faaidi.Maalinta aad naag guursatid wax adiga ku gaari ma jiro, every investment and every move waa inaad iyada kala tashatid.The words, mine and me me me dont exist anymore.Taa maskaxdaada gali

hadii aan waxa wada leenahay why inta lacag meeshi ey taashay looga soo qaado dahab loogu gedaa? inkastoo aanan diidaneyn in aad islaantaada dahab ama guri siisid hadana ma ahan in ey waxaas arooska ku xirnaadan. laba qof marki ey is aroosan wixii ey ka keensato qofina suaal kama keeni karo laakin waxa laga hadlaa waxaa waaye why on God's earth naag hada la aroosaa dubai 10kun dollar dahab looga doonaa eyadoo laga yaabo in tobanaan qof oo qoysaska laba qof ee is aroosaa ka tirsan ey lacagtaa u baahan yihin amaba kan lacagtaan bixinaa uu deyn kusoo qaaday. why on earth ayaad lacag aad deyn kusoo qaaday dahab ugu gedee ama xaflad qaali ah ugu dhigee? all these things dont make sense.

The second thing is ani iyo naagtaan waa is arooseynaa why aniga lacagta arooska u bixinaa hadii ey dhacdo in aan qaxootiyada joogno oo qof waliba shaqeysto waa in ey 50 50 noqataa

[PrinceDaadi]

Inshallah my wedding won't cost more than $1500.

Funture - $3000, thats minimum!
Yaradki - $2000, thats minimum too, if u dont want be the talk of the town, wa inaad ka badisid. -
Gabaati - $2000...
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Aroos????
Honymoon?????
Dahabkii?????
Marinkii????

You better start saving young boy!

what is yarad and gabaati? i know sooryo and you can give anything you want there is no defined amount. 500 should be enough. furniture and lunch should cost around 3k. the rest is useless.

[Alphanumeric]

what is yarad and gabaati? i know sooryo and you can give anything you want there is no defined amount. 500 should be enough. furniture and lunch should cost around 3k. the rest is useless.

She's making up words, man. Clearly there's some scam going on lol.

[grandpakhalif]

Don't you know the Prophet said the more modest the a wedding is the more barakah is in the marriage.

these girls just don't learn

[PrinceDaadi]

what is yarad and gabaati? i know sooryo and you can give anything you want there is no defined amount. 500 should be enough. furniture and lunch should cost around 3k. the rest is useless.

She's making up words, man. Clearly there's some scam going on lol.

I never understood Somalis and marriage. renting an apartment, buying a furniture and lunch which will cover both nikah and the so called aroos should be enouugh. after that what ever happens depends on the new couple. whether u take her to honeymoon or buy gold for her is a different matter but there should be no extortion.

[Alphanumeric]

Don't you know the Prophet said the more modest the a wedding is the more barakah is in the marriage.

these girls just don't learn

That doesn't mean there shouldn't be a feast and a party. Don't skimp out on your own celebration, now.

All things in moderation. Except shah.

I never understood Somalis and marriage. renting an apartment, buying a furniture and lunch which will cover both nikah and the so called aroos should be enouugh. after that what ever happens depends on the new couple. whether u take her to honeymoon or buy gold for her is a different matter but there should be no extortion.

Yup, and you know I already agree. Though I think if a guy isn't already capable of renting an apartment in a comfortable and safe neighbourhood, he shouldn't think about marriage. If a girl hasn't attained her own goals in life, she shouldn't look to marriage. People gotta focus on themselves, and not some ridiculous notion of spending to impress.

[grandpakhalif]

I agree alpha a modest venue for a wedding celebration should occur, which is reasonable price.

[metamorphosis]

I don't think I'd ever spend that much on myself, let alone on an institution with a 50% failure rate.

Does it matter if money isnt an issue at all?

[Hyperactive]

i dont think somali culture is nice at all. your family are nice.

[salool]

Prince, gabaatigu iniku sooryo ayaad tidhaahdan baan filaya, oo wa lacagta mesha lagu qaybsado marku meherku dhaco.Yaradka reerka aad inanta ka guursatey ba iska leh oo isagu waa gooni.