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hyperactive wrote:

waha ika daran kan halka fadiya o iska dawanaya. bal mo haweenyda ka qabta kan hayawanka ah!.

faraaxoos1 wrote:

hyperactive wrote:

waha ika daran kan halka fadiya o iska dawanaya. bal mo haweenyda ka qabta kan hayawanka ah!.

Welcome to africa hyper baarasho wanagsan

hyperactive wrote:
waha ika daran kan halka fadiya o iska dawanaya. bal mo haweenyda ka qabta kan hayawanka ah!.

what about the one taking the picture could be all acting. etc.

gabadhu hadday kibirto oo ninkeeda ku kibirto ina la garaaco oo cashar loo dhigo way fiicantahay laakiin ina si cadowtinimo ah loo dilo ama la dulmiyo ma fiicna.qurbaha waxan ku arkaa rag naagahoodu dadka ku horcaayaan ama gacantaba ula tagan iyadoo la arkayo .waxa fiican inay labada is xushmeeyaan oo isu dulqaataan haddii taasi suurtogeliweydana ina si fiican loo kala tago ayaa fiican.ninku inuu caruurtoo arkaysa hooyadood ku horgaraaco ma fiicna waayo caruurtu aabohood cuqdad ayay ka qaadayaan waanay la coloobayaan oo weligood ilaabimaayaan.

kaliil wrote:gabadhu hadday kibirto oo ninkeeda ku kibirto ina la garaaco oo cashar loo dhigo way fiicantahay laakiin ina si cadowtinimo ah loo dilo ama la dulmiyo ma fiicna.qurbaha waxan ku arkaa rag naagahoodu dadka ku horcaayaan ama gacantaba ula tagan iyadoo la arkayo .waxa fiican inay labada is xushmeeyaan oo isu dulqaataan haddii taasi suurtogeliweydana ina si fiican loo kala tago ayaa fiican.ninku inuu caruurtoo arkaysa hooyadood ku horgaraaco ma fiicna waayo caruurtu aabohood cuqdad ayay ka qaadayaan waanay la coloobayaan oo weligood ilaabimaayaan.

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waryaa wrote:

hyperactive wrote:
waha ika daran kan halka fadiya o iska dawanaya. bal mo haweenyda ka qabta kan hayawanka ah!.

what about the one taking the picture could be all acting. etc.

that is one mean fer (punch)

A lot of the time the women who choose to stay in these relationships have low self-esteem so they might think that they deserve it or that they can't find anyone better, might have been physically abused before (even in childhood), might have grown up seeing their own parent being beat regularly, and if there are children, they don't want to deprive their children of their father. But if he is beating the wife regularly and sometimes out of control, it's highly likely he will turn to his children to beat. Children who grow up knowing that their parent is being beat grow up in fear and anxiety. They would be better off if they're parents divorced. I don't know why people seem to think that the children will always be distraught if their parents divorced. That's usually cadan children who react that way or children who grew up seeing their parents get along, so it comes as a shock.

Somali men that beat up their wives in America ruin their lives

1. Husband go to jail
2. Husband gets a criminal record
2. Wives divorce them and kick them out so husband becomes homeless
3. Women get child support from the husbands check till the kids are 18 + welfare


Somali Women in America win all the way to the bank when their men hit them.

Somali men end up with criminal records, less pay, and living in the basement of relatives. Personally know one Somali brother that is in jail as I write this. He wishes that he never hit her. It was not worth it. She on the other hand is happily filing all charges and paperwork against him with her new fiance.

bluelovelady wrote:Somali men that beat up their wives in America ruin their lives

1. Husband go to jail
2. Husband gets a criminal record
2. Wives divorce them and kick them out so husband becomes homeless
3. Women get child support from the husbands check till the kids are 18 + welfare


Somali Women in America win all the way to the bank when their men hit them.

Somali men end up with criminal records, less pay, and living in the basement of relatives. Personally know one Somali brother that is in jail as I write this. He wishes that he never hit her. It was not worth it. She on the other hand is happily filing all charges and paperwork against him with her new fiance.

Most likely, he beat her many times. And badly as well if she was willing to press charges and have him jailed. It wouldn't be acceptable if he did that to his boss so why would should it be acceptable if he did that to his wife?

Cushiticreflections you are right. He beat her for two years. She hid it until she ended up in the emergency room. She is a very beautiful and nice girl who didn't deserve abuse But now her family knows everything so they are making her press every charge and I don't feel sorry for him at all even though he swears that he is sorry and won't do it again, he just didn't understand American law. But it is bad that he will never get to know his baby son since he has a restraining order against him. He deeply regrets that he lost his only son, but every action has consequences.

bluelovelady wrote:he swears that he is sorry and won't do it again

That's what they all say! Studies/statistics show once it starts it never stops until the victim dies or ends the marriage/relationship.

first slap? head the door and never come back.

Male victims have added social and psychological burden: it is very difficult for a male to tell he's a victim of spousal abuse A male calling domestic abuse hotline: priceless

I passionetly despise any grown azz man who beats his woman up if she gets a little rude slap in the cheek would be enough and besides it wont do regrettable harm

hargaysaay wrote:I passionetly despise any grown azz man who beats his woman up if she gets a little rude slap in the cheek would be enough and besides it wont do regrettable harm

What about the husband of this woman would you despise him for giving her a slap

(Wuxu ma Eeey baa)

Thuga if things get a little out of hand one soft slap would be just fine