What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Upward mobility is tough for any people of color. White privilege is everywhere you turn.

And more often than not it's a lack of a father that causes destructions of the family unit. The African American community is the perfect example of that with their women running around everywhere and their boys going to jail or being useless. Somalis have replicated it to a point with many men abandoning their families leaving a void that Hooyo can't do by herself esp when she has 6 kids to feed.
Void? Wanting to be a daddy's girl and having my father's validation is the only void there is. Last time I checked, only one of us is working 2 jobs and in school. Only one of us is struggling. I'm sorry my mom didn't just sit at home and look pretty. She actually built her own life and didn't accept settling as the best option. Does your soul burn to know that a woman could adequately provide and raise a family better than any "man?"

What is your obsession with trying to make African Americans seem less well-to-do than you are? Newsflash, you're black! White America has an equal disdain for anyone originating from Africa. And no, single-parent families is a very new concept in African American family life. You're overlooking systematic and institutional factors outside the family (i.e. housing, education, criminal justice system). Don't make this just a race thing. It has more to do with class than race. Bitch.
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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SavySallySupersedes,

There is one thing in Your list You are dead wrong on, and that is the 22 years old living at home thing. I would actually go the opposite and say if they are NOT living at home, then the guy is a chump. The Guy gets supported by His parents through elementery school, middle school, high school, College and then as soon as they get their first job instead of giving back and helping their miskiin parents with the bills they hightail out and get their own place. That is weak and cowardly. A real man not some faggat, will at least for a couple years stay back and help their family out who supported Him His whole life with the bills and make sure that the family is in a stable good financial situation before they move on and get married or what not. Just going and living on Your own, who are we kidding we're not Americans who's parents have retirement, pension plans and what not. If they do decide to just live somewhere else for the sake of living somewhere else they still better be ready to pay two rents. If Your family is on public housing, step up and help Your family bust that public housing in the ass until Your younger siblings come of age and take Your place, freeing You up to start a family or whatever. I'm not saying this to brag or anything but one time I did live on my own for about a year cuz My job was extremely far and I was paying two rents, 1 at home, 1 where I lived.


The problem with a 20 something year old living at home is if they are not contributing.
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Mama's boys :down:
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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who care about somali men ..there are plenty of fish in the sea :eat:
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Murax wields valid point(s). Family trumps most if not all things in life. This 22 BS is just liberal fabrications.
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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qoraxeey wrote:who care about somali men ..there are plenty of fish in the sea :eat:
Somali guys are so mediocre. Maybe I'll marry a guy who was a member of the Jack and Jill club. :D
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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:arrow: You know your gonna marry a Issa Riiyole
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Sorry, momma didn't raise me to settle. :roll:
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Do you even know what Issa Riiyole is ?
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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No. You're a qabilist aren't you? If so, let's be friends!!! :up:
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Me just conversing with you bothers me about the state of Somali women today. Isaaq women have gone but now....,

Your dismissed.
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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*You're. Contraction. It's not really that hard.
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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SavySallySupersedes wrote: Void? Wanting to be a daddy's girl and having my father's validation is the only void there is. Last time I checked, only one of us is working 2 jobs and in school. Only one of us is struggling. I'm sorry my mom didn't just sit at home and look pretty. She actually built her own life and didn't accept settling as the best option. Does your soul burn to know that a woman could adequately provide and raise a family better than any "man?"

What is your obsession with trying to make African Americans seem less well-to-do than you are? Newsflash, you're black! White America has an equal disdain for anyone originating from Africa. And no, single-parent families is a very new concept in African American family life. You're overlooking systematic and institutional factors outside the family (i.e. housing, education, criminal justice system). Don't make this just a race thing. It has more to do with class than race. Bitch.
I never said we aren't black. The rich ruling class is obviously white with sprinkles of others.

And the single family dynamic IS a new thing for the AA community but it's breaking it apart. I always have admired the AA people in their quest to obtain civil rights and human dignity. Their struggle made it easy for those who have recently immigrated or are children of immigrants!

I'm not denying what you're saying. I live in the blackest region of the US, so I've seen everything from the well to do to the struggling esp when I worked in inner city DC and volunteered in Anacostia, Trinidad, etc.

And calling me names is a sign of your immaturity. I never called you anything vulgar. That shows a lack of class.
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:Mama's boys :down:
Helping mama :up:

Mooching off mama while being a useless douchebag :down:
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Re: What are Some Red Flags in Somali Men?

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Women do really think men were made for them. You should be able to provide everything for yourself and the only thing you should want from a man is the geed.
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