Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

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Jawaab halkaan ku dhufo

I would not marry a non hijabi
12
48%
I would marry a non hijabi but she has to start dressing differently
3
12%
I would marry a non hijabi and I am not bothered about whether or not she decides to dress differently
3
12%
I would not marry a hijabi
2
8%
I am a girl and I want in aan ku dhufto too
5
20%
 
Total votes: 25

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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by Beenaale_No1 »

For me it's pretty straight forward

Would I marry a niqabi? NO

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Would I marry a hijabi? YES

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Would I marry someone who dressed casually like this? YES

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Would I marry someone who dress like this? HELL NO

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Post by Beenaale_No1 »

This my perfect ideal lady. Well dressed and looks classy. :up:

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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by InaSamaale »

Wow, some serious generalizations being made on both sides. Hijaab is a peice of clothing, doesn't guarantee perfect Muslimah nor does the absence of it imply a lacking in scruples. We're all tested in different ways, the hijaab is a shared struggle between many sisters, including whether to hijaab or not and how to exactly. I think some of you fellas should be a little more considerate with your comments.
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Post by Methylamine »

It isn't a determining factor but I would like to know why she wears or does not a hijab. A large part of whether or not I would marry a sister would be from that answer.
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Post by ihatewritingessays »

It's not smart or realistic to get with someone thinking they'll change, go for a hijabi from the beginning if that's your preference.
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Post by Hyperactive »

Perfect_Order wrote:Hyper and Hilaac,

You know BV is a true feminist when even a survey meant for guys allows girls to participate even if their option is useless. Basically she is saying the last option is for girls that just want to participate. :lol:
loooool. bv aadi ma aha. lol
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Post by waayeel101 »

Lillaahiya wrote:Naw, I think Jasmine is underestimating how visual men are. Tbh, there are overly jealous men that don't want their wife to leave the base w/o a jilbaab on deck, gloves and a niqab or you're a flaming whore, but generally, majority of men don't want other men gawking at their significant other. It's the idea of exclusivity; knowing that his wife is 'for him and only for him' :lol: Which is also why promiscuous women hardly get any commitment cause she is widely considered public goods.

Also, this would be an interesting discussion if xijaab was replaced w/ a God-given right, such as the right to work. Xijaab wa waajib. Wa sidda salaada oo kale. Qof aan weligi salaad fooda dhigin maad guursan lahayd? Hopefully not.
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halkan waxa iga muqata inta xijabata iyo inta surwalka xidhata ilaahay haso hadeeyo.
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Perfect_Order wrote:Hyper and Hilaac,

You know BV is a true feminist when even a survey meant for guys allows girls to participate even if their option is useless. Basically she is saying the last option is for girls that just want to participate. :lol:
loooool. bv aadi ma aha. lol
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Post by Cherine »

Lilaahiya,

I didn't understand. Are you saying hijaab is like Salaah?
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Post by Cherine »

Waayeel gadh ma leedahay adigu?
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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by Shirib »

I'd tell her before we got married that, I would like her to wear a hijaab if we are to get married. If she refuses, in all honesty it's a deal breaker.
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Post by waayeel101 »

Cherine wrote:Waayeel gadh ma leedahay adigu?

walahi inta ilahay i siyey haa alxamdulillah. lkn waan yara sima.
su'ashan maxad ku keentay?
adigu ma xijabata?
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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by BlackVelvet »

Benaale you don't mind that your ideal lady's bra is showing?

Shirib wrote:I'd tell her before we got married that, I would like her to wear a hijaab if we are to get married. If she refuses, in all honesty it's a deal breaker.
Being straight forward :up:
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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by original dervish »

I`d hope I will have enough confidence and trust in her to wear whatever she wants.
Jamine....aint nothing wrong with a bit of strap showing....it`s not like you can see her thong poking outta her batty. :lol:
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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by BlackVelvet »

OrigD it's not the strap, it's...you know what never mind. I shan't corrupt your innocent minds :mrgreen:
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Re: Gentlemen su'aal - Le Hijab

Post by original dervish »

I don`t believe you can equate a woman's dress sense with morality.....within reason of course.
Why get so vexted about it?.....People need to live their own lives.

ps Trust me.....the whore of Babylon aint got nothing on me. :lol:
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