Addressing the Elephant in the Room.

[Keyblade]

zumaale,

I don't know if I'm comfortable with a man having undressed a woman and initiated coitus even just once within a monogamous situation, or some other deviant sexual act. I mean being with him is the equivalent of bedding everyone he's ever been with. I'd rather die a virgin. Thank you.

I take it then you'd never marry a divorcee?

[metamorphosis]

I am virgin but of course no one cares if a guy is virgin. I feel sorry for women who have made mistakes and are ostracized because of it. If Allah forgives who are we to judge the person for having slipped once? There is a clear difference between a mistake that has occurred once and deliberately living an unholy lifestyle. If a girl or a guy engages in the latter lifestyle I think no one should marry them until they end up with each other.

[Sophisticate]

That's not true a guy can be a virgin. A guy that is a virgin is cleaner both spiritually and sti free. He doesn't have the curse of premarital sex. Quit this nonsense tho.

u are more likely to get an sti from sitting on a public toilet i hope he can spiritually make u climax cause it wont be physically, its 2015, go out there and enjoy yourself, its hoes like kim kardashian that are getting wifed nowadays, the only guys that want a virgin girl are perverts, real men dont care

I have yet to hear or read of a single case where an individual contracted an Sti from a toilet seat, simply isn't true. Keep telling yourself that to feel better. That's what all the second-hand men say to console themselves during their bout of crabs. News flash, Kim K couldn't get someone from her own group with the same net worth. With the exception of the entertainment industry, they don't get wifed.

[Sophisticate]

zumaale,

I don't know if I'm comfortable with a man having undressed a woman and initiated coitus even just once within a monogamous situation, or some other deviant sexual act. I mean being with him is the equivalent of bedding everyone he's ever been with. I'd rather die a virgin. Thank you.

I take it then you'd never marry a divorcee?

You're a perceptive lad I will let you figure it out.

[HusseinHassan]

sophisticate, you seem to be advertising yourself sister, lol.
i think we all get it, you're a virgin with a college degree and prefers a man, 28 and above with a college degree and no past sexual encounters.

[Keyblade]

zumaale,

I don't know if I'm comfortable with a man having undressed a woman and initiated coitus even just once within a monogamous situation, or some other deviant sexual act. I mean being with him is the equivalent of bedding everyone he's ever been with. I'd rather die a virgin. Thank you.

I take it then you'd never marry a divorcee?

You're a perceptive lad I will let you figure it out.

Is it possessiveness? Or extreme std-phobia?

[thehappyone]

I have yet to hear or read of a single case where an individual contracted an Sti from a toilet seat, simply isn't true. Keep telling yourself that to feel better. That's what all the second-hand men say to console themselves during their bout of crabs. News flash, Kim K couldn't get someone from her own group with the same net worth. With the exception of the entertainment industry, they don't get wifed.

you can get crabs from sharing clothes, towels, or sleeping in someone bed, not just sexual contact you hold such outdated ignorant views, not everybody that has sex has sti, not everyone thats virgin doesnt have an sti one things for sure, with ur high hopes your headed to one road

[Sophisticate]

Hussein I haven't batted my lashes for you, move along son.

[zumaale]

I have yet to hear or read of a single case where an individual contracted an Sti from a toilet seat, simply isn't true. Keep telling yourself that to feel better. That's what all the second-hand men say to console themselves during their bout of crabs. News flash, Kim K couldn't get someone from her own group with the same net worth. With the exception of the entertainment industry, they don't get wifed.

you can get crabs from sharing clothes, towels, or sleeping in someone bed, not just sexual contact you hold such outdated ignorant views, not everybody that has sex has sti, not everyone thats virgin doesnt have an sti one things for sure, with ur high hopes your headed to one road

Bro, instead of commending the sister for her morals, you are trying to knock her down and advising her to fuck around cos its 2015. Who decided that the onset of the millennium should herald the promotion of zina?

[thehappyone]

zumaale, this is the first time i exchanged more than a sentence with her, just playing devils advocate, let me enjoy the moment

[Julkimi]

HassanHussein: You need to stop being a little bitch, first you made that ridiculous comment about Sophi, and now you're following her. Stop with your bitch-ass-ness.

[Colonel]

Lord protect us from such a calamity.

[Jabuutawi]

[EvolSyawla]

lol Wow.

How did you guys entertain such a silly topic for so long? It's a thread about judging people!


The problem with Somalis is usually they don't date.

You can't just say 'I loff you' and expect both partners to turn into the dahab you've been looking for all your life. It's very simple. The same way you don't make a thread about brushing your teeth. It's no the elephant in the room unless you're intentionally cluless.. It's common sense.

Just get to know the person, and if their past is not compatible with your beliefs, back away. You may find it difficult to trust him/her but you don't need to call each other whores and everything else under the sun. Leave the repenting and the judgement to Allah.

If you find they are still up to their ways, that's different, but just get to know the person. Phinks, you're right about needing the background of each other to confirm he lady/man you want to marry and everything about their past. However, you are going about it in a very judgmental, holier-than-thou attitude that reeks of self-importance.

Like someone said, having your hymen intact is not an indication of loyalty and overall 'wholesomeness'. Grow up please.

[Sophisticate]

Evol and Julkimi these brothers must learn were wising up. Gone are the days when they wouldn't be slutshamed. Homies over man hos is the adage today. They thought they could frolic around with Becky and expect to wife a Xalimo. Oh hell nah.