Isn't it amazing watching people's lives unfold exactly how you thought it would?

[BlackVelvet]

So, Black Velvet, what's my fortune?

Your most visible traits are conscientiousness and commitment. For you it’s no big deal, you’re doing what you’re supposed to and it’s probably very black and white but most people are not like that. You’re also quite dismissive of things that don’t fit in with your clean and structured views, grey shades are not your forte. I don’t see you taking many risks, you’d take on immense levels of responsibilities that would stress others out but with you if you can make sense of it you're game. That makes you very reliable which probably means you’ll never be unemployed but it also means your life in general is very predictable. You will follow the logical path till the end. In contrast I would always go with what feels right, if it does, it makes sense but for you it is the exact opposite, it has to make sense (in your black and white world) and only then would it feel right.

Unless something hugely disruptive happens you will probably have a very relaxed life in the sense that you will always be in your comfort zone even if that comfort zone is working twice as hard as people your age. For example you would never leave your job until you have something else lined up. 

In the future,  a promotion or better job but not something too different, wife who isn’t too grey-zone, kids who get to play in the park with you, paying for everything and making sure your new family is taken care of while still looking after your original family (siblings and parents). Because you know this, probably won't get married until you've worked out the financial implications. Doubt you'd Cave to family pressure but depends on how uncomfortable avoiding it gets.

Dependable and stable. You probably won’t have a mid-life crisis, you won’t seek out a second wife, you won’t divorce your wife easily.

Smooth sailing while you downplay your strengths and seek a steady pace in life.


I'll ask around about you in 15 years lol

[GAMES]

LoL damn FAH, as the reigning overlord of SNET, why would u want to ask BV for ur fortunes? LoL life is best went thru without knowing ur fortunes (ur fate).

No banning eh.

[YummyMummy]

So, Black Velvet, what's my fortune?

Your most visible traits are conscientiousness and commitment. For you it’s no big deal, you’re doing what you’re supposed to and it’s probably very black and white but most people are not like that. You’re also quite dismissive of things that don’t fit in with your clean and structured views, grey shades are not your forte. I don’t see you taking many risks, you’d take on immense levels of responsibilities that would stress others out but with you if you can make sense of it you're game. That makes you very reliable which probably means you’ll never be unemployed but it also means your life in general is very predictable. You will follow the logical path till the end. In contrast I would always go with what feels right, if it does, it makes sense but for you it is the exact opposite, it has to make sense (in your black and white world) and only then would it feel right.

Unless something hugely disruptive happens you will probably have a very relaxed life in the sense that you will always be in your comfort zone even if that comfort zone is working twice as hard as people your age. For example you would never leave your job until you have something else lined up. 

In the future,  a promotion or better job but not something too different, wife who isn’t too grey-zone, kids who get to play in the park with you, paying for everything and making sure your new family is taken care of while still looking after your original family (siblings and parents). Because you know this, probably won't get married until you've worked out the financial implications. Doubt you'd Cave to family pressure but depends on how uncomfortable avoiding it gets.

Dependable and stable. You probably won’t have a mid-life crisis, you won’t seek out a second wife, you won’t divorce your wife easily.

Smooth sailing while you downplay your strengths and seek a steady pace in life.


I'll ask around about you in 15 years lol

You have a gift Jasmine

[COOL-MAN]

So, Black Velvet, what's my fortune?

Your most visible traits are conscientiousness and commitment. For you it’s no big deal, you’re doing what you’re supposed to and it’s probably very black and white but most people are not like that. You’re also quite dismissive of things that don’t fit in with your clean and structured views, grey shades are not your forte. I don’t see you taking many risks, you’d take on immense levels of responsibilities that would stress others out but with you if you can make sense of it you're game. That makes you very reliable which probably means you’ll never be unemployed but it also means your life in general is very predictable. You will follow the logical path till the end. In contrast I would always go with what feels right, if it does, it makes sense but for you it is the exact opposite, it has to make sense (in your black and white world) and only then would it feel right.

Unless something hugely disruptive happens you will probably have a very relaxed life in the sense that you will always be in your comfort zone even if that comfort zone is working twice as hard as people your age. For example you would never leave your job until you have something else lined up. 

In the future,  a promotion or better job but not something too different, wife who isn’t too grey-zone, kids who get to play in the park with you, paying for everything and making sure your new family is taken care of while still looking after your original family (siblings and parents). Because you know this, probably won't get married until you've worked out the financial implications. Doubt you'd Cave to family pressure but depends on how uncomfortable avoiding it gets.

Dependable and stable. You probably won’t have a mid-life crisis, you won’t seek out a second wife, you won’t divorce your wife easily.

Smooth sailing while you downplay your strengths and seek a steady pace in life.


I'll ask around about you in 15 years lol

You forgot to add inshaAllah

[BlackVelvet]

^^ it's not duco


Thanks YM

[COOL-MAN]

^^ it's not duco


Thanks YM

Poor me for thinking your were serious with your prediction business

[BlackVelvet]

^^ it's not duco


Thanks YM

Poor me for thinking your were serious with your prediction business

Lol@ prediction business

It's just an analysis not gospel truth. I am serious about the topic but I'm not arrogant enough to insist that my analysis is absolute truth or that the outcome I layout is guaranteed or what's best for him

It's simply an interesting topic of discussion

[COOL-MAN]

It's. I enjoyed following it from the sidelines.

Noo wad sheekada.

[Present]

I'd say our personality traits- like level of strong-mindedness and core values/goals -can give a hint of 'predictability' of what *choices* we make which affect our future!

Like this girl in your story, strong-headed in what she wanted (money,job etc) and had a goal to pursue.And she scored!. Lol

Of course it all comes down to qadar...

[FAH1223]

So, Black Velvet, what's my fortune?

Your most visible traits are conscientiousness and commitment. For you it’s no big deal, you’re doing what you’re supposed to and it’s probably very black and white but most people are not like that. You’re also quite dismissive of things that don’t fit in with your clean and structured views, grey shades are not your forte. I don’t see you taking many risks, you’d take on immense levels of responsibilities that would stress others out but with you if you can make sense of it you're game. That makes you very reliable which probably means you’ll never be unemployed but it also means your life in general is very predictable. You will follow the logical path till the end. In contrast I would always go with what feels right, if it does, it makes sense but for you it is the exact opposite, it has to make sense (in your black and white world) and only then would it feel right.

Unless something hugely disruptive happens you will probably have a very relaxed life in the sense that you will always be in your comfort zone even if that comfort zone is working twice as hard as people your age. For example you would never leave your job until you have something else lined up. 

In the future,  a promotion or better job but not something too different, wife who isn’t too grey-zone, kids who get to play in the park with you, paying for everything and making sure your new family is taken care of while still looking after your original family (siblings and parents). Because you know this, probably won't get married until you've worked out the financial implications. Doubt you'd Cave to family pressure but depends on how uncomfortable avoiding it gets.

Dependable and stable. You probably won’t have a mid-life crisis, you won’t seek out a second wife, you won’t divorce your wife easily.

Smooth sailing while you downplay your strengths and seek a steady pace in life.


I'll ask around about you in 15 years lol

I think you just called me boring.

[BlackVelvet]

I think you just called me boring.

I'd say our personality traits- like level of strong-mindedness and core values/goals -can give a hint of 'predictability' of what *choices* we make which affect our future!

Like this girl in your story, strong-headed in what she wanted (money,job etc) and had a goal to pursue.And she scored!. Lol

Of course it all comes down to qadar...

I agree. When I first studied personality I favoured the idea that people change but now....

[BlackVelvet]

I think you just called me boring.

Could I just clarify though that "boring" is the conclusion you've reached. That's subjective and not what I was saying.

I am not going to lie I find people who have your kind of black and white thinking to be narrow minded and it will probably stop you from pursuing things that could have opened up a whole new world that you hadn't previously considered.

However your stability and focus will probably still take you far. I see it as positive but alas people take what they have for granted.

[Hyperactive]

welcome back BV.

[FAH1223]

I think you just called me boring.

Could I just clarify though that "boring" is the conclusion you've reached. That's subjective and not what I was saying.

I am not going to lie I find people who have your kind of black and white thinking to be narrow minded and it will probably stop you from pursuing things that could have opened up a whole new world that you hadn't previously considered.

However your stability and focus will probably still take you far. I see it as positive but alas people take what they have for granted.

you're seriously throwing shade

[BlackVelvet]