Who's to blame for the high divorce rate in our community?

[NoAngst]

Women of course! If there were no women, they'd be no marriages. If there are no marriages, they'd be no divorces.

Q.E.D. Women cause marital breakups.

Think about the sounds of logic above. If only people reasoned like yours truly all will be hunky-dory.

May God have mercy on your wretched souls!

[zidane88]

The welfare system and female favoured laws in the west.

Female favoured in what sense?

In every way. the male species are victims whether it is social, economical. men are laughing stock here, call me anti-feminist if you like.

[TheFuturist]

The welfare system and female favoured laws in the west.

Female favoured in what sense?

In every way. the male species are victims whether it is social, economical. men are laughing stock call me anti-feminist.

Thanks for your elaborate explanation.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

lol@ votes, 8 votes for men 8 for women 6 welfare

[CaliQase]

lol@ votes, 8 votes for men 8 for women 6 welfare

For some odd reason, it seems that the votes for men and those for women were/are equal from the start up to now.

[Vivacious]

^ exactly. I noticed it too. One time they were both 4 then 5 and so on sheekada waa mindi mindi ku taag

[CaliQase]

[AyeeyoH]

Aduunkan wa iska imtixaan socda.Divorce can be sometimes a blessing from Allah.Why stay with someone who make ur life miserable.Guurka qaarki singlnimada ayaa dhaanta.Bilaash looma odhan " silic ku nool sodon guursato ayaa dhaanta"

We shouldt look down or judge divorced pple.They found the courage to leave and start from scratch.

You only live once so make sure to be happy and live a peaceful life.

[GAMES]

Salool how about if kids are involved? Would you stay in a marriage just for the sake of your kids, so that they have both their parents or go your separate ways?

[AyeeyoH]

Games, i doubt any child will thank you for living in a unhappy marriage...as a parent adaa macalin oo ah.Hadhoo markay guriyo yeeshana siday hooyadood iyo aabahood oo dhaqmi jiren bay oo dhaqmi.Ma waxaad rabta inay hablahaagu niman xumeeya la joogan just for the sake of the kids.

[GAMES]

You have a point, but u also have to realize kids who grow up in single parent homes become ciyaalsuuqiin, dibjiro and criminals.

There was a study in Minnesota about Somali kids who grew up in single parent homes, and they found out almost 40% become losers.

Salool, if you are parent, sometimes u have to sacrifice for the sake of your kids. That means u have to stay in marriage no matter what.

Also, divorce was non existent back home in our country, its a new phenomenon here in the west.

Reer baadiyo Somali women love to call 911 on their husbands and kick him out. Than they wonder why lil Mahad and lil Anisa are losers. Because they kick the father out.

[AyeeyoH]

Games, mushkilada somalida haysta waa aabyasha caruurta ka war haynayn markay naagta kala tagaan.
Xita gaalada diina haysan ba caruurtoda mid kasta waqtikiisa haysta.

Ninka soomaliga laakin maalinta oo naagta oo furo ba caruurta ugu danbaysa.Way jiraan qaar ka war haya laakin aad bay oo yar yehiin.

Caruurto way weynaan doonan oo mid kasta nolol bu samaysan.Hooya kasta inay nolol fiican oo farxad leh ku noolato ayey istaahisha.Laakin nin aanan wajigiisa aanad arki karin la noolo..nolol maaha nin yahow.Ilaahyo ku cathaabin la isma cadaabo.

Wixi ilaahy ku qoray kuma dhaafiyan.Aduunkan wa iska labo cisho..ilaaha ku abuurtay uun kafaalo saaro.

[GAMES]

Salool, waa runtaa. But don't blame it just on Somali men. Somali women could be just as bad, if not worse.

All i am saying is, kids need both their parents.

Dhibaatada Somalida heesato waxaa waaye, they rush into marriage, ayagoon ka fiirsan ama aqoon u laheen. And after few years and 3 kids later, waa lays dagaalayaa and the woman calls 911.

The father is then kicked out of the house or taken to maxkamad (courts). Sometimes they don't even allow him to see his own kids.

Smh. Waxaas waa ceeb, aabe aan ilmihiisa arki karin.

[AyeeyoH]

Games, dadka xumaanta ku kala taga aya ugu daran.Ilaahy ha oo gargaaro.

Wax qoran cidina ma joojin karto.Maalinta aroosku waxay ka mid tahay maalimaha ugu farxada badan ee qof kasta noloshiisa so mara.I doubt anyone like divorces.Wa iska amar alle iyo nolosha aduunka la inoogu tala galin inaynu ku raaxeysano.

Cala kuli xaal, khayr baan ku rajeynaya.

Good night.

[QaxootiWaaxid]

Hawiye