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AyeeyoH wrote:
COOL-MAN wrote::lol: :lol: :lol: excellently put sheikh hyper :up:

Adiga iyo gurey walle mawduucan Waad ka mabsuuden.Ma xabad kale ayaad niyada ku haysaan. :lol:
It's good to have sufficient knowledge on this ayeeyo koley Ragu cagaha ka istaagi maaye inkastoo aanan ku tala jirin mid lawaad imika :lol:
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COOL-MAN wrote:
AyeeyoH wrote:
COOL-MAN wrote::lol: :lol: :lol: excellently put sheikh hyper :up:

Adiga iyo gurey walle mawduucan Waad ka mabsuuden.Ma xabad kale ayaad niyada ku haysaan. :lol:
It's good to have sufficient knowledge on this ayeeyo koley Ragu cagaha ka istaagi maaye inkastoo aanan ku tala jirin mid lawaad imika :lol:

Maalinta ay arintan niyada ka gasho bal xaaskaaga uun la socodsii.Ilaahy afar wuu in baneeyey laakin khiyaamadu ma fiicna.
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Allahey ka Allah :lol:
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Halal booty call to a 16 year old blond will be nice
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AyeeyoH wrote:
Hyperactive wrote:
AyeeyoH wrote:If i was divorce with kids i would't mind a weekend husband.Dance between the sheets ka bacdi dhinac i dhaaf. :mrgreen:
see there is a demands of this kind of halal sex :lol:

seriously, you wouldn't do it. i know wad wiswis badan tahay.

:lol: you Know me so well.Mar kasta waxaan is waydiin laha balaayadu imsa naagood bu kala guraya.

But atleast its better then Zinah.Aduunka waxa ugu daran zinada oo waliba qof weyn ku dhaqaaqo.

What would your children make of you though? They see the man every weekend and know the only reason he comes is inuu qooqa kaa saaro. :scusthov:

This embarrassing shit is far removed from the healthy & wholesome relationships Islam promotes.
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Hmm.. The contract seems legit but what comes after is fishy. A man is supposed to be leader of his family, make sure they pray and practice the deen, be responsible for them, their welfare and safety, etc. And a wife becomes his family and entitled to all this even if she forgoes maintenance rights.

At the very least this is doubtful if not outright haram.

The Prophet (sallallaahu `alayhi wasallam) said “Both legal and illegal things are obvious, and in between them are (suspicious) doubtful matters. So who-ever forsakes those doubtful things lest he may commit a sin, will definitely avoid what is clearly illegal; and who-ever indulges in these (suspicious) doubtful things bravely, is likely to commit what is clearly illegal. Sins are Allah’s Hima (i.e. private pasture) and whoever pastures (his sheep) near it, is likely to get in it at any moment.” [Bukhari, no. 1762]

And also...

"There is no person to whom Allaah has given people to take care of, and he fails to take care of them properly, but he will not smell the fragrance of Paradise." [Bukhari no. 6731; Muslim, no. 142]

And Allah (Swt) knows best..
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Raganimo wrote:Some Saudi scholars claim that it is halal. You need to ask someone who is well-versed in Fiqh instead of a bunch of nobodies on an ethnic forum. Have some respect for the Diin and stop making up stupid terms like "halal booty call" to get attention, you lowly, attention-seeking degenerate.
The Dalit garac shapeshifter is still salty for being called out. Your hypocrisy will be exposed whether you like it or not Image
This topic is above your pay grade, keep it moving :umad:
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HayWire wrote:
Raganimo wrote:Some Saudi scholars claim that it is halal. You need to ask someone who is well-versed in Fiqh instead of a bunch of nobodies on an ethnic forum. Have some respect for the Diin and stop making up stupid terms like "halal booty call" to get attention, you lowly, attention-seeking degenerate.
The Dalit garac shapeshifter is still salty for being called out. Your hypocrisy will be exposed whether you like it or not Image
This topic is above your pay grade, keep it moving :umad:
How many step dads did you have growing up? :lol:
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Hyperow... I will be in your city for 1 week. Do you perform nikahs for tourists?
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AbdiWahab252 wrote:Hyperow... I will be in your city for 1 week. Do you perform nikahs for tourists?
lol hell no adeer. it disgusting me. I hate the idea of holly relation between couple to reduced to sex. they want it and they got it.

it's men abusing religion and women just going with it in name of "sheikh said, scholars hebel said" people know even before they ask. they just looking for excuses to put on something.

بَلِ الْإِنْسَانُ عَلَىٰ نَفْسِهِ بَصِيرَةٌ
Nay, man will be evidence against himself,

وَلَوْ أَلْقَىٰ مَعَاذِيرَهُ
Even though he were to put up his excuses.

same as mortgage and riba. it's never ending question. they already decided and they keep spinning. you know your situation more than any one. your guts says something but your desire is some thing else!!
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Cherine wrote:
AyeeyoH wrote:
Hyperactive wrote:
see there is a demands of this kind of halal sex :lol:

seriously, you wouldn't do it. i know wad wiswis badan tahay.

:lol: you Know me so well.Mar kasta waxaan is waydiin laha balaayadu imsa naagood bu kala guraya.

But atleast its better then Zinah.Aduunka waxa ugu daran zinada oo waliba qof weyn ku dhaqaaqo.

What would your children make of you though? They see the man every weekend and know the only reason he comes is inuu qooqa kaa saaro. :scusthov:

This embarrassing shit is far removed from the healthy & wholesome relationships Islam promotes.
Haye, :mrgreen:
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Hyperactive wrote:brother, they go by qiyaas just like traditional marriage.

since so much well off Saudi women or else are divorced or widow or never married... need man, instead "zina" if she gave up financial responsibilities , if all other conditions valid, why not?

that is arguments. it was a huge debate past 10 years or so. since too many women with no men and don't need housing or financial dependents.

my opinion it's valid if adult woman wants just occasional sex in halal. but i just wouldn't like marriage to be down to only sex and nothing else. but hey my opinion just matters to me.
:usure: Maxaad tidhi? Occasional sex aa? Don't misguide this kid bro. Human beings need sex regularly(assuming they are healthy). If this is xalaal, it would mean women can have as many partners as they need whenever they need and all they have to do is forfeit the meher and get a 24 hour nikaax. :?
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lol the marriage has conditions, if met that is it. any other details of you want sex more or less adults in the relation can discuss. this is convenient marriage for both. majority not even live in the same city, hence the name "misyaar" traveler's marriage.

it's not ideal marriage and that is why it needed debate and regulated in some countries such Saudis majlis fatwa.

Somalis practiced it long before this. how its different somali men who marry back home and go once or twice a year to visit?? its same and it's their arrangement. some people prefer that way, no responsibilities , no stress.
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zulaika wrote:
BVSNet wrote:What if you get pregnant?
She's on her own...single mamma
I would imagine a woman who chooses to be part of this arrangement knows the consequences and will have to live them.

The woman made her bed, only fair, lakin the kid...


I read what Hyper posted though and it seems that this type of marriage is not expected to be kept a secret. In fact it seems that in Islam a marriage that is kept secret does not meet the necessary criteria and cannot be considered halal...

So what this is, is a woman forgoing financial support from her husband...I guess if one wanted to be a cougar and did not need a man to support her and didn't even want to live with him. All of a sudden it seems as if the balance is switched...she'd be using his body or would they be using each other...

Also don't most women today forgo financial support anyway? Most married women I know are still working and pay their way. The only difference being that they live together whereas here it seems they don't even have to do that...
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BVSNet wrote:
zulaika wrote:
BVSNet wrote:What if you get pregnant?
She's on her own...single mamma
I would imagine a woman who chooses to be part of this arrangement knows the consequences and will have to live them.

The woman made her bed, only fair, lakin the kid...


I read what Hyper posted though and it seems that this type of marriage is not expected to be kept a secret. In fact it seems that in Islam a marriage that is kept secret does not meet the necessary criteria and cannot be considered halal...

So what this is, is a woman forgoing financial support from her husband...I guess if one wanted to be a cougar and did not need a man to support her and didn't even want to live with him. All of a sudden it seems as if the balance is switched...she'd be using his body or would they be using each other...

Also don't most women today forgo financial support anyway? Most married women I know are still working and pay their way. The only difference being that they live together whereas here it seems they don't even have to do that...
:clap: Now you coming around, it isn't such a bad idea after all. No cougar involved here :ufdup:
we are talking about a young thing :eat:
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