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Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:05 pm
by Futurist
Cherine wrote:I know a lady who never married and never had children miskiinadda has a whole raft of illnesses, is lonely and on antidepressants.
Damn thats sad. Does she have cats at least

Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:06 pm
by Inaayah
Futurist wrote:P.S I think that everyone should adopt an orphan/abandoned child, especially nuclear families that have children of their own and who can give a stable home to a child.
I would LOVE to adopt an orphan but wallahi billahi adopting an orphan is no joke. Fulfiling the duties and rights upon an agoon way adag tahay. One I think I personally couldn't handle. I wouldn't want to treat an orphan in a bad way, even in the slightest, even if it's just me raising my voice
I say this because, when it's your own kid aad dhashay waad canaanan karta, laakiin hadal yar o kuluul aad ilma yar o agoon aad ku tiri ayu cuqdad kugu qaadi kara.
May Allah SWT gives us the kindness/sweetness/patience and love to raise orphan children because the reward is such a great 1.
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:13 pm
by Strategic
i am 28 years old,an engineer persuing master degree in electrical engineering,siblings in universities,some in europe,i want to have relationship with a women like you.if you are serious,we can take our friendship to another level.my philosophy in life is get educated ,get rich.
PM me
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:14 pm
by GalliumerianSlayer
Ok...
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:15 pm
by Tuushi
blood wrote:i am 28 years old,an engineer persuing master degree in electrical engineering,siblings in universities,some in europe,i want to have relationship with a women like you.if you are serious,we can take our friendship to another level.my philosophy in life is get educated ,get rich.
PM me
Bam,

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Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:17 pm
by Futurist
blood wrote:i am 28 years old,an engineer persuing master degree in electrical engineering,siblings in universities,some in europe,i want to have relationship with a women like you.if you are serious,we can take our friendship to another level.my philosophy in life is get educated ,get rich.
PM me
Shall I make a counter offer

Or would that be xaasidnimo

Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:20 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
Inaayah wrote:CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:Hyper : I was replying to tuushi's ridiculous comment. Niyaw lakum diinakum waliya diin. Ilaahay goblan nagama dhigo! But I respect you guys choices, good luck
Inagu caruuro ma isku dhalna

me and you = karaahiyooyin yar yar
Hyperactive wrote:CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:Hyper I was replying to tuushi's ridiculous comment. Niyaw lakum diinakum waliya diin. Ilaahay goblan nagama dhigo! But I respect you guys choices, good luck
lol cigaal. i love to argue with you in real life. i can imagine you just laugh so hard every time i try to argue with you. you and tuushi are just easy going.
i have a question for you brother, if you decide to remarry, would you marry some one doesn't want kids? based the fact you already kids. do you want more?
I would say some ridiculous stupid stuff to
Make you go crazy then laugh

.. Would I want to have more? Yes, only because my current kids won't live with me. Aniga I amnt a fan of caruur badan bro. I believe in khayru Maa qala wa dala lol. Dhowr saalixa ayaa dhaama 10 Nafta ku keena. So mybe another two? Allah knows, .. If I were still married to my ex, I would be happy to retire with two

while kids are blessings they are also fitnah, remember "Inamaa awlaadukum wa am waalakum fitnah" kids make you forget ur aakhira specially when you had them in here where you got no help, you be running from 5 am to 10pm next thing you know, it's malaku mowt knocking on your door! May allah forgive us all.
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:23 pm
by Hyperactive
^^ cigaal Allah kaga digi qurat 3ayn. awlaad saleh ah wa jana in dunya. Allahey qof walba wahi khair ku ku jiro ha seeyo. ameen.
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:24 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
My dream is to adop an orphana, insha allah it will come true. There's nothing better than taking care of innocent child for allah sake. Not you have to.
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:25 pm
by Cherine
She has ayy and sometimes siday ula hadasho[she treats him like her baby] just makes me want to tear up!
Hyper there's no such thing as pet parents stahp! That's cringeworthy stuff.
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:25 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
Hyper, Aamiin ya rab

Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:35 pm
by Hyperactive
Cherine wrote:She has ayy and sometimes siday ula hadasho[she treats him like her baby] just makes me want to tear up!
Hyper there's no such thing as pet parents stahp! That's cringeworthy stuff.
i wouldn't treat my kids any better than my pet. kids wont stay kids. they grow and be human and annoying . no guarantee they will help you later in life. better to make money so when you need help you hire people to serve you.
Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:36 pm
by Twist
AyeeyoH wrote:Twist wrote:There is nothing wrong with your decision, mate. Don't let strangers dictate how you wanna live your life, especially on one of the most important responsibilities one can embark on life, bringing children into the world.
I am a guy in my thirties and not only am I not planning on having children, I am not even planning to marry either. If you don't get that deep, inner longing for having children then you'll regret for the rest of your life to having them for some other silly reasons. Good luck.
Wlc back Twist.

Hey, Helwaa yaa Helwaa. What's up, ayeeyo? Adiga iyo magacyo badal maxaa idin kala haysta, qofyahey?
I am in a short break from my somewhat hectic life and just wanted to briefly visit my good old forum, that's all. It's sad to see most of the familiar members aren't that active any more so I better go back to my cave before old memories and reminiscing those good old times make me depressed.

Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:37 pm
by Twist
Tuushi wrote:Twist wrote:Tuushi wrote:

U dont realize how ridiculous that sounds?Why would she subject herself to those limited and conditional choices?
Coolman,Humans are full of regrets.I have met old ,mostly women who regret motherhood.Doesnt mean they didnt love their children but had them because they were pressured.
Twist,Oh my God.It is Twist.
Yo, Tush. What's up, sis? Thought you moved to Kenya permanently and have had a dozen of kids with waaxid Soomaali Kenyan ah by now.
Browsed the forum every now and then and I hardly saw many of the former members. Dhowr qof oo aan magacyadooda fahmin ayaa meesha xaadir ku ahaa mar walba lately. lol

No.Coolman didnt find me that Kenyan-Somali millionaire yet.
Good to see u again.
LOL! Well, it looks like that you, Hyper and I are happy in our current marital (or is it lack thereof? lol) states so why fix it since it aint broke, right?
See you around when I see around, sxb.

Re: I don't want children.
Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2016 2:37 pm
by openmindopenheart
Hyperactive wrote:Cherine wrote:She has ayy and sometimes siday ula hadasho[she treats him like her baby] just makes me want to tear up!
Hyper there's no such thing as pet parents stahp! That's cringeworthy stuff.
i wouldn't treat my kids any better than my pet. kids wont stay kids. they grow and be human and annoying . no guarantee they will help you later in life. better to make money so when you need help you hire people to serve you.
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