Ladies...what tribe would you marry??

[LaDy-Qac]

^ yaab. hablaha idin la dhashay waa qolamaa?. Ma jiidka ba laga so helay

Goga...fariid baad tahay . It' s so much better for the kids for both parents to be from the same tribe and preferably the same jilib

Kambuli, odaygaga truce baan kala saxeexanahay
for you my dear!

[Samatr]

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]^ yaab. hablaha idin la dhashay waa qolamaa?. Ma jiidka ba laga so helay [/quote]

Dee qabiil ma lihid ma cay baa
haduu nin reer hebel ku qabo ciyaalkuna waxay noqon doonaan reer hebel saas ula soco.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

^^^that is why she stated that only the noble gadabuursi can bukayn her baraakedeeda

[hamas]

women really don't care about race/tribe/religion. some just don't want to upset their families.

[Axlaan]

[quote="Gogarad"][quote="Samatr"][quote="Gogarad"]A 100% pure from both sides Isaaq KING. [/quote]

Thats asking a little too much. [/quote]

Samatr, not really..as bisad qorxoon said, u gotta think about the future of your kids..U have to be more then satisfied with the man's qabiil to produce lil ones dee...Same thing with the man..Caruurtada abtiyaashood ada odori kara....

Caruurtadana waxaad ogo hiilin karta waxaad guursatiid [/quote]

Your kids will always be your kids regardless of their qabiil, and I don't believe you'll love them any more or less because of their qabiil. You'll only be slave to this back warded mentality if you people keep this none sense up. Let's end this vicious cycle that keeps repeating itself from generation to generation. Say No to Qabyaalad Ladies, after all naagi hadba ninkey kurigiisa dagantahay qabiilkisa laadahay. lol

[Samatr]

For once I agree with you.

[LaDy-Qac]

samatr, i was expecting a better explanation. waxaad la timii meesha wax afar jiirko yaqano . Laakin dumarku reer bey ka dhashen o qabiil bey ka dhashen. For example hadaad islantada aad isku buqdan o ad gacan u qadiid. Ma waxaad u malayn inay raga ay ka dhalatay anba raga ay walalo yihin inay ka samaxayan

[Axlaan]

[quote="Samatr"]For once I agree with you. [/quote]

Good God No.
I take it back.

Qac,
Waa runtaa, dumarka rag iyo reer bay ka dhashaan. But I'm assuming you'll marry nin ragoo kugu xab qudbaan regarless of his qabiil not some darbi jiif or ciyaala suuq. It's great that you wanna marry from within, lakiin you're closing all your options and would have to shop from qaraabada.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Axlaan,

Maxaa dhacay inaabti sodowgii yidhi maaha ciidaan reer habel ahayn isma gayno ma mid yaroo diriyada ahbaa kuugu nuuray, mise mooryaan meelahaa kaa helay

[Samatr]

Ladyqac its simple
1)The children will carry your husbands clan/name.
2)Women don't pass on their clan to their children.

[LaDy-Qac]

Samtr..i agree waa runta. Laakin those 2 points don' t validate your point of women not having a qabiil. gabadha ad qabtiid reer baad ka so kaxaysatay hadi calafku idin kala kaxayo na meeshad ka kentay baad ku celiin and that's her father. She is carries his name and she is what he is.... end of

Axlaan,

raga iyo dumarka iis qaba qasab weeyan inay mar un dhibato kala dhex marto wayo no one is perfect. My point was dumar ahan cidlaa la naga ma so heliin o abo iyo hooyo ba na so haystay. Wixii ku dhalayna un ma waliga wax ku tarii kara. It' s the only thing ad ku kalsontahay ilahay ka sukow. I'm not shopping walahi the offers keep on coming in. I'm going through the elimination process

[Axlaan]

[quote="Dhaga Bacayl"]Axlaan,

Maxaa dhacay inaabti sodowgii yidhi maaha ciidaan reer habel ahayn isma gayno ma mid yaroo diriyada ahbaa kuugu nuuray, mise mooryaan meelahaa kaa helay[/quote]


I knew someone was going to say something like this. Dhage, war bal shibdheh, I'm starting to believe my own bullsh!t a. But honestly, a lot of people make this qabiil thing more than it really is and take it to heart. It's not that serious, you marry a person for who they are..not what his awoorgiisii sadexaad qabiilkisa yahay.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]Samtr..reer baad ka so kaxaysatay hadi calafku idin kala kaxayo na meeshad ka kentay baad ku celiin

[/quote]

I had to laugh on this one walaahi. You're right to the point. I feel sorry for you guys though...marna waa laydin soo kaxaysanayaa marna waa laydin calinayaa miyaa.

[Samatr]

It's actually worse if you marry within because your wife can take advantage knowing that you can't complain to no one because your related. The wife kind of has immunity to do whatever.

[kambuli]

People, I dhegeysta.

Walaahay I am serious. The tribe you may think is the best can produce the worst husband or wife. And the tribe you may think is the worst can produce the best wife and husband. A sisterly adivice is check the person first before his tribe. Clan is nothing but a party who asks you for money everytime. Just ask yourself one thing your tribe did for you.

Walaahay some of you may think that because I am from qabiil la yaso that is why I am all the time against qabiil, but realy I hail from qabaa'ilka is qaadqaada( My foot)! Simply I don't care and it does not make any difference to me or to my parents beacuse I know it is all ball xxxx.

Most important thing is a handsome person. Handsome in the mind. Religion we don't even have to talk about.