Marrying a xaliimo from back...

[Ghetto_Faarax]

i love the sweaty smell of xaliimos back home. After shes been in the hot sun all day Mmmm that shyt turns me on big time.

[ms.nalia]

ms nalia

i think he has seen those xalimos since he lives around them.

you your self siad i dont live around somalis, thus you wouldnt know that much either.

he is right in a way, there is a alot of xalimos that have deserted the somali culture and the deen in some cases

Cisse

You're assuming that "I dont know that much"
You've never spent a day in ur life with me so who are you to make such comments. I know all I need to know about Somali culture...and I chose to take those aspects that I think are right. And those that I fid seixst, demeaning, sacriligious I throw them to the sac. I dont think everything about Somali culture is great...just as well as I beleive that Western culture is pure dirt.
The only thing that I see matters ultimatley is religion and people can find religion anywhere...I dont think its something the secluded to a remote country.
In any respect, I dont like one sided jerks who feel the need to protray the woman as an antgonist and while he is the hero and saviour of a culture gone arry....
In his long ass speach, I dont think he said one thing that he can do to better his family and culture. Not once did he mention his own faults. Not once did he say about his exprience...its was all "under achieving xalimos this n that".

[Cisse Westlake]

ms nalia

losing the culture goes both ways. male and female. thers loads of wasted somali males. that assume that as if they are
something they aint. so it isnt just that are females deserting their culture, language and so on

[QansaGabeyle]

WOMEN are the bearers and signifiers of a culture. Like the old saying, "educate a man and you educate an individual; educate a women and you educate a whole family/nation." That is why it is more noticeable when a women deserts her culture than when a man does.

[*Amal]

It takes so much more of an effort to bring a girl back from Somalia, teach her the language, and to help her assimilate to the West.

It's also a known fact that people that come from back home..ie. late arrivals or refugees..usually try the hardest and are worse than those who are born here.

I've seen it with my own eyes..someone brought a man back from Somalia and got him to live here in US..all of a sudden all he does is drink..he's worse than the teenagers here who do it..

To top it all off..he's always going around to ppl begging them for money to quench his alcoholic thirst..

What I'm trying to say is..there are bad apples everywhere..but if you make an effort to
make yourself a better person in all angles then you won't be dissappointed..

[TrophY-WifeY-]

Aboow Aboow.. Kibir waa la dhaafi....kor aa loo kaadiyoowhaaye
Iyaah saan Maxaa waaye.

Pathetic Faarax's, ..There is more to women than her cooking and cleaning skills. (Ninanka Gacmo Ma Qabaan MiYaa )(why cant' ya'll clean your own shyt) and cook for your own big jelly belly). .

what about connection, Attraction, education, and faith,
what about the excepting the person the way they are.

<...... i feel Disgusted

What's wrong with cooking and cleaning for your family? You can be an independent, working woman and still cook and clean.

There is expectations on both side, just like you ladies wouldn't want an uneducated broke man, we don't want a lost woman who forgot here culture and roots.

REB

What is wrong with helping out what is wrong men cleaning and cooking too, its their damn family too

I am just sick and tired of Faarax's who got married of the sake of cooking and cleaning...and koochie..( how Selfish)..I have Greater respect men who marry for love and respect women in general P.S Western Xaliimos are still cultural i dont know where y'all get this..ballshidh from

[RebelLion]

Trophy wife

But that's not the role of a man islamically and culturally speaking. would you disagree with that? That's how our parents generation lived, and the generation before that. What's wrong with it?

Also nothing wrong with a man helping out around the house, but women are the head of the household.

[TrophY-WifeY-]

Trophy wife

But that's not the role of a man islamically and culturally speaking. would you disagree with that? That's how our parents generation lived, and the generation before that. What's wrong with it?

Also nothing wrong with a man helping out around the house, but women are the head of the household.

Your old Fashionism is Overwhelming we are not living in our parents generation...
(thank god) its 21first Century. everything is 50%/50% get with program