How would you react?

[HELWAA]

Kolombo

Not every marriage die yaa akhi..u had only one experience dont give up yet.Marriage is half of our diin, dont advice these teenagers to wait..you know damn well what happens then...ZINAHA.

Thats a lie and exaggeration.

Keep your mind on school and making money, then you don't have to worry about women

Oh and if you have any clue about you're religion, you'll be straight.

Not everybody are LOOX like you...not every teenager follow islam and fear Allah swt..so dont think every guy outthere think just like u.Pple are diff from eachother.

[Kolombo]

Hyper,

Don't be disappointed when you finally get there, adeer.


Murax,

You have a valid point, all I'm saying is these chicks shouldn't feel its the end of the world if they don't get married before 30, there's life even after 30. Its all calaf. Foolish to chase after marriage when you got nothing going for you.


Helwaa & AW,

Who's talking about Zinah? I never encourage such things, fasting 2x a week and focusing on one's goals should fix that. These are my own opinions about this matter. Marriage is not what people make it out to be. I've seen enough failed marriages to know this, even from people whose marriages it was said would never fall apart, they all end in misery. And those that are still married, I gurantee they're miserable behind closed doors. Trust me.

[FAH1223]

Not everybody are LOOX like you...not every teenager follow islam and fear Allah swt..so dont think every guy outthere think just like u.Pple are diff from eachother.

too many guys are immature

in my university MSA, these guys talk about marriage 24/7 yet they are immature and not ready

theres plenty of girls not too much older than me that are already divorced

so yes, people should wait!

[AbdiWahab252]

Kolombo,

Mashallah.

Anywayz, next time I am in ATL, we should meet up. My relations down there are trying to set me up & I'd like to run the list by you.

[HELWAA]

Hyper,

Don't be disappointed when you finally get there, adeer.


Murax,

You have a valid point, all I'm saying is these chicks shouldn't feel its the end of the world if they don't get married before 30, there's life even after 30. Its all calaf. Foolish to chase after marriage when you got nothing going for you.


Helwaa & AW,

Who's talking about Zinah? I never encourage such things, fasting 2x a week and focusing on one's goals should fix that. These are my own opinions about this matter. Marriage is not what people make it out to be. I've seen enough failed marriages to know this, even from people whose marriages it was said would never fall apart, they all end in misery. And those that are still married, I gurantee they're miserable behind closed doors. Trust me.

That woman killed u walle.

Dont loose hope...

Maalin kasta guri kaliga ka soo kac with no children voices, no hadal, no argue...no cries no smiles....cooking for one person...eating alone..sleeping alone.........that is not a life.I hope u find someone who wipe out ur bad experience and show u the beauty of marriage inshallah.

[Hyperactive]

helwa some teens like me and fah zina is not an option what so ever.
no excuse some one to do zina. marka even if as ader kolombo says to delay a little.
self control is the most when no other options out there like halal marriage.

[Afraa*]

Helwaa & AW,

Who's talking about Zinah? I never encourage such things, fasting 2x a week and focusing on one's goals should fix that. These are my own opinions about this matter. Marriage is not what people make it out to be. I've seen enough failed marriages to know this, even from people whose marriages it was said would never fall apart, they all end in misery. And those that are still married, I gurantee they're miserable behind closed doors. Trust me.

am sorry but what misery are you refering to? I believe the purpose of life isn't meant to be "happy" but to be satisfied with what you have. If humans get together for the sake of Allah(swt) then they shall stay together if that faith is kept. We all know our destiny so what more could you ask for in this life.

[Kolombo]

Anywayz, next time I am in ATL, we should meet up. My relations down there are trying to set me up & I'd like to run the list by you.

You know where to find me.


Helwaa,

She didn't kill me, she just taught me a valuable life lesson. Thanks to her, I don't have foolish notions about marriage anymore. Adigana, don't settle just for the usual, live your life before you live another man's life.

Afraa,

Do you need another person to feel complete & satisfied?

[Afraa*]

Afraa,

Do you need another person to feel complete & satisfied?

I can only account for what i need to feel satisified and/or complete. how does this related to the misery that you speak of?

[HELWAA]

helwa some teens like me and fah zina is not an option what so ever.
no excuse some one to do zina. marka even if as ader kolombo says to delay a little.
self control is the most when no other options out there like halal marriage.

Not every teen have taqwah and imaan or practise islam like u guys thats why they take the easy way ZINAH instead of controlling themselves.Ilaahy ha soo hanuuniyo wixi lunsan.


Kolombo

Onthers mans life?...you are not living someone els life walaal when you are married to someone, you share a life with someone and bulid a home together.


Anyway i hope Allah send u someone who shake ur world and gives u hope again.Singel life suc.ks yaa akhi ee waxba ha ii faanin.

[Buhodle-Gurl]

wow, i'm speechless. i'm sorry man, that's some cold as.s sh!t.

It happen'd to him? ...Maskiin

[Kolombo]

Afraa,

Misery has been a part of humanity's history since our early days. We just like to legitimize this misery by giving it false names and romanticizing it when we should know better. Do you buy in to misery loves company? The whole institution is bogus.

[ms.naliaa]

Y'll leave Kolombo alone.

He doesnt want to 'share' his life with someone else...hes perfectly content with being solo.

So kutos to you Kolo.

[AbdiWahab252]

Kolombo,

Its a done deal. I will introduce you to a crop of low maintenance, pious sisters who are not Somali.

[HELWAA]

Y'll leave Kolombo alone.

He doesnt want to 'share' his life with someone else...hes perfectly content with being solo.

So kutos to you Kolo.