My kind of mother in law!!

[kambuli]

Suga,

I see your point and believe me you are not alone..So many girls feel that way...and btw the friction between the In-laws is common in all around the world.

Having said that...All I am trying to say is:

1.Walaal, horta haddaad maqasho habar baas, gabadh baas bay ahaan jirtey.

2. Qof walbana waalidkii waa la quman yahay, xataa haddii uu khaldan yahay waaldkuna, diinteena ayaa ina faraysa inaan u dul qaadano.

3. Anigu qof ahaan waxaan aaminsanahay inuu ninku role weyn ka qaadan karo isu soo keenidda naagtiisa iyo hooyadii...
His stand should really be;

Haddaad raabto inaan hooyadaa xushmeeyo adiguna hooyaday xushmee.... Very simple..

I honestly hate when the Mother of the man is called "Islaantii" while the mother of wife is called "Ayeeyo" That is not right...

We are all going to be Mother-in-laws at some point..

About you, I wish for you the best mother-in-law ever

[suga_n_spice]

walaal, i understand. lakiin my only concern would be my husband and the way he'll treat me. aniga dhib iguma aha in aan sodohdey ixtiraamo waayo waa masuuliyad aniga i saarin xaas ahaan. balse markii ee i maagto uu ninkiina la jiro dee waa markaa markaan ciloonayo. aduunka waxaan u necbahay a situation i cannot control. other people can have their own issues, but when it comes home i cannot stand it. anigu xin iyo dagaal ma aqaan imbeesha hoyadee xitaa saxiibo imaa ogola marka im just takin precautions in case that happens to be the case. waliba waxaan ka jeclaan lahaa nin xaqa ku dhaqma oo aniga iyo hoyadiiba si fiican noo dhexdhexaadsha.

[American-Suufi]

first rule is

never marry a girl from a divorced/singlemother family. she has no male role model.

second rule is

never marry a girl who talks about qawiil and demands an expensive wedding.

third rule is

her father should have a steady job and be the breadwinner of his family, she wont demand a costly wedding and will be responsible for her future family to succeed rather than to please others.

[Foxy22]

And oh my daughter, make sure you speak only when spoken to and keep your eyes glued to the floor.

Ilahey hana cadaabin

BV

Doing that facilitates your entrance to Jannah. The first two things a woman would be asked yowmul qiyaama is her Salaat and her hubby, if she passes in both, everything else becomes smooth.

So I suggest you be the best raaliyo and will go to paradise Insha-Allah

Acuudu Billahi Mina Sheydaani Rajiim! Yaahuu Sir Lugta yahu!!

[1nemansquad]

..am terrified of my mother-inlaw to be, she scares the hell outta me

[black velvet]

..am terrified of my mother-inlaw to be, she scares the hell outta me

That is very good you won't mess her daughter about

[1nemansquad]

..dudette that is not good, its better to respect someone than be scared of them

[black velvet]

Bull you were scared of your father before you learnt to respect him, same principle

[1nemansquad]

..ok perhaps you have a point but then again father and a mother-inlaw aren't the same people, as you get older you learn to understand and appreciate the value of a father but in the case of a mother-inlaw the same thing doesn't really happen

[black velvet]

..ok perhaps you have a point but then again father and a mother-inlaw aren't the same people, as you get older you learn to understand and appreciate the value of a father but in the case of a mother-inlaw the same thing doesn't really happen

Are you saying you will never learn to understand and appreciate the value of a mother-in-law?

No wonder you're scared if she heard you say that dude you'd be done for

[Xamud.]

somalis aren't like that because their husbands s*ck...

I'm sorry but I don't think we would be strong minded people if our mothers were "obedient"

maalinba hooyadey aadey aroos muxaadarro ah...and this lady ba muxaadareyneyse...and my mom was like the lady was quite annoying all she spoke about was how to be a perfect wife by being so obedient...she said mar bey tiri...ninkaada hadi uu kula xannaaqo oo dagaalsantahiin ..ka dhaqaaq meesha aad joogtid oo uu so tugo ha la murmin...saa habrihi dhan ba yara qosley...because they know that ain't something they will do...

I don't want that kind of wife hyper or mother in law you described...and I don't want no man telling my sis to speak when only spoken to..ma ciyaal ba horta? mise xoowlo? mise waa xaaskada oo waa human being adi camal ah?

having respectable people waa one thing lakiin dhaqan saas ah mid aan ku soo korrey ama aan rabo ma aho.

sxb you talking like my mom, she said the same exact thing after this incident that happened..

one time there was this serious family crisis goin on, so everyone came to our house... one of my adeer came

but guess what, for two hours we realized his wife was still in the car with the kids.... wtf? he didn't even bring her out to the house and just left them there like some xoolo or some shid

my dad was so pissed, he was cussing the shid at him... my mom was saying the same stuff you was just spittin'

then people were like "salama calyekum, salamaa calyekum, calm down" to my dad but he was beating up my adeer saying "Get outta my house, don't bring that BS to my house, ect" after we brought his wife and kids inside

and it was a cold day in december too, shid

Inalilahi waa ina ilahi rajacun am sorry but this shidh is to funny wallahi

[sadeboi]

...xamud you know she was not no reer-mudug woman...

[Xamud.]

Indeed if she was reer mudug she would have taken the car and gone home, leaving his azz there.Haaday reer mudug aan qoslin tahay ilmaha dhibada intay dhigto beey ka tagi lahayd.

[1nemansquad]

Are you saying you will never learn to understand and appreciate the value of a mother-in-law?

No wonder you're scared if she heard you say that dude you'd be done for

..my mother-inlaw iyo aniga waxaa isugu imano waa qalad soo maha?

..how do you appreciate the value of a mother-inlaw? the grandmother of my kids (insha'alla) yes but other than that?

[sadeboi]

Indeed if she was reer mudug she would have taken the car and gone home, leaving his azz there.Haaday reer mudug aan qoslin tahay ilmaha dhibada intay dhigto beey ka tagi lahayd.

...so damn true...

"nacalla adi iyo waxaad tahay ba...anuba muxabiis iga dhigey..."