How to be a good wife in the 21st century - PPD

[eliteSomali]

Fah: when the time comes, sign a pre nab, and leave all your assets in your hooyo's name because you can bet she won't rob you.

[BlackVelvet]

You are Muslim ergo you will eventually get married mwahaha...

I look forward to seeing the deer caught in the headlights pictures of you from your wedding

[FAH1223]

Fah: when the time comes, sign a pre nab, and leave all your assets in your hooyo's name because you can bet she won't rob you.

[Tuushi]

kaligaa waalo wareer waaye, halagula waasho wanaag waaye.

[SultanOrder]

Even in my state, a pre-nub can be annulled. Lakin all these laws that favor women when it comes to divorce, disadvantage them to getting married. Marriage rates for women is going lower and lower, and it is taking them longer to get married. This puts a strain on them biologically, and disadvantageous them because they have to compete with younger and younger girls. Since sex use to be a primary motivation for men to get married, thanks to liberalization in society, men can live with their "girlfriends" and even have kids with them while not getting married. All in all, effective birth control, and the feminist movement has helped counter the advantageous treatment of women in court.

[TheAspiringMufti]

Fah: when the time comes, sign a pre nab, and leave all your assets in your hooyo's name because you can bet she won't rob you.

Wallahi this is good idea, Hooyo macaan will never cheat or deceive you. Thanks for this idea, I will do this.

[BlackVelvet]

[Alphanumeric]

Not every Muslim gets married. Marriage isn't even wajib for the majority of guys out there, who are unable to eke out a living while building a savings. Let's not even mention the fusq of a wedding ceremony. The cost alone should make it haraam, forget compulsory.

For a guy, there is 0 incentive to get married. Slowly, educated Muslim men are figuring this out, unfortunately the tide of marriage hysteria is sweeping over most.
Sucks for them.

[BlackVelvet]

I know quite a few Muslims (men and women) who have not married. But I don't know any Muslims who proudly have a family i.e. partner and children, outside of marriage.

That post was directed specifically at Fah who I am sure wants to have kids and he is a practicing Muslim ergo he may fret and frown but he will get married eventually. And at this rate the horrible, expensive and soul shattering divorce is likely to become a self fulfilling prophecy misters "use my mother as a tool to hide assets". So, assuming the same parameters apply to you all, I say embrace it and ... get married Brehs

[AgentOfChaos]

I know quite a few Muslims (men and women) who have not married. But I don't know any Muslims who proudly have a family i.e. partner and children, outside of marriage.

That post was directed specifically at Fah who I am sure wants to have kids and he is a practicing Muslim ergo he may fret and frown but he will get married eventually. And at this rate the horrible, expensive and soul shattering divorce is likely to become a self fulfilling prophecy misters "use my mother as a tool to hide assets". So, assuming the same parameters apply to you all, I say embrace it and ... get married Brehs

Stephen King eat your heart out. Bv you would make one hell of a horror novelist.

[Alphanumeric]

I know quite a few Muslims (men and women) who have not married. But I don't know any Muslims who proudly have a family i.e. partner and children, outside of marriage.

That post was directed specifically at Fah who I am sure wants to have kids and he is a practicing Muslim ergo he may fret and frown but he will get married eventually. And at this rate the horrible, expensive and soul shattering divorce is likely to become a self fulfilling prophecy misters "use my mother as a tool to hide assets". So, assuming the same parameters apply to you all, I say embrace it and ... get married Brehs

Kids are how they trap you. As cute as they are, 95% of the time they're little more than fleshy bags of screaming, pooping, puking, crying microbes who can burn through your account on a Saturday afternoon.

[TheAspiringMufti]

Not every Muslim gets married. Marriage isn't even wajib for the majority of guys out there, who are unable to eke out a living while building a savings. Let's not even mention the fusq of a wedding ceremony. The cost alone should make it haraam, forget compulsory.

For a guy, there is 0 incentive to get married. Slowly, educated Muslim men are figuring this out, unfortunately the tide of marriage hysteria is sweeping over most.
Sucks for them.

that's not necessarily true man, a man still has sexual needs and it's very tough to remain celibate for the rest of your life. without falling into zina

I will be the first to admit I need guur.

[SultanOrder]

Alpha, dude it aint all bad, marriage is a very positive thing done right. It can be hard, but hard work pays off and the rewards are unimaginable, same thing with kids. If this society is putting so much fear in you, then get married and live somewhere else.

[BlackVelvet]

Alpha I used to think that, still kinda do and you have no idea how much worse it is when you factor in the physical strain as a female.

But that is how the world works and those cute, sticky, financial black holes make men and women do things to themselves voluntarily. Things which had anyone else done to you, would lead to them being locked away in a prison cell for a long time. Your clock will also start to tick and chances are you will also give in like many have done before you. And what will happen to you after that only time will tell...

Stephen King eat your heart out. Bv you would make one hell of a horror novelist.

You'd be the character who tries to be in denial until one by one the rest fall away. The one who says "guys...? Quit playing with me"

[Alphanumeric]

Not every Muslim gets married. Marriage isn't even wajib for the majority of guys out there, who are unable to eke out a living while building a savings. Let's not even mention the fusq of a wedding ceremony. The cost alone should make it haraam, forget compulsory.

For a guy, there is 0 incentive to get married. Slowly, educated Muslim men are figuring this out, unfortunately the tide of marriage hysteria is sweeping over most.
Sucks for them.

that's not necessarily true man, a man still has sexual needs and it's very tough to remain celibate for the rest of your life.

I will be the first to admit I need guur.

It's entirely true. The obligation of marriage is in direct relation to the level of sexual need and the ability to provide for yourself and others. Marriage is advised against or disliked if one is unable to provide.

G'head and get married. But you gotta choose between paying insurance on your '94 Integra or paying for her mehr. Good luck.

Alpha, dude it aint all bad, marriage is a very positive thing done right. It can be hard, but hard work pays off and the rewards are unimaginable, same thing with kids. If this society is putting so much fear in you, then get married and live somewhere else.

Fear? Dude, you're incredibly presumptuous in so many of your posts. Tone it down.

Kids are mind-bogglingly difficult and anyone who says otherwise has not seen children being raised.