East African Girls

[Amira143]

Ladies how many of you cool with a bidaar?

[GAMES]

East African women.

[Phinks]

In terms of spousal abandonment that is obviously case-by-case. However the gender disparity is certainly present.

Okay, fair enough. While men are more likely to leave their spouse when terminally ill, women are more prone to initiate divorce and effectively terminate their marriages.

In consonance with previous work on the question, women remain far more likely to want out of their marriages than men: 55% said they wanted their marriages to end more than their spouses while only 29% of men reported the same. And the differences don’t seem to be due solely to differences in perception by gender: 42% of men reported that their spouse wanted the marriage to end more than they did and only 20% of women said the same.

Source; http://www.austin-institute.org/2014/04 ... n-america/

Phinks, no offense walaal but your snet writing style comes across as abrasive. Take it easy son and don't come to any rash conclusions. You don't know me and I certainly don't know you. Just because I value myself and have not participated in premarital relations, that doesn't make me nice or a good girl. Dare I say I'm just as capable of being self-interested and as manipulative as the next person (its a matter of keeping these forces in check). Those terms are situational and they depend on who you ask. I'm diplomatic most of the time. However, you must distinguish between an individual's private and public persona. All I know is if I'm not getting better as a person, or making amends for my past grievances then there is something truly wrong.

Naa yareey you need to relax.

I said it was a hunch. A feeling or guess based on intuition rather than known fact. I merely entertained the thought or possibility which could be - as you so kindly pointed out - a possible error on my part so relax.

Of course a guy that is tall, makes money and is good looking is a catch. The fellow I used to talk to matched that. However, we didn't have the same values. I wasn't willing to negotiate. So, that in and of itself is not enough. And there are a lot of men out there that are "good enough". They might be missing a characteristic or two that you outline, but they make up for it in other ways. Because I know life isn't as clear cut as that, does not make me disingenuous. Just because someone is desirable doesn't make them "a good fit," nor does it make them "compatible."

This isn't the first time you mentioned this fellow. In fact, I can recall you mentioning him several times. Tbh sophisticate, I still don't understand these "values" you're on about. You had a tall, financially secure and presumably good looking man who wanted your hand in marriage and it honestly sounds like to me that you really fancied him. But alas; this is none of my business and to prod further into your personal life would be rather rude and disrespectful on my part.

Oh and I definitely agree that if someone ticks all the requirements, it doesn't guarantee stability in a relationship with them and problems such as conflicts or disagreements might arise due to compatibility issues. No marriage can exist or occur without compatibility.

If you did a cost-benefit analysis on a play boy you'd come out robbed. - There is no ROI (return on investment). Whatever short-term gratification would be outweighed by major losses and time wasted. I've known that since childhood thanks to my books and because aabo taught me game theory (and not how to be played when you are set-up for zero-sum losses, as a female) before I started high school. He was well before his time. Those that are trying to fill a void normally go for cads.

Your Aabo taught you well.

I'm going to let you in on a secret sophisticate. For a marriage, the average man is content with reasonable looks, a pleasant demeanour, a functioning uterus and reasonable sexual activity. Most men will not philander around, if this is provided. That's literally it.

[Phinks]

I can see Phinks is swimming with red pill knowledge, lol do you frequent returnofkings.com.
Id like to add that while women have inherent value (vagina, childbirth) men on the other hand have none whatsoever, in essence depending on who's in charge an slight excess of them they can be served as cannon fodder in conflict or are expended in any other way. The only value a man has lies with how much money earns. Women are instinctively wired to value men in this way (feed and shelter her children), men that fail to meet this level are useless in her sights. The only exception to this rule is when they are chasing excitement (bad boys).

Another Redpiller?!

I frequent r/redpill on reddit plus returnofkings in addition to the rational male blog. But surprisingly, I f-king hate Roosh V. He's not a player because he couldn't even get laid in Toronto. And that city is full of sluts! The guys a f-king fraud who goes to different countries to have sex because he can't get laid in the U.S or Canada. Aaron Sleazy already made mince meat of his ass.


Also don't forget looks. The uglier you are, the less chances you have of securing a mate. But the more you increase your SEV to offset these disadvantages such as increasing your net worth or social status to name a few, the better your chances are.

[Phinks]

Ladies how many of you cool with a bidaar?

^^That's Captain America's actor Chris Evans.

Look at him now. He's clearly balding.



He even admitted it himself;

http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainmen ... 7858#bmb=1

Ben Affleck



Bradley cooper aka the guy in American Sniper



He's taking propecia

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/ar ... claim.html

Don't forget NBA players like Kobe Bryant and Kevin Durant. Heck even Prince Harry and his brother have succumbed to it so stop putting yourself down. It sucks but it's normal.

This guy was 21 when he started balding:



Now this is him 10 years later on propecia.



Relax and get on propecia. If you have sides then you have to wait for stem cell hair transplants. The industry is gaining traction with linear progression and new discoveries are being made everyday. Check out Replicel, they're already in phase ii trials in Japan. Mark my words, balding will be a thing of the past by 2020. Stay hopeful bro.

Wow...

Just..

wow.


It's one thing to judge a man and exclude him as a potential partner for something he can't even control but to laugh at him is just reaching a new level of low Amira.

[SolidCamel]

Thanks sxb. I'm not really that concerned with it, I rock the bald look with a fresh bread. But yeah I'ma look into those products. From what I'm reading the side effects are kinda scary though

[Sophisticate]

It's not prying. I don't have anything to be ashamed of. Phinks if you much know, I don't have anything to compare it to. That is the first and last example. Hence, that's the only notable reference point. I've decided to refrain from aimless conversation at food/beverage establishments ever since.

Btw what you mentioned isn't a secret, if I already knew it. Not surprised you subscribe to returnofkings. Makes a ton of sense now.

[Amira143]

Phinks dear, I wasn't laughing at him. I
at the sad face. Anywho I don't discriminate against the hairless unless he is beardless too, then its a no no.


Bald head + beard =

Bald head + beardless =

[Rambie]

Phinks

At least those actors banged every beauty queen you see in Hollywood nowadays before they got the bidaar or settled down.

What the poor Faraax have accomplished in contrast?

[Rambie]

Interesting dialog here. Let me go back and read from the start.

[Phinks]

It's not prying. I don't have anything to be ashamed of. Phinks if you much know, I don't have anything to compare it to. That is the first and last example. Hence, that's the only notable reference point. I've decided to refrain from aimless conversation at food/beverage establishments ever since.

Omg I'm dying of laughter. It must have been crazy. You just piqued my interest by a thousand fold.

Not surprised you subscribe to returnofkings. Makes a ton of sense now.

Horta what are you implying or insinuating now?

I thought that we both agreed we didn't know each other well enough to come to conclusive opinions of one another like that. Like you said, you don't know me and I don't know you. While I do admit the manosphere and returnofkings is full of racist, degenerate, sexist misogynists, it does provide value and offers an extensive look into gender relations in the 21st century. Besides, Aabo always told me to treat women like my equal. The prophet Muhammad (saw) himself was pro women's rights and we muslim men should try to emulate his ways no? My sister at one point said she wanted to train as a nurse, I persuaded her to do a major in a STEM field. Heck, I have no problem admitting that my two sisters are smarter than me.

My stance on the whole matter of gender equality is the same as yours. Chill out.

[Phinks]

Thanks sxb. I'm not really that concerned with it, I rock the bald look with a fresh bread.

Phinks

At least those actors banged every beauty queen you see in Hollywood nowadays before they got the bidaar or settled down.

What the poor Faraax have accomplished in contrast?

Phinks dear, I wasn't laughing at him. I
at the sad face. Anywho I don't discriminate against the hairless unless he is beardless too, then its a no no.


Bald head + beard =

Bald head + beardless =

[Rambie]

This thread got me like...


Soph & Phinks are


Kudos for both of you. I wish all topics on Snet is discussed like that. What a magnificent and rare debate we have here.

Sorry Soph, but I am more into Phinks point of view, he said what was in my mind and even more.

Continue Please!

[Rambie]

[Phinks]

Kudos for both of you. I wish all topics on Snet is discussed like that. What a magnificent and rare debate we have here.

Sorry Soph, but I am more into Phinks point of view, he said what was in my mind and even more.

I like to think we both made good points. She explained her position with eloquence and great clarity which is a nice change from the usual clusterfuck of topics and posts that litter Snet.

Tbh, sophisticate hands down has the greatest command of the english language on this forum. I've won numerous creative writing awards when I was a child and even finished reading all the books my primary school had to offer in their library and I still don't have shit on her.

You should check out her blog.