I think people are conflating two very separate issues; (1) xaliimos who marry ajnabis and (2) xaliimos who insult their men and degrade them in front of foreigners.
The first issue has nothing to do with me or you unless the girl is your relative. The second issue has everything to do with me since they are shaming us and essentially throwing millions of Somali men they don't know under the bus. They are chatting shit about Somali men and adding dirt to the already tarnished Somali name. Can you imagine an indian girl insulting Indian men and bigging up Somali guys -the ego is not to be underestimated
another example of what i mean:
http://www.lipstickalley.com/showthread ... attractive
When black and xabashi females are defending Somali guys...
"And what would you like to do about it? I just don't understand the purpose of this thread."
"OP is a stupid girl that thinks the grass is greener on the other side.
Just say you don't like certain TYPES of Somali men. There is tons of diversity in the Horn. I know that there are TYPES of Ethiopian men I don't like but I wouldn't throw shade at them ever because I know plenty that are hella cute. I'm also sick of people stereotyping East Africans - we don't look all the same. I don't even look the way people think East Africans look and most of my family doesn't either. "
"How hypocritical. If this was said about a different ethinicity or a man saying it, the responses would have been so different. Also, like another font stated already, I would never talk about my own on such manner even if I feel this way. If you are Somali and talking about Somali men like this, you are also talking about your father and brother"