Small things that would probably lead you to divorce your husband/wife

[Bella18]

BV, waxaa ka baqa ninki ku soo gacan galo inaad saqiir suujisid adi... wax aan dhowra banaanka lee waaye.. runta meel aay kugu sugee mugow

[BlackVelvet]

Sipping shaah loudly.
chewing food with his mouth open.
snoring.
lack of cleanliness.
leaving towels on the floor.
squeezing the toothpaste wrong.

And a lot more. But depending on how hawt, smart, charming and sweet he is, all that can be overlooked.

good list


One of the few people to answer the question. Thank you!

BV, waxaa ka baqa ninki ku soo gacan galo inaad saqiir suujisid adi... wax aan dhowra banaanka lee waaye.. runta meel aay kugu sugee mugow

Maandeey saas maaha, asaga xitaa benefit aya uugu jirto process-kaan. Waa win-win situation nooh

[Bella18]

Sipping shaah loudly.
chewing food with his mouth open.
snoring.
lack of cleanliness.
leaving towels on the floor.
squeezing the toothpaste wrong.

And a lot more. But depending on how hawt, smart, charming and sweet he is, all that can be overlooked.

Amiraay dulqaad la'aan kugu maan ogayn, waa sidee xaalka?. I sent you a pic, take a deep breath before you look... waa la yaabay

@BV, benefit maasheee yahooy?
Make things easier for both and do the damn process before signing your life away. Personally, to me marriage should be a lifetime contract. Probation iyo waxaa waa nonsense iyo wakhti lumis maandhaay

I doubt nin xiskisa qaba will agree to such thing, marka yuna gabalka nagu dhicin... fadhiga ka kac bal oo is jaf jaf

[Amira143]

Heeeey! I said that can be overlooked dee. Dont put me on the spot! Regarding the picture

[AbdiWahab252]

BlackVelvet,

Yep, I agree with you 100%. From the guy's perspective, during the probationary period:

1. Size her up and see if she will either squeeze your balls when she has them or will crush them. There are only two types of women in this word, merciful and crushers. You may have the upper hand now but if she is resentful, the minute she senses an opportunity to squeeze, she will make you hit the high notes. P.S. doesn't matter is she is tolka or qaraabo, women lose the plot when they are enraged.

2. Financial separation - Don't mix money. Nope, don't co-sign, buy a home together nada. When shid hits the fan, don't put your hard earned money at risk.

3. Size her up for interactions with your family or hers - Is she the family type? Does she love to have your family around? How does she behave around hers? if she is the antifam type, jettison her like a Somali PM.

4. Domestic duties - Does she do them automatically or is she the need type who wants you to 'help'? I am not saying be an arse and don't help out but does she want you to be involved in all household chores: please peel the potatoes while I cut the beef. If so, you married an "Marital Accountant'. Keep your tally book and prepare for a marital audit.

5. Stingy or generous - Does she share in the costs? Or she expect you to pay at every opportunity? If it is the latter, you married a selfish woman. She is prepared to bankrupt you. The most horrible advice given to some sisters is to keep your husband in financial distress so he works harder and doesn't entertain the notion of getting a second wife.

Lastly, trust your gut. If it says, iz no good. Run with it. And make sure she is on contraceptives (verifiable type - patch, IUD, matter of fact take her to the OGYN). Last thing you need to is to fall to the number one trap set by some women: "pregnancy"


Abdiwahab252 - Veteran of 3 marriages. It only gets easier with each consecutive one.

[MujahidAishah]

:damn; aw racking them up like a stamp collection

[VeiledGarbasar]

You raise an interesting point, aniga makufsan laheyn, nin wax kufsadana xabsi aa yaqano. Lakin half naked showers iyo lips iyo Taas waa in laga fiirsada. Maybe put all his T-Shirts in the bathroom or come up with a routine that minimises edeb darro interactions. Qof aadan qabin camal waa in aad u aragtaa and once you do that waa a piece of cake


Haye xujo kale amaa waddaa?


The children part is the most important, this method is 100% guaranteed and qof aadan boqolkiiba boqol hubin wuxu yahay ka dheerow

Cajaabto cajaab!

I await for Xelwa's reply.

I'm sorry but your answer is in-adequate. What if the chemistry is sizzling between you two? I'm pretty sure, taking contraceptive is the better answer for probations. Laakin no touching, no intimacy macquul ba mahaan.

Loool@ remove t-shirts to the toilet, saxiibeey, even I can tell that is stretching it and definitely not goin to work.

[AbdiWahab252]

:damn; aw racking them up like a stamp collection

Nah, I am just unlucky. No more Xalimos for me. I am going Mzungu