Healing a broken heart...

[Theguardian]

The healing starts once you cut him out of ur life..

This is the hardest part- delete his nr and block it.

Can you do that...if you cant you're not there yet.

Time is the best healer....but you have to realize its over first.Hadii kale ooyentaada baad ku jiri waliga.

Talo..waliga nin ila iyo xadka ha oo jeclaan xita hadu ku guursado.

Deleted his number because I keep seeing his whatsapp status (I could feel his presence when he is online ) I deleted his picture
Didn't block him because - don't see the point - people I blocked previously -I was notified when they called or text -it's just that it goes to voicemail on their end.
I don't think I really accepted yet because I've not got closure - and I don't think I want to hear.

Probably he is getting hitched to his cousin back home - I will literally run him over if he did that

[gedo_gurl]

Never had a broken heart or a break-up....I was always single when I was dating. Filin Hindi ayaad noo shiddeen.

[Theguardian]

To unconvince what you convinced yourself of the person. To understand they are another human being despite their good qualities, that if you put an effort with an open mind, another opportunity better or similar might come along.

When we meet new person and we fall for them, we tend to place them above where they should be and that is normal in the first phase face of falling in love, but truth is, broken hearts get healed overtime. Just don't tell yourself there is no man as good as he is. May be some are -- Like me deadly blokes(joking).

I think best protection is to be grounded on principles that can not be negotiated and given up for anyone no matter who they are and were to you to begin with. It will suck for you if you are not willing to see that the man is just another human with all the imperfections and you made him seem super in your mind only. You can undo all that.

At the extremely express way of finding out that anybody else can just be as good, get on with a date, find new company instead of holding yourself hostage when the guy moved on and doesn't care about you.

Kapishe?

QuantumSatis my dear friend - thanks for this and the rest - I've re-read them (sad but true)

"unconvincing myself what I convinced" myself about him is truly hard - I never forced myself to like him - actually I resisted liking him very long time.
But how he has behaved the last two weeks is making me see him differently.
Not what I thought of him - I am realistic person - I can accept things do end sometime - however there is common human decency and mutual respect - which he has badly violated. So it is working progress

[cheifaqilbari]

[Skippa]

Say you got dumped or rejected by the one that you loved what would you do?

Nothing...love yourself and move on to bigger and better things

The stone which the builders refused has become the head cornerstone

[Cherine]

Holiday. It will take your mind off things, doesn't have to outside the U.K a week or so by yourself in some beach.

[Theguardian]

^^^ I wasted my holiday leave inside ... Going back to work on Monday...
I'm leaving the house today and I am dreading because we live the same town --

[COOL-MAN]

^^Just go to him and seek answers walal. Waxan waa indho xumo.

Cry to him to take you back if It takes that.You won't get over him anytime soon by the looks of it...

[MujahidAishah]

Delete his number social media

Two mijin
axmed ali egal iyo gacayte and of course binti cumar gacal and her famous line

hadaan nin dambaba u baroorto
hadaan baxsanow iraahdo
aniga balaayaba ha iga raacdo

Gacan baan uu taagay

[KingOt]

^^Just go to him and seek answers walal. Waxan waa indho xumo.

Cry to him to take you back if It takes that.You won't get over him anytime soon by the looks of it...

Never that, showing you're desperate only makes shit worse. Don't even speak to him, if he doesnt approach you and it really is over, make yourself busy. Chill with friends more often, exercise, especially before bedtime it'll help you sleep.

[COOL-MAN]

I get you bro. But in some extreme cases like our new resident guardian, you can tell them all the qulhuwallah in the in the world but will fall on deaf ears. Her answer lies with him and only him. She needs to see him to move on. Only him can make her move on or take things to the way they were. Believe me I have dealt with cases like hers before.

[Theguardian]

I get you bro. But in some extreme cases like our new resident guardian, you can tell them all the qulhuwallah in the in the world but will fall on deaf ears. Her answer lies with him and only him. She needs to see him to move on. Only him can make her move on or take things to the way they were. Believe me I have dealt with cases like hers before.

You dealt with "cases like me" eh? Do tell more.

You right though - I do need answers that only him can provide.
But I won't ask him to take me back ever.
And my case is extreme because I've had a broke up before and I moved on there and then... Didn't give two hoots... But this one is different because I truly believed he was unique in so many ways -

[Theguardian]

^^Just go to him and seek answers walal. Waxan waa indho xumo.

Cry to him to take you back if It takes that.You won't get over him anytime soon by the looks of it...

Never that, showing you're desperate only makes shit worse. Don't even speak to him, if he doesnt approach you and it really is over, make yourself busy. Chill with friends more often, exercise, especially before bedtime it'll help you sleep.

At work I give him the opportunity to approach me and speak to me twice but he didn't - so I tried but still didn't speak to me really - rejection rejection and embarrassment added to my broken-heart. If he told it is over for x y reason that it won't have been so painful.

[COOL-MAN]

Don't get your hopes too high. Am not a love expert or a love psychiatrist. Neither do I have unique broken heart stories to tell. Let's just say, Just like sophiscate ,I have been a shoulder to cry on Many a time. You can tell who is able to dust themselves from the fall n move on from the ones who will cling on to existent or non existent hope no matter the odds or the writing on the whole. They will be asking why why why every five minutes. To those you have no answers. The answer lies with the one who ignited the fire. I have judged your case to be so. Go seek answers from the source of misery. Therein lies your cure.

[Theguardian]

Don't get your hopes too high. Am not a love expert or a love psychiatrist. Neither do I have unique broken heart stories to tell. Let's just say, Just like sophiscate ,I have been a shoulder to cry on Many a time. You can tell who is able to dust themselves from the fall n move on from the ones who will cling on to existent or non existent hope no matter the odds or the writing on the whole. They will be asking why why why every five minutes. To those you have no answers. The answer lies with the one who ignited the fire at the beginning. I have judged your case to be so. Go seek answers from the source of misery. Therein lies your cure.

Oh I was thinking about women crying after you and not taking no for answer.

I tried to speak to him twice at work didn't work - honestly can't take anymore rejection....it will finish me off.

Thanks though for been such support appreciate it.