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salool wrote:The healing starts once you cut him out of ur life..

This is the hardest part- delete his nr and block it.

Can you do that...if you cant you're not there yet.

Time is the best healer....but you have to realize its over first.Hadii kale ooyentaada baad ku jiri waliga.

Talo..waliga nin ila iyo xadka ha oo jeclaan xita hadu ku guursado.

QuantumSatis wrote:To unconvince what you convinced yourself of the person. To understand they are another human being despite their good qualities, that if you put an effort with an open mind, another opportunity better or similar might come along.

When we meet new person and we fall for them, we tend to place them above where they should be and that is normal in the first phase face of falling in love, but truth is, broken hearts get healed overtime. Just don't tell yourself there is no man as good as he is. May be some are -- Like me deadly blokes(joking).

I think best protection is to be grounded on principles that can not be negotiated and given up for anyone no matter who they are and were to you to begin with. It will suck for you if you are not willing to see that the man is just another human with all the imperfections and you made him seem super in your mind only. You can undo all that.

At the extremely express way of finding out that anybody else can just be as good, get on with a date, find new company instead of holding yourself hostage when the guy moved on and doesn't care about you.

Kapishe?

Theguardian wrote: Say you got dumped or rejected by the one that you loved what would you do?

The stone which the builders refused has become the head cornerstone

COOL-MAN wrote:^^Just go to him and seek answers walal. Waxan waa indho xumo.

Cry to him to take you back if It takes that.You won't get over him anytime soon by the looks of it...

COOL-MAN wrote:I get you bro. But in some extreme cases like our new resident guardian, you can tell them all the qulhuwallah in the in the world but will fall on deaf ears. Her answer lies with him and only him. She needs to see him to move on. Only him can make her move on or take things to the way they were. Believe me I have dealt with cases like hers before.

KingOt wrote:

COOL-MAN wrote:^^Just go to him and seek answers walal. Waxan waa indho xumo.

Cry to him to take you back if It takes that.You won't get over him anytime soon by the looks of it...

Never that, showing you're desperate only makes shit worse. Don't even speak to him, if he doesnt approach you and it really is over, make yourself busy. Chill with friends more often, exercise, especially before bedtime it'll help you sleep.

COOL-MAN wrote:Don't get your hopes too high. Am not a love expert or a love psychiatrist. Neither do I have unique broken heart stories to tell. Let's just say, Just like sophiscate ,I have been a shoulder to cry on Many a time. You can tell who is able to dust themselves from the fall n move on from the ones who will cling on to existent or non existent hope no matter the odds or the writing on the whole. They will be asking why why why every five minutes. To those you have no answers. The answer lies with the one who ignited the fire at the beginning. I have judged your case to be so. Go seek answers from the source of misery. Therein lies your cure.