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Tuushi wrote:No one.It is what the modern society is facing.

Choices we make dont always work.More Somalis need to understand marriage is not for everyone or a must.Your life can still have a purpose without feeling useless for not being married.

We also live in a time where quick gratification is needed.No patience and no one wants to work hard for much.There are other things and options.

this is what I was trying to explain here for years now. people have options and you do not have to understand it or make sense to you but it's option out there and people have right to look outside the norm for their own situations. how hard some one to understand it?

back to the topic; the reason in my opinion, many people who are not mature enough and commited marrying just cause; I want hold my kid first time, logic or I want to have sex!!!

and once the shit hits the fan they check out!! I know I would if those were my reasons. the lust excitement will end soon or later and the new born kid excitement will fade with time.... what else to keep you together? commitments and taking stand of your choices and face the consequences and not being happy!!

if married people addressed the issues and sat down to talk about said issues I think a lot of marriages could've been saved.

if you have something bothering you say OUT LOUD don't hold it back you can't expect the other person to know what's bothering you...communicate xooloyahow

both men and women are to blame.