traditional girls Vs nontraditional girls

[Naaima]

Salam alaikum

what do guys REALLY think about triditional girls and nontriditional girls and which do you prefer brothers? and why?

girls: which one are you? and why are you not the other?

traditional girl: the one who cook, clean the house, do everything her husband tells her to do and worship his every word.
she use her brain and thinks before she makes a decision she is a girl of virtue and values. ..she has a plan of action for her life. she is one who goes to the local masjid and marriage is of top priority on her list...education is of up most importance...she values her parents opinion in everything .. and the girl who respect herself!

i think myself a lot of men like this as it makes them feel masculine and worthy

nontraditional girl: the one who do the opposite , she is very bussy, she can be well educated , marriage is not of the prioroty on her list, girl that go out to the aroos’s and club every single weekend and so one ...!!

[Gedo_Boy]

as one of my Somali friends at work says:

"Gabar fiican waa la guursada.....gabar xun waa la la baashaalaa"


I will prefer to marry a "traditional" girl if that means a girl who has good daqan, deen, and wants to educate herself.

[somalinetguy]

[quote="Naaima"]Salam alaikum

what do guys REALLY think about triditional girls and nontriditional girls and which do you prefer brothers? and why?

girls: which one are you? and why are you not the other?

traditional girl: do everything her husband tells her to do.

[/quote]


no contest , "do everything her husband tells her to do." is enough to tip the balance towards the traditional girl

[*Arabman]

[what do guys REALLY think about triditional girls and nontriditional girls and which do you prefer brothers? and why?]

I prefer traditional girls, because they obey the teachings of Islam.

[muktaar]

traditonal girl all the way.. as for non tradtitonal girls brain dead adoons like baller#1 can have them all day all nite if u ask me

[Madmadoobe]

Ofcourse traditional girls . Only problem is they might slap you if you ask them to give you a blow job, but in life there is always some sacrifices you have to make.

[muktaar]

[quote="Madmadoobe"]Ofcourse traditional girls . Only problem is they might slap you if you ask them to give you a blow job, but in

life there is always some sacrifices you have to make. [/quote]


u dont need the mother of ur kids to be giving u no blow job , blud.... go around the corner and hire a hooker for that

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Naima,

You already made our decisions for us. Your made an indepth comment of the traditional chick, whreas you threw carelessly two lines about the other one. Your poll is biased.

Mind to do it again? and this time give some pointers to the non-tradionalist.

[Madmadoobe]

[quote="muktaar"][quote="Madmadoobe"]Ofcourse traditional girls . Only problem is they might slap you if you ask them to give you a blow job, but in

life there is always some sacrifices you have to make. [/quote]


u dont need the mother of ur kids to be giving u no blow job , blud.... go around the corner and hire a hooker for that[/quote

Well muktaar the only obstacle is if your a married man you should be loyal to your wife, lol.

[Qumanyoo]

a lot of traditional ppl put tradition before deen tho...

i love culture but to a certain extent...old skool anyday

[SummerRain]

Naaima,

You are not being fair to the Non traditional girls, abaayo, otherwise your question should be " DO you prefer the good girl or the slut? You need to be a little open about the Non-traditional girls in the sense that usually, they are the ones who might not be 110% what the typical SOmali man would prefer but they're the more educated of the two. They are career focus and accomplish things on their own and have greater goals. They view married as a 50/50 responsibility even with household chors like cooking, cleaning and feeding the kids. They are the ones who hold a 9-5 jobs and still play the mother/wife role. They might occasionally to go with their girlfriends to the movies or dinner and in the meantime expect their husbands to look after the kids for the night.

[Hyperactive]

I prefer old fashion girl.

[Naaima]

[quote="Ismahan123"]Naaima,

You are not being fair to the Non traditional girls, abaayo, otherwise your question should be " DO you prefer the good girl or the slut? You need to be a little open about the Non-traditional girls in the sense that usually, they are the ones who might not be 110% what the typical SOmali man would prefer but they're the more educated of the two. They are career focus and accomplish things on their own and have greater goals. They view married as a 50/50 responsibility even with household chors like cooking, cleaning and feeding the kids. They are the ones who hold a 9-5 jobs and still play the mother/wife role. They might occasionally to go with their girlfriends to the movies or dinner and in the meantime expect their husbands to look after the kids for the night.[/quote]


faire aa!! , anyway i agree what you wrote about the nontraditional sisters...

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[quote="Ismahan123"]Naaima,

You are not being fair to the Non traditional girls, abaayo, otherwise your question should be " DO you prefer the good girl or the slut? You need to be a little open about the Non-traditional girls in the sense that usually, they are the ones who might not be 110% what the typical SOmali man would prefer but they're the more educated of the two. They are career focus and accomplish things on their own and have greater goals. They view married as a 50/50 responsibility even with household chors like cooking, cleaning and feeding the kids. They are the ones who hold a 9-5 jobs and still play the mother/wife role. They might occasionally to go with their girlfriends to the movies or dinner and in the meantime expect their husbands to look after the kids for the night.[/quote]

Totally agree....I follow my values, but I like to keep my independence & would never depend on a man...I've heard of a lot of women suffer because they kids are starving & the guy (who's cheap on her) spends the money on drugs.

[SummerRain]

[quote="Naaima"][quote="Ismahan123"]Naaima,

You are not being fair to the Non traditional girls, abaayo, otherwise your question should be " DO you prefer the good girl or the slut? You need to be a little open about the Non-traditional girls in the sense that usually, they are the ones who might not be 110% what the typical SOmali man would prefer but they're the more educated of the two. They are career focus and accomplish things on their own and have greater goals. They view married as a 50/50 responsibility even with household chors like cooking, cleaning and feeding the kids. They are the ones who hold a 9-5 jobs and still play the mother/wife role. They might occasionally to go with their girlfriends to the movies or dinner and in the meantime expect their husbands to look after the kids for the night.[/quote]


faire aa!! , anyway i agree what you wrote about the nontraditional sisters...[/quote]

Can you tell which one of the two I am now ?