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The best solution for two people who love each other is marriage. This interesting excerpt is for anyone who falls in love but cannot marry for whatever reasons and yet do not involve in any sin. This is an excerpt from The Maidens of Paradise by Sheikh Zubair.

Ibn Abbas (rad) narrates that Prophet Muhammed (saw) said, “The person who falls in love, remains chaste, conceals this [from others], and dies is a martyr (shahid).”
[Some scholars have classified this hadith as weak. The famous scholar, Imam Nawawi in his introduction to the ‘arbain’ (40 hadith) that the scholars have agreed on the permissibility of using weak hadith for describing the virtues of actions. And Nothing is difficult to Allah]

Munawi explains that the love mentioned in the above hadith refers to a love with someone with whom marriage is possible and it is such a severe love that it affects the state of mind. Although this love could occur because of looking and hearing, this is not necessary because Allah can place this love in a person’s heart without any apparent cause. The person who remains chaste despite being afflicted by this severe love and thereafter dies will receive the reward of a martyr in the hereafter. The rank of a person who remains chaste is similar to the rank of a person who dies in fighting in the path of Allah because both have sacrificed their pleasure for the sake of Allah. Just as a fighter sacrificed his life for the upliftment of the religion of Allah, the chaste person strived against his desires for the sake of Allah. The youth especially should strive to remain chaste in order to gain this virtue.
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Lil Cutiee.. Thanks 4 Dat Siss

Very Interestinggg...

I fort falling in love in Islam was haraam??

Ladie_x

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[quote="Ladie"]Lil Cutiee.. Thanks 4 Dat Siss

Very Interestinggg...

I fort falling in love in Islam was haraam??

Ladie_x[/quote]



You welcome sis, no baranbaro.

Falling in love is an emotion, it's something we can not control walal and it's something Allah has blessed with us, to love one another and care for eachother. It's how you go about it that could possibly LEAD to Haraam.. & My Allah protect us from any of that. Aameen. (Marriage is obviously the answer.. Looool)
It shows a weak Iman, and it could be posioneous and Shirk (which is one of the biggest sins if not the biggest)..SubxanaAllah! But I see what you are trying to say because--the only person we are meant to Love is Allah swt.



Think of it like this--Someone very wise told me ;
Yes, We are meant to Love Allah swt the best we can by commiting ourselves to his orders soley in worship....When you are not obsessed with Allah, obey him, are truthful to him and yourself, insuring that you are continuously running away from haraam and to halal, aways seeking forgivness and Allah's pleasure, believing in the Qur'aan and the sunnah of the rusullah and trying to impliment that in your everyday actions!!-------SUBXANALLAH------You become Obsessed with other things, or example; another person, you spend too much time with them occupying yourself with them, fixing your day around them, when you should be fixing your time around prayer, care for them more than yourself and allah, work for them which is causing sin and instead of deeds, appricate them in a way that you are almost obeying thier every word as if they are a saint, like worshiping them...etc. It may not be something we are aware of but something the Shaydaan can easily manipulate. So we need to be careful. InshaAllah.

“He is with you (by His Knowledge) wherever you may be. And Allaah is the All-Seer of what you do.” (Al-Hadeed 57:4)

So Why then shouldn't we be more involved with our creater-- the All-Knowing, All-Seeing and be with him at all times in our thoughts and actions, instead of someone/guy/girl who may spare a thought for us '..every now and then'. Trust me, no one will ever care for us as much as Allah swt (the next closest person is your mother btw )...So Alxamdulilah!!


Not only another person, but it could be said for other material things in this dunya, i.e MONEY!! Which is another big posionous factor in the Illness's of the Heart.



Perhaps I didn't explain it properly, but..InshaAllah you got my point.It's about getting your priorities right.

The Hadeeth shows anyone who puts his feelings aside and however strong they are puts Allah first ALWAYS.. MashaAllah TabarakAllah..

nice post ...

Mahadsaniid, thanks for reading Qum. May Allah reward you for it. Aameen.

[quote="Ladie"]Lil Cutiee.. Thanks 4 Dat Siss

Very Interestinggg...

I fort falling in love in Islam was haraam??

Ladie_x[/quote]

AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA

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& Most relevent to this topic;
AL-WADUD -------- THE LOVING ONE!!


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salaam alykum,
in the deen of islam-love comes after marriage!

thank u so m uch for sharin ur knowledge wit us sistere!
N MAY ALLAH AL-MIGHTY 4GIVE US 4 OUR SINS
N MAY HE BLESS U!
SALAM

Aameen.

It's the knowledge that comes with Al-Islam

I KNOW FALLIN IN 'LOVE' IS NOT HARAM
BUT WAT CUMES AFTA IT IS!
BUT SUMTYMS U JUS CANT HELP IT;
MY PROBLEM IS I ALWAYS FALL FOR DA RONG GUYS
DA BAD ONES DAT I KNOW WILL BREAK MY HEART! I GUESS I MUST TINK I'LL CHANGE DEM! LOL
NEWAYS AT DIS PRECISE MOMENT I REALLY LYK DIS GUY DAT GOES 2 MY COLLEGE, ME N HIM R REALLY GUD FRIENDS N WE TALK BOUT EVERYTIN N ANYTING! N LATELY WE'V SPENT SO MUCH TYM TOGETHER, N WENA EVA WE TALK HES ALWAYS TELLIN ME DAT HES NOT LOOKIN 4 SUMIN SERIOUS!!!! N I TINK HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM, COZ IM SOOO BAIT! BUT D ODA DAY WE WERE PLAY FIGHTIN N DEN HE TOLD ME DAT HE REALLY LYKES ME......
I JUS LOOKED AT HIM IN SHOCK! I TINK HE EXPECTED ME 2 SAY ME2 BUT I JUS CULDNT SAY IT!!!! DNT KNW Y!
NEWAYS NOW WE HARDLY TALK I TRY N AVOID HIM COZ I KNOW DEEP DOWN DAT IF I SHOW HIM HOW I FEEL HE'LL SUMHOW BREAK MY HEART EVEN IF HE DOESNT MEAN 2!!!!!!!!!!!

WAT SHULD I DO FORGET HIM OR JUS TAKE A RISK??????????

FALL IN LOVE

HAHAHAH


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