Learn to criticize without hurting

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Learn to criticize without hurting

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The way some Muslims criticize each other, you'd think they were talking to an Islam-basher instead of a fellow brother or sister. This type of ignorant behavior is a sure way to create anger, hurt and dissension. It is no route towards unity.

We must learn the Adab (etiquette) of criticism, whether it is towards individual Muslims or our leaders. Knowing and implementing this will not only help solve problems in a practical manner, but it will also lead to a greater sense of brother and sisterhood in the community.

If you feel that your criticism of someone in the past was rude or hurtful, please go back and apologize to them. Before you do that, pray for that brother or sister, since the Prophet has said that Dua increases love between people.
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NEWBOI IM SORYY WILL U 4GIVE ME Sad
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Newboi im sorry for bullyin u..... Very Happy Very Happy

no hard feelins....rite Mr. Green
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newboi I swear I didnt mean it......
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[quote="Xplosive_playa"]Newboi im sorry for bullyin u..... Very Happy Very Happy

no hard feelins....rite Mr. Green[/quote]


IM SORRY 2 U TO

IF I EVER OFFENED U IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM Smile
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[quote="xamari_gash"][quote="Xplosive_playa"]Newboi im sorry for bullyin u..... Very Happy Very Happy

no hard feelins....rite Mr. Green[/quote]


IM SORRY 2 U TO

IF I EVER OFFENED U IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM Smile[/quote]


say it like u mean it...... Laughing Laughing Laughing
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i guess ill have 2 stop. Sad
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I DO

CROSS MY HEART AND HOPE 2 LOOSE MY
INTERENT CONNECTION Cool
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[quote="xamari_gash"]I DO

CROSS MY HEART AND HOPE 2 LOOSE MY
INTERENT CONNECTION Cool[/quote]


that sounds sooooooooooooo wrong!! Laughing
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[quote="Xplosive_playa"][quote="xamari_gash"]I DO

CROSS MY HEART AND HOPE 2 LOOSE MY
INTERENT CONNECTION Cool[/quote]


that sounds sooooooooooooo wrong!! Laughing[/quote]

IN WAH WAY MY LOVE Very Happy
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first of all i aint ur LOVE!!.......... Shocked

but only chrsitains say cross my heart!!

plz reframe from usin it... Laughing
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oh im sorry for evryting ive said, and will say that will offend u... YES ... you Mr. Green
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Whoever reads this....... im sincerely sorry if i HURT ur feelings in any form or way...plz find it in ur heart to forgive me... Very Happy
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Okie sorry,, if I offended anyone plz give me Im only a human being wit feelings Rolling Eyes
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[quote="Xplosive_playa"]first of all i aint ur LOVE!!.......... Shocked

but only chrsitains say cross my heart!!

plz reframe from usin it... Laughing[/quote]


SOULMATE Rolling Eyes
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