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Before it is too late...

Usually men are ok with their In-laws..specially with their father-mother-in-laws...

Some chicks happen to hate their in-laws....

I would say kick her out if she is not comfortable with your own parents...First study the reason...if she wants you to be ok with her parents and she does not want to be ok with your parents...Aren't you an Idiot to accept that?????

Wallaahay I say kick her out....

WHY .......if you are married with a guy and his family hates you that is not her foult.

You are right. Sometimes, the mothers are the jealous ones. They are thinking that their son found a woman to cook, clean, and treat him right and she is under the impression that she cannot compete with her daughter-in-law. It's natural lol. I blame the habraha! Wey yara waalanyihiin.

i had a gurlfriend i wanted to marry her but my mother hated the gurl so the gurl is gone

eeyaahee kam,

are u addressing the faraxs?? jesus fries...dee since when u on their camp? kick her out kulahaa. bisinka

calaa kuli xaal this is a matter better left between faraxs...let em' discuss anything with "kick her out" connetations fahamtu my dear??...adiguna labadaada naaso xaajadaas kala dhexbax baan ku idhi.

[quote="zulaika"]eeyaahee kam,

are u addressing the faraxs?? jesus fries...dee since when u on their camp? kick her out kulahaa. bisinka

calaa kuli xaal this is a matter better left between faraxs...let em' discuss anything with "kick her out" connetations fahamtu my dear??...adiguna labadaada naaso xaajadaas kala dhexbax baan ku idhi. [/quote]

Folks,

I know about the jealous mothers..I know how some people are just wicked...That is why I said he needs to study first.....

But what I am talking about is the majority of the hate relationship between the in-laws that comes from the pride...Some times they even say " I don't want a guy whose mother is alife" Why not? Why does she want his mom to die? Mothers and dads from both sides should be treated equally...

It is not fair to call your mother in law " Duqdii, habartii, islaantii dhashay ninka" while he calls your mom "Maama ama hooyo"... Bal u fiirsada Ilaahbaan idinku dhaarshee...Most of the time, men respect their mother in laws.

If you don't have a soft spot for both parents.. I don't care if you are kicked out walaahay...It does not hurt if you humble yourself to your parents ( including your in-laws)