MUKTAR YOUR WAY IS WRONG

[Lacageylacag]

Few somali women go cheap and commit zinna with black people. These black guys are the only ones who give attention anyway. the white, Asian, etc, go for their races mostly. It is not that the ladies have preferance for blacks guys.
That is no excuse to feel insecure and insult a whole noble race(the black race).

Remember the somali mah mah: walasha iskumo hubtide seedigaa haa coleysan.

There will always be cheap somali women in this world. Even in Xamar. so don't get your macwis in a twist.

CALLING TO CHASTITY

The way of muktar is a transgression and the worst approach islamically.

Allah(subhana wa tacala) could humiliate us and give those "adoons" the ability to rape the sisters infront of us as a punishment for this wrong aproach muktar is playing.

And the Saying of Allaah (which means): “Invite to the way of your ALLAH with wisdom and fair preaching and argue with them in a way that is better” [Quran 16:125].

In order for the one who is propagating CHASTITY to achieve positive results in his mission, he should fulfil the following two matters:

1) Propagating based on sure knowledge: Allaah Says (what means): “Say, this is my way , I invite on to Allaah with sure knowledge, me and whosoever follows me and exalted is Allaah and I am not one of the polytheist" [Quran 12:108]. It is necessary for all those who desire to call to CHASTITY to have sure knowledge regarding the matter and issue of propagation and inviting to Allaah. Some people indulge themselves in the field of propagation without possessing any knowledge.

Some scholars said that sure knowledge is divided into three parts:

a) Knowing what one is inviting to(chastity)

b) Knowing the situation of the one invited.

c) Knowing how to invite

First: Knowing what one is inviting to; the propagator must know the Islamic ruling on the issue he is calling to, because he might call to something thinking that it is an obligation while it is not, and thus obligates people with something that Allaah did not oblige them with. Or he might warn against something thinking that it is prohibited while it is not, and so on. Therefore, knowing what one is calling the people to is a vital issue.

Second: Knowing the situation of the invited: the evidence for the importance of this issue is the narration of Mu’aath when the Prophet sent him to Yemen, he said to him: “You are approaching a group form the people of the book , so let the first thing you call them to be the testimony that none is worthy of beiong worshipped but Allaah”. Notice that he informed him about the situation of those whom he will be calling, so Mu’aath, may Allaah be pleqased with him, would be prepared and be acquainted with their situation and how he should approach them. It is a mistake that a person invites or calls another person not knowing his situation, his arguments, the kind of falsehood he is on or what he believes in, because he (i.e. the one being called) might present an argument which the Muslim propagator does not have an answer to, which results in the retreat of the truth.

Third: Knowing how to invite: This refers to the methods of propagation, as Allaah did not leave the matter up to us, but he guided us to the ideal way. The Prophet also guided us how to priorities things which leads us to the second issue.

2) Adopting a wise method of calling people: One of the Names of Allaah is Al-Hakeem, which implies wisdom, and it is mentioned many times in the Quran in connection to knowledge. Allaah knows all matters and decrees everything according to His knowledge, based on what is best for the given situation and what will yield the greatest benefit to His slaves. He is the Most Wise and Most Knowledgeable in His words, actions, sayings and rulings.

A wise person is he who places the correct matter in the most suitable place or situation, as defeined by Imaam Ibn Al-Qayyim . This can be attributed, in its perfect form, only to Allaah, as He is the only One who is All-Knowledgeable of everything and the Most Wise in His decrees and rulings.

One of the things that reflect the wisdom of the caller to Islam is his basing his call on knowledge, because wisdom is derived from knowledge, as Allaah says (what means): “Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom…” [Quran 16:125]. What is the understanding and the proper definition of wisdom.

Selecting the correct method along with the appropriate words is another matter that reflects wisdom in the caller. He should address people in a comprehensible manner, to facilitate understanding on the part of those called.

For example, one should not talk to people about the virtue of optionally fasting three days every month while they do not observe the fast during the month of Ramadhaan, and so on.

Thus, a propagator of Islam should be mindful of these matters when calling people to the path of Allaah, lest he drives them away due to a shortage in any of them.


Allah knows best.

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