60 Ways to Keep Your Wife’s Love - Guaranteed
Ahmed Shehab guarantees in this video lecture that these are some of the ways to keep your wife’s love.
1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce
2. Give sincere salaams
3. Treat her gently - like a fragile vessel
4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere
5. Be generous with her
6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart
7. Avoid anger, keep wudu at all times
8. Look good and smell great for your wife
9. Don’t be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken
10. Be a good listener
11. Yes for flattery, No for arguing
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear
13. Utilize pleasant surprises
14. Preserve and guard the tongue
15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings
16. Give sincere compliments
17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family
18. Speak about topics that interest her
19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is
20. Give each other gifts
21. Get rid of routine, surprise her
22. Have a good opinion of each other
23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick
24. Add a drop of patience, increase drops during pregnancy, menses
25. Expect and respect her jealously
26. Be humble
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers
28. Help at home and with housework
29. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her
30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you
31. Remember your wife in dua
32. Leave the past for Allah subhanahu wa ta ala, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
33. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family
34. Take shaytaan as your enemy, not your wife
35. Put food in your wife’s mouth
36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect
37. Show her your smile
38. Don’t ignore the small things, deal with them before they become big
39. Avoid being harsh-hearted
40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking
41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills
42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within halal boundaries
43. Help her take care of the children
44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments
45. Sit down and eat meals together
46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice
47. Don’t leave home in anger
48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home
49. Encourage each other in ibaadat
50. Respect and fulfill her rights upon you
51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times
52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, “Don’t jump on her like a bull”
53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside
54. Show care for her health and well-being
55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself
56. Share your happiness and sadness with her
57. Have mercy for her weaknesses
58. Be a firm support for her to lean on
59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal
60. Have a good intention for her
60 Ways to Keep Your Wife’s Love - GUARANTEED!
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Re: 60 Ways to Keep Your Wife’s Love - GUARANTEED!
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers
14. Preserve and guard the tongue
10. Be a good listener
35. Put food in your wife’s mouth
loooooooooooooooooooool
do u realy think a somali man would do that
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers
14. Preserve and guard the tongue
10. Be a good listener
35. Put food in your wife’s mouth
loooooooooooooooooooool

do u realy think a somali man would do that

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Re: 60 Ways to Keep Your Wife’s Love - GUARANTEED!
Do you think I might be the first somali man to even post something like this???
anyway we do better things than that but only in private.



anyway we do better things than that but only in private.
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Re: 60 Ways to Keep Your Wife’s Love - GUARANTEED!
60 ways
Then there are serious problems in the marriage.
Cuz otherwise, there would be one way to keep that love..not 60

Then there are serious problems in the marriage.
Cuz otherwise, there would be one way to keep that love..not 60

Re: 60 Ways to Keep Your Wife’s Love - GUARANTEED!
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If all somali men did that it would be no divorces or unhappy marriges dear...marka you guys have to change before it's to late
If all somali men did that it would be no divorces or unhappy marriges dear...marka you guys have to change before it's to late
