ARE YOUR FRIENDS TRUE MUSLIMS?

[HELWAA]

Asalaam aleykum



In an authentic Hadith, Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) said: "Man is influenced by the faith of his friends. Therefore, be careful of whom you associate with."

Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) who has the most noble character and dealings with fellow humans gave us a very clear and simple message and advice in regard to friendship.

How should we choose our friends? We should choose the friend that believes and abide by our religion (Islam) and gives great respect to what Allah (SWT) and Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) has ordered us. And we should stay away from that who is not well mannered and gives no attention to what Islam is about or what pleases or displeases Allah (SWT), for he will surely affect us negatively. There is no good in the companion drowns us in sins and displeasing Allah (SWT).

In another Hadith, Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) said: "The example of a good companion and a bad companion is like that of the seller of musk, and the one who blows the blacksmith's bellows. So as for the seller of musk then either he will grant you some, or you buy some from him, or at least you enjoy a pleasant smell from him. As for the one who blows the blacksmith's bellows then either he will burn your clothes or you will get an offensive smell from him."

When choosing our friends we should ask ourselves first: Are they going to help us achieve the purpose for which we were brought to life? Or will they take us away from it? Will they desire for us Allah (SWT)'s pleasure or is that completely irrelevant to them and not their concern at all? Are they leading us to Paradise or to the Hell?

Just think about that

[biko]

muslims and christians.

what about you babushka?

[*Arabman]

This means we should befriend the wadaads and stay away from the ilbax. Couldn't agree more.

[HELWAA]

Exactly Arabman we should surround us by good pple who fear allah and show us our foults.somali pple say if you want to get know a person look att his friends.

Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) stated, "The believer is like a mirror to other believers (in truthfulness)." Like a mirror, your friend gives you an honest image. He forgives your mistakes, but does not hide or exaggerate your strengths and weaknesses.



Once the Prophet Mohammad (pbuh) was asked, "What person can be the best friend?" "He who helps you remember Allah (SWT), and reminds you when you forget Him," the Prophet Mohammad (pbuh), counseled.

[biko]

[quote="HELWAA"]somali pple say if you want to get know a person look att his friends.

quote]


somalis also butcher each other at the drop of a hat.

somalis rape and murder under the authority of qabil.

so why knock on the christian when obviously your fellow farax is your worst enemy and the reason your in the west?

i love your innocence babushka!

[HELWAA]

Leave it to allah to judge baki boy, you will always be a somali no matter how much you hate them.Meelna dadkaaga kama tageysid ee be proud of your nationality.

[biko]

am more prouder of my nationality than any somalis i know of. including you who despise somali men with your constant hidden and under-handed remarks.

[HELWAA]

When did i say i hate somali men, remember yoma al akhira kilmada waa lagu waydiin ee think about what you say yariiso

[biko]

oh, so sudenly we got amnesia?

[HELWAA]

niicda kala bax meesha ayaan ko iri, this thread was about friends so stop changing the topic.


ps- This is my last reply to you nacas yaho micido ko horeysa

[TheBigBosS]

i only hang out with muslims but not all are practising

[biko]

[quote="HELWAA"]niicda kala bax meesha ayaan ko iri, this thread was about friends so stop changing the topic.


ps- This is my last reply to you nacas yaho micido ko horeysa [/quote]


already resulting to insult and childish behaviour. i rest my case.


Ps. no matter how deep your hate goes, oday somaliya ba ku dhalay yarey.

[Hyperactive]

Nin an tokan maba la sahibo. Salat teyda nin i segiyo ma rabo. Even kowan an tokan hadey illa faris tan masjid ka ban ko hira.

[zulaika]

biko,

helwaa ain't no farax hater..quit buggin' on her waryaa..

hyper,

again...huuno please do something about your somali..goodness i thought practice makes perfect but you're getting worse.

[Hyperactive]

ol zulaika, inshaaalh i'm getting there, patient my dear sister.lol